Time flies, time flies. In the blink of an eye, we have left our alma mater and gone on different paths in life.
In these rapidly changing times, we may already have different careers, families, and lifestyles.
However, those youthful campus days are still vivid, and the friendships of those former classmates are still precious.
In order to relive the youthful years, we hold class reunions from time to time to regain those good memories.
However, there are a few things that we need to avoid in the meeting, especially the last one, which is untouchable. Next, I will analyze these issues based on my own experience and observations.
1. Showing off your accomplishments excessively
At class reunions, we are eager to learn about each other's current situation and share each other's lives and careers.
Some, however, turn the party into a stage to show off their successes and accomplishments, even if they exaggerate.
This kind of behavior will not only be offensive, but it will also make those classmates who are not as mixed up feel embarrassed and uncomfortable.
Everyone has their own life trajectory and achievements, and we should respect each other's choices and efforts instead of highlighting ourselves by belittling others.
2. Talk about sensitive topics
Class reunions should be a light-hearted occasion, and we should try to avoid talking about some sensitive topics such as politics, religion, money, and so on.
These topics can easily lead to controversy and disagreement, affecting the atmosphere of the party and the mood of everyone.
If someone accidentally touches on these topics, we should face them with tolerance and understanding, rather than being overly entangled and arguing.
3. Judge others
At class reunions, we inevitably talk about people and events from the past. Some people will unconsciously judge others, and even make something out of nothing and maliciously slander.
This kind of behavior will not only ruin the atmosphere of the party, but also hurt the feelings of the classmates who are being judged.
We should face past misunderstandings and contradictions with tolerance and understanding, instead of venting our emotions through malicious judgments.
4. Disrespecting the choices of others
Everyone has their own life path and choices, and some may have chosen a different career and lifestyle than everyone else.
At class reunions, some people will disrespect the choices of others, and even ridicule and ridicule.
This kind of behavior can not only make people feel disappointed and angry, but also destroy friendship and trust between classmates.
We should respect each other's choices and decisions, and give each other full support and encouragement.
5. Alcoholism and irresponsible behavior
At class reunions, some people drink excessively or behave irresponsibly, such as driving while intoxicated or sexually harassing others.
These behaviors will not only bring danger and trouble to yourself, but also affect the interests and safety of other students.
We should remain sober and rational and avoid these irresponsible behaviors.
Summary:
Class reunions are a beautiful time to relive your youth and share each other's lives. However, there are some bad behaviors and Xi that we need to avoid in meetings.
Excessive flaunting of one's accomplishments, talking about sensitive topics, judging others, disrespecting the choices of others, and drinking and acting irresponsibly are all things to avoid.
We should face each other's changes and choices with tolerance and understanding, and regain that precious friendship and memory. At the same time, stay sober and sane and enjoy the joy and quality time of the party.