Men are incompetent, you can see it at a glance The three characteristics of unproductive men

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-31

And those men who are not productive often have the following characteristics.

Get by and get by, no goal

We always say that if we are not afraid that men are poor, we are afraid that men will not be motivated. A motivated and hard-working man, even if the current economic conditions are not good, can always strive to create a better life for his family through his own hands. And men who have no interest are often goalless, and will only have to get by and live a chaotic life, live a day, count a day. It's obvious that he is not motivated, but he says that this is a stable life in this world, and a plain life is a blessing. Action is lazy, language is powerful, and it will only brag about itself to others, using words to hide the inadequacy and powerlessness of one's heart. They like to wave the halo of others to cover up their incompetence, but in fact, they deceive themselves and others, and expose their inferiority and cowardice. I once heard a saying:Those who are not motivated and live well are nothing more than sucking the blood of those closest to them, either with enough blood from their relatives, or with a hard heart. A man who gets by is like a swamp, not only will it drag down the family and make you physically and mentally exhausted, but it will also slowly wear out your patience with life and make you live without any hope. Marriage is to find someone to be in the same boat together, face the ups and downs of life together, and create a happy family together. Negative attitude and only complainsAlbert Einstein said, "The strong never complain about life." And an incompetent man is always bursting with negative energy, and his first reaction when encountering things is not to solve the problem, but to complain. During a long vacation, we were stuck in traffic and my husband in the car next door kept complaining: "I knew I wouldn't take this road." "What kind of broken car to drive home, everyone is home at this time when they take the high-speed rail." "Tsk, what's going on this way?".How long will it take to block?”.The wife held the child and finally couldn't bear it anymore, and said to the man: "Can you keep your mouth shut, don't keep complaining, no matter how annoying the traffic jam is, it's not as annoying as your complaints." "In fact, at the end of the day, complaining is actually a powerless thing. Just like a traffic jam, we can't change this status quo, complaining has no effect except to make yourself more and more angry and affect the emotions of the people around you, but will make your state worse and worse. It's like what is written in "Out of the Sail":People are always easily hypnotized by what they say, and I am afraid that many of the complaints you always have on your lips will become all your life. Complaining is like a poison that will poison the sweetness of marriage and the hope of life, and a man who loves to complain is a disaster for the family. Irresponsible, unaccountableThe most important thing for a man is responsibility and responsibility, an irresponsible man cannot become the pillar of the family, he will only disappear and escape when you need him. There is a couple in "Marriage Defense War", the husband wants to open a store when he sees others opening a store to make money, and the wife takes out all her savings without saying a word in order to support her husband, and even takes out a loan. But because of poor management, the hotel closed down, not only did not make money, but owed a lot of debt, the bank demanded money every day, and the child was sick and hospitalized, which needed both care and medical expenses. And this husband not only put the responsibility on his wife, but also cowardly hid and left everything to his wife to bear. The writer George Bernard Shaw said:"The relationship between husband and wife after marriage is not a one-sided request and give, but must be done to the best of their ability, each to the fullest. ”Life is full of stress, and only when husband and wife work together and take responsibility together can they create stable and long-term happiness. And a man who has no responsibility will only hide behind you when trouble comes, such an incompetent man will not only not be able to rely on you, but will also make your life a mess and make things go wrong everywhere. Written at the end: Professor Xue Zhaofeng said:"Getting married is to run a family business, and signing it is a lifelong wholesale contract, and both parties pick up their own resources to run a business together. At this time, the resource packages given by both men and women are different, with body, fertility, appearance, family relationships, and their own future growth potential. "A real man is motivated rather than lazy, optimistic rather than negative, responsible rather than cowardly. If you are a man, I hope you can become such a real man, and if you are a woman, I hope you can meet such a real man and enter the palace of marriage.

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