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One step is more important than a stack of programs.
Author: yebo
Recently, there is a hot topic on Douban: 2024 is coming, how should ordinary people fight the risks of life?
There's a popular thread at the bottom: Add value to yourself, don't let yourself expire.
In this ever-changing world, everyone is depreciating over time.
Skills that were popular yesterday may be replaced tomorrow;The experience of the past with certainty may become obsolete in the blink of an eye.
People who stop where they are often the first to go out, and only by forcing yourself to break through can you adapt to survive.
In the new year, it's time to start laying out for yourself.
Today, I would like to share with you 6 self-improvement abilities that will help you stand out in 2024.
The philosopher Carlisle once said:
Even the strongest people, distracted by too many things, may achieve nothing;Conversely, the weakest can achieve something if they concentrate their efforts on a single goal.
Haruki Murakami always maintains such a routine when he writes **:
I get up at 4 a.m. every morning, sit down in front of my computer and start writing, which takes four or five hours to write.
During this time, he saw no one, refused to be disturbed by anything, and simply focused on the task at hand: writing.
It is this kind of concentration that has made him achieve great attainments in creation and become a famous writer.
Emerson said that focusing, loving, and dedicating oneself to what you want will pay off.
In this world, only by eliminating distractions and concentrating all his energy can a person realize his full potential and make some achievements.
In the new year, learn to get rid of all the distractions in your life, focus on what matters most.
How to improve concentration, you might as well take a look at the following 3 points:
1.Set goals, avoid multitasking, and get into the habit of doing one thing at a time
2.Stay away from your phone, try to eliminate distractions from irrelevant information, and concentrate;
3.Make a schedule that clarifies the time spent on each item and gives it your all within the allotted time.
As the saying goes, concentration is achieved, and professionalism is fine.
Only by cultivating concentration and continuing to pay can you cultivate your true skills and slowly widen the gap with others.
Have you ever been in a similar situation in the past year:
I wanted to fill my mind, so I bought a bunch of books, but I didn't open any of themI planned to exercise a good figure and got a fitness card, but I didn't go to the gym once.
Always dreaming and not acting, and as a result, you are always trapped in a bad situation.
Writer Ma Boyong once received a private message from a reader.
This reader asked him for advice: how can I write well and become a writer?
Ma Boyong asked: What have you written?
This reader said: I haven't written yet, I'm still learning, and I've recently been reading John Gleshaw's "Twenty Lectures on Writing Skills."
Hearing this, Ma Boyong said:
It is useless for a person to read a swimming instruction manual before entering the water, because he cannot really feel the pressure and the feeling of floating. You can't learn to swim until you get into the water and swim first. The same is true for writing, before you can write a good work.
Marx once said: "One action is more important than a stack of programs." ”
Whether a person can succeed or not depends not on how high his intelligence and how clever his plan is, but whether you are doing it in a down-to-earth manner.
If you want to improve your mobility, you can refer to these 3 points:
1.Overcome procrastination, finish today, don't leave it for tomorrow;
2.Refuse internal friction, when you decide to do something, don't think about it, and start acting immediately;
3.Set up an incentive mechanism, and appropriately self-motivate yourself for each goal you accomplish to stimulate your enthusiasm for action.
Life doesn't pay you for what you want to do, it only rewards you for seeing what you do.
In 2024, stop wasting your time and energy in hesitation and anxiety.
Learn to improve your execution, as long as you walk on the road, you will get closer and closer to your destination.
Gold medal trainer Xu Xiao said:
Ordinary people can also greatly improve their abilities through training, and the method is simple and easy to use, that is, constantly reviewing. ”
Review is the fastest way for a person to achieve self-growth.
Only through continuous reflection can you discover your own flaws and shortcomings, and then optimize and upgrade them.
Peter Lynch, an investment genius, records detailed data before and after each trade.
After the transaction is completed, he will review and summarize the basis, decision-making, gains and losses of the transaction, etc., to provide reference for future investment.
It is this kind of review of experience again and again that made Lynch counterattack from a young man in a ** brokerage house to a great ** hand.
In the book "Lifelong Growth", it is written: Reflection + Pain = Progress.
People who only focus on burying their heads in the future and do not know how to stop thinking will only fall from this pit of life into another pit.
By reflecting and summarizing your life regularly, you will be able to avoid detours and grow.
In the new year, learn to find out the reasons for every failure and success, accumulate experience, and constantly improve yourself.
Here, I would like to share with you a "KPT three-step review method":
1.k (keep): What are the details and operations that can be maintained?
2.p ( problem): What problems have you encountered, and what needs to be further thought about and solved?
3.t ( try ): What can you try to do?
Always have a heart of self-reflection and always get the joy of diligence.
In 2024, give yourself a few minutes a day to review, turn your experiences into experiences, and continue to strengthen yourself in reflection.
There is a famous caterpillar's law:
Entomologists place many caterpillars on the edge of a pot so that they are end-to-end in a circle.
Although a lot of food is placed not far from the pots, the caterpillars only follow the collective pace, constantly spinning in circles, and eventually die of exhaustion.
It's not like us in life, blindly following the herd?
Seeing that the short ** was on fire, he hurriedly went to do the live broadcast;I heard that ** made money, so I also started **;watched others resign to do e-commerce, and they also plunged into ......
As a result, we become more and more blind, not only do we not learn anything, but we disrupt our own lives.
The human brain is lazy by nature, and under the chaotic sounds of the outside world, once you let down your vigilance, you will be led by the nose by others.
Mark Twain said, "When you find yourself standing with most people, it's time to stop and think for yourself." ”
Blind followers are always exhausted, and only those who can think and have opinions can control their own lives.
In the new year, do the following 3 things to cultivate your thinking power:
1.Be curious, and when you have the will to learn, you will take the initiative to think about the deep reasons behind things and problems;
2.Learn to question and deny, and never trust what you see or hear
3.Ask yourself more questions, and you can ask questions from multiple angles and think about the answers.
Chanel Global CEO Maureen said that the farther you go in the brain, the more stable you will go in reality.
The quality of thinking determines the quality of life.
Learning to free one's mind and develop the habit of deep thinking is the first step in life.
Luo Zhenyu said that lifelong learning is the only way to combat not dying at the age of 30.
In this era of rapid technological development, if you don't have a sense of crisis and blindly eat the old book, you will eventually be eliminated.
Only by continuing to recharge your brain can you keep yourself on the road to growth forever.
Lu Qi, the former president, spends five hours a week researching the most cutting-edge ** in the field of science and technology.
In an internal meeting, he said to the employees:
You have to keep learning every day and make your life different every day. Think of yourself as a software, a **, today's version must be better than yesterday's version, and tomorrow's version will definitely be better than today.
It is the continuous absorption of external knowledge that allows him to continuously improve his ability and achieve his career.
This world is always dangerous for those who stand still.
Only by turning continuous learning into a habit and implementing it throughout your life can you seize the opportunity and make the leap.
To improve learning ability, you can start from these three points:
1.Keep an open mind, be open to new things, and keep absorbing new knowledge so that you don't miss out on new growth opportunities
2.Have the courage to step out of your comfort zone, explore the new boundaries of your own abilities, and dig deep into the moat of your life
3.Open up more channels, in addition to using books, you can also use online classes and new resources, and you can learn more new knowledge by having a wide range of contacts.
As the futurist Eliade said, if today we do not live in the future, then the future we will live in the past.
In the new year, learn to upgrade yourself and continue to iterate yourself.
By constantly improving your skills, you will be able to withstand the crises of life and run farther and farther on the track of life.
To the south of the Huai River in the Qinling Mountains, there is a plant growing - Masson pine.
Normally, the bark of the masson pine tree is reddish-brown and the branches are smooth.
But when the lumberjacks cut off the branches of the masson pine, they found that an oily sap soon came out of the wound.
After injury, Masson pine will secrete pine resin to wrap the wound to prevent the invasion of germs and promote rapid wound repair.
Adults should also have the same "self-healing power" as the masson pine.
In the face of frustration and injury, bear it silently, and slowly**, you can get out of the pain and regain your life.
Yu Minhong's New Oriental was hit hard and was forced to transform into a live broadcast, but he comforted himself, "Maybe God is giving us another opportunity to create a bigger business and achieve more brilliance." ”
After Luo Yonghao was in huge debt because of his hammer mobile phone, he did not slump, but often encouraged himself: "There are never people who fail, only people who give up halfway." ”
"Self-healing power" says that the resilience of life lies in self-healing, and knowing how to heal oneself will not have any difficulties in life.
Maybe you've had failures in the past year, or maybe you're still gritting your teeth.
In 2024, do the following 3 things to learn to self-heal and self-repair:
1.Quit complaining, face the difficulties of fate, don't complain, face and accept calmly, is the first step to self-healing.
2.Keep a good attitude, be positive and optimistic about everything, and no matter how bad the situation is, it will slowly get better.
3.Rely on yourself in everything and learn to heal yourself. Only by your own strength can you pull yourself out of the abyss of suffering.
Please believe that the withering of a flower cannot ruin the whole spring, and a setback cannot ruin the whole life.
When you get through the wounds in your heart and get through the current difficulties, all the good things will come as promised.
The cork of wine is made from the bark of a tree called oak.
Oak trees grow for 25 years before shedding their skin for the first time.
After that, every 9-12 years, the oak tree will undergo a peeling process, and its texture will get better and better.
After peeling a few times, when its quality is good enough, it can be made into a cork and play its true value.
The same is true in life, you have to go through a constant self-renewal in order for you to stay competitive forever.
In 2024, cultivate these 6 abilities, know how to be self-disciplined when you are high, and learn to heal yourself when you are at a low point.
In every ordinary day after that, focus on growth, deepen your ability, and let yourself continue to add value.
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