The 50-year-old uncle's most ruthless revenge on his cheating ex-wife is this sentence that his son said when he got married
Marriage is one of the most complex forms of interpersonal relationships. In this relationship, the blood bond can never be changed, and the blood bond between parents and children is eternal, no matter how many difficulties are experienced. However, the human mind is often fickle.
A fifty-year-old Uncle Liang divorced ten years ago because of his ex-wife's cheating. But when he raised his son alone and witnessed his son's wedding, he didn't expect that his ex-wife would also want to appear at his son's wedding banquet and want to have a family with his new daughter-in-law. However, Uncle Liang did not allow his ex-wife to get her wish. When his ex-wife appeared aggressively, Uncle Liang's son showed maturity and wisdom beyond his years, giving his biological mother a profound lesson.
Uncle Liang's 50-year-old mental journey: A long time ago, it was difficult for me to recall exactly whether it was in 2012 or 2013, when my ex-wife cheated. But now, those things seem as far away.
At that time, my son was in junior high school in the countryside, my daughter was still in elementary school, and I was struggling to make a living in the countryside, barely earning two or three thousand yuan a month.
My ex-wife always disliked me for being incompetent, and we often quarreled. She reprimanded me for being incompetent, saying that my cousins had bought houses in the city, but I was the only one who couldn't afford them.
I gradually became numb to my ex-wife's scolding. But what I didn't expect was that when she was in a bad mood, she couldn't even look at the children.
Later, she had an affair with her boss, but I didn't know anything about it, until her boss's wife came to the house to accuse her, and I was ashamed of that scene.
Because this incident caused a lot of uproar, the people around came to watch for free. It was Saturday and both children were home.
In the face of the ridicule and insults of the woman who was flushed with anger, I was speechless and could only swallow my anger.
Later, the ex-wife somehow divorced her boss and was ready to take her to her hometown in another province.
She wanted a divorce, but the two children cried and begged her not to leave. I used to think that if she could stay for the sake of the child, maybe I could forgive her for once.
Still, she insisted on leaving. After she got the divorce certificate, she got into her boss's car and left.
Since that day, my children and I have never mentioned her again, as if there was a tacit agreement.
When I stepped into the city and started my business, I started with the simplest barbecue stands. Maybe it's luck, maybe it's the unwillingness to be mediocre in my heart, I am fully committed and diligent. In three years, I earned more than one million.
Men get rich, sometimes in just a few years.
I bought a car worth 200,000 yuan and used the rest of the money to set up a small factory.
At the age of 43, I met a long-cherished woman, Ah Yan, who was only 28 years old.
I know that I am a big man with two children. And Ah Yan is so delicate, young and beautiful.
When we met, she had just been abandoned by her ex-boyfriend. I took great care of her, both in money and in material terms, and I tried my best to satisfy her. She longs for a car, and I'm about to give it away.
Finally, my sincerity touched her, and she was willing to marry me.
She had a down payment on the house before we met, and I took care of the mortgage after we got married, and I didn't care about the name of the house.
When it comes to love, I have always been serious, extremely serious. I promised her that I would love her with all my might, but she would not fail me.
She claimed to be just as serious about me and didn't mind my two children.
She does what she says she will and gets along with my children like friends.
Knowing that she is young and inevitably playful, and there are many suitors, I often check the post. As long as she wasn't around, I searched for it, for I was afraid of losing it again.
Until the third year of marriage, she gave birth to a son for me, and I still didn't dare to slack off.
At that time, I had amassed enough wealth to buy her a car worth five or six hundred thousand yuan.
We have a deep relationship, and Ah Yan is also considerate to my two children, especially my daughter, who treats her as a confidant, and confides in her about love and breakups.
Perhaps out of trust in her, I left the children in her hands, and she took care of the expenses and daily chores, while I focused on making money.
My ex-wife's two children are smart and witty, and they know that I dot on her, so I also accept her as a new mother.
Because she will take them on vacations to Harbin in the snow, visit Tiananmen Square in Beijing, taste hot pot in Chongqing, and see giant pandas in Sichuan.
The children felt that the new mother had broadened their horizons and given them a glimpse of the wider world.
When her son took the driver's license test, Ah Yan personally guided him for three months, imparting exam skills, and fortunately, he passed all subjects in one attempt.
After graduating from college, my son returned to the city to work, and when I talked about my girlfriend, Ah Yan didn't wait for me to say anything, so I used the money to help him buy a house.
Fortunately, the housing price in our place is not high, 500,000 yuan is enough for a suite.
As my son's wedding approached, I watched as Ah Yan was busy preparing for the whole thing. She not only generously sponsored them to go to Hainan to take wedding photos, but also arranged details such as the venue and dishes of the banquet.
However, on the day of the wedding, something unexpected happened to me - my ex-wife actually appeared.
She was very different from the past, but at the age of fifty she looked old, with gray hair and modest dress.
The grievances of that year came back to my heart, and I angrily kicked her out of the banquet hall. But she insisted that she had the right to attend her son's wedding.
Her attitude was as violent as ever, but I didn't want to put up with her arrogance any longer. Just as I was about to respond, my son showed up.
You're not my mother anymore, the one who is hosting guests is my real mother!He pointed at Ah Yan and said.
I was shocked that my son would treat his biological mother like this.
But I am also glad that he can distinguish between right and wrong and know how to be grateful.
Ah Yan is very good to their brother and sister, and if he behaves warmer to his biological mother at the wedding ceremony, it will be a chill in Ah Yan's heart.
You once raised me, but our mother-son relationship was broken by the time you left. We don't have to do anything anymore, my child's grandma won't be you!The son said.
That's right, please don't come to my wedding in the future, we have nothing to do with you for a long time. "My daughter also stood beside us and said to my ex-wife.
The ex-wife looked at her son and daughter's firm attitude, was silent for a moment, then cried bitterly for a while, and finally left.
For us, her tears can no longer be moved, because we shed more tears back then.
She chose to leave, but there was no turning back. Now that I'm old and frail, it's too late to come back. Children are in the age of starting a family and do not need a mother to take care of them. They accepted Ah Yan and knew what to do next.
However, Ah Yan is different. She is young and has financial power in her family.
In the end, my son's wedding came to a successful conclusion, and Ah Yan and I entertained the guests together.
Even the new daughter-in-law understands that it is important to have a good relationship with Ah Yan.
The status and self-confidence of a woman in the family are given by men. Whether a family is harmonious or not, the attitude and ability of a man are crucial.
If I just regarded Ah Yan as a housewife and gave some living expenses every month, she would not care so much about my ex-wife's children. No matter what I did, she would accuse me of not being nice enough for her children, thinking that I gave all the money to my ex-wife's children.
Therefore, I left the finances to her. In this way, she will be responsible for the family and not count the money. At the same time, my ex-wife's children and I will depend on her.
Many men remarry and their families fall into disarray, probably because they are defensive about their remarried wives. But if that's the case, how can the other party treat themselves with care?