Books:"The Clever Child Who Can't Sit".
Author: Rabbi.
Publisher: People's Posts and Telecommunications Press.
This book focuses on the growth of "hyperactive children", weakens the disease orientation of "ADHD", and helps such children to be recognized and learn to use their own resources.
It also makes the public aware that this is a special group, and whether they meet the diagnostic criteria for the condition or not, should not affect the way they are viewed and nurtured correctly.
Children who can't sit still generally have two more extreme cognitions, one thinks that "children are born to can't stop", and the other thinks that it is already a "disease".
Parents with these two extremes of cognition usually do not cooperate well with their children's development, and hyperactive children have their own characteristics and personalities.
ADHD is a disorder of executive functioning, and depending on the age group, the right intervention can be carried out to achieve the recovery or improvement of executive function.
Based on the "Eight-step Method of Family Education", differentiated parenting is carried out in the process of parenting.
Step 1: Immediate feedback.
Step 2: Frequent feedback.
Step 3: Highlight feedback.
Step 4: Reward first and then punish.
Step 5: Implement the plan.
Step 6: Keep it continuous.
Step 7: Stay optimistic.
Step 8: Learn to understand.
Note, the reward first and then the punishment must be the part of the reward occupies the majority, and the punishment accounts for a small part, or even does not use.
If encouragement and reminders don't work, then go through a little more.
Of course, the reminder is not verbose, not repeated complaints and chatter, the reminder needs some more interesting content, and the reminder method that can be agreed with the child can be effectively reminded, not ineffective and verbose.
There are 24 fun training games in the book.
Through games, children learn to adapt to the growing environment, solve difficulties and problems, and learn to think independently.
Every game is very interesting, and parents need to improve their understanding and implementation of the game, so that parents can become nurturing parents, so that children can grow up happily through games, play to their strengths, and be recognized.