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The years are a journey with no return, and the good and the bad are the scenery.
Author: Insight CC
2024 has arrived.
Looking back on the past year, you and I have experienced pain, confusion, suffering and even despair......
But life, as the saying goes, is bitter and sweet.
All life ends happily, and if not, it's not over.
Before the final result comes, what we have to do is to settle our hearts in the days when things are not satisfactory.
If at this time, you are also walking in the doom of life, please always believe:
Everything that happens, it's the best arrangement.
In the new year, please tidy up and move forward firmly, and good things will happen.
All harm is a kind of growth.
In the past year, you must have encountered a lot of things that hurt you and people who hurt you.
But these people and things are not there to torment you.
But fate wants to make you strong and grow you in this way.
When screenwriter Lu JJ first entered the writing circle earlier, he was ridiculed by countless people.
Once when he handed someone his business card, someone mocked him: "Yo, this future great writer still has to hand over his business card himself?"”
On another occasion, he introduced himself to a director and honestly handed over a business card.
The other party replied coldly: don't accept it, and then turned around and left.
These two experiences hit Lu JJ very hard, and he immediately made up his mind to break a way on his own.
So he desperately watched movies, analyzed scripts, and immersed himself in creation, and soon won several awards in screenwriting competitions.
After he became famous, those people who were once difficult for him to climb also came to him to talk about cooperation.
I often hear people say, "Whoever makes you miserable will come and cross you."
Pain is the only way for all people to grow.
We're destined to suffer untold injuries, but you'll understand when you're hurt a lot:
All pain has meaning.
The people and things in your life that torment you will definitely be able to fulfill you in the end.
What we have to do is to unpack the ugly package and discover the surprises hidden inside.
All loneliness is a kind of precipitation.
Zhou Guoping said: The bored are self-loathing, the lonely are self-pitying, and the lonely are self-sufficient.
Here, he divides himself into three realms.
People in the first realm, once they are alone, will be anxious and fearful, and even give up on themselves;
People in the second realm see their solitude as leisure and accept this state from their hearts.
And the highest level of people can find their true selves in solitude.
The young writer Tao Lixia, whether writing and photography, or traveling around the world, what she presents to us is always a lonely figure.
So many netizens called her: a lonely walker, a warm writer.
Even if she became famous later and was loved by many people, she still likes to read and write alone, study abroad alone, and travel around alone......
A reporter once asked her if she didn't feel too lonely in this life
Tao Lixia said: For her, loneliness is a sobering agent and catalyst, if you want to write or concentrate on one thing, you have to be alone, or block out the noise around you.
In life, many people regard loneliness as a form of torture.
Once you are not understood, once you are lonely, you will start to doubt yourself and become depressed.
But when you really fall in love with solitude, you'll find out:
Loneliness is not a bad thing, but life is beyond the excitement.
You can feel the tranquility of time in your own life, and you can also grow into a better version of yourself through loneliness.
In the new year, enjoying these inevitable solitudes in life is the beginning of your gradual strength.
All regrets are a kind of fulfillment.
In everyone's life, there will be big and small regrets.
Someone has achieved a dream but lost the one they love the most;Some people have been stumbling for half their lives, but they still can't live the life they want.
As Mr. Yang Jiang said:
God will not let all happiness be concentrated in one person, and getting love may not have money;
Having money doesn't necessarily lead to happiness;Happiness does not necessarily mean health;Having good health doesn't always work out. ”
But sometimes, it is the existence of these shortcomings that makes a person's life unique.
Not long ago, I read a little book called "The Lost Corner".
The main character in the book is a circle with missing corners.
It wanted to make itself whole, so it searched everywhere for the missing piece.
In the process of searching, because of the slow speed, it can enjoy the roadside scenery to the fullest and enjoy the sun and breeze happily.
Until one day, it found a small piece that suited itself perfectly.
But when it couldn't wait to put it on, its world spun around at a rapid pace.
It no longer has time to pay attention to the flowers or chat with the insects. All these changes make it difficult to accept.
It stopped, put the small piece back on the side of the road, and rolled forward with a smile on its face.
Many times, we are like that circle with missing corners, always striving for perfection.
But life is often like an old saying: If you lose the east, you will reap the mulberry.
Some things seem to be lost, but in fact they are gained in another;
Some things seem to be a pity, but they are another fulfillment.
So don't lament why so many unsatisfactory things always happen to you.
When life closes a door for you, fate has already prepared an even bigger surprise for you in the days to come.
All experiences are a kind of landscape.
The Thief of the Years" sings:
The years are a journey with no return, and the good and the bad are the scenery.
Real life is always mud and sand, thorns and flowers coexist.
No matter what storms you've been through in the past.
But every inch of land is an irreproducible scenery in life.
When Shen Congwen was young, he went to Beijing alone, and at that time, he only had a few yuan in his pocket.
Because of his poverty, he had to live in the worst, narrow, moldy halls.
But Shen Congwen didn't complain, and humorously named it "narrow and moldy Xiaozhai".
It was also in this small lent that he got to know the noble man of his life, Yu Dafu.
And with the help of the other party, he became a well-known columnist.
At the age of seventy, Shen Congwen was also sent to the Xianning Cadre School, where the living conditions were even worse.
Shen Congwen said that although crickets and frogs sneaked into the house from time to time, they did not interfere with each other.
He even wrote in his autobiography: "This is also a rare joy in life. ”
In Shen Congwen's view, all the twists and turns he has experienced on the road of life are landscapes.
Venerable Hongyi also said that this life is a mixture of sorrow and joy.
We have been on the road, experiencing joy and emotion, and experiencing pain and sorrow.
All these experiences are actually a kind of sublimation of life.
As the saying goes, if the years bloom into flowers, where is life not beautiful.
If you regard your past experiences as a gift, then the suffering in this world is only quietly paving the way for your growth.
There is a saying in Buddhism:
Whoever you meet, he's the right person;Whatever happens, that's the only thing that happens;It doesn't matter what moment it started, it's the right moment.
Even if you have experienced all kinds of hardships along the way, please believe that everything has its own meaning;
Even if it goes to the end, the result still backfires, please believe that this is the best arrangement.
In the new year, allow everything to happen naturally and trust that everything happens in my favor.
It is only through continuous experience that we will meet a better life.
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