"The Water of the Waves" is Yan Zhen's classic work, and the TV series "Years" is adapted from this **, the emotional entanglement between Lu Xiaoman and Liang Zhiyuan has become difficult to calm in the hearts of many audiences.
1 It is in human nature to accept preaching, let alone a woman
Lu Xiaoman has been in the workplace for a long time, and when she first met Zhiyuan, she made his bottom clear in a few words, she took the initiative and became a couple under the guidance of her colleague Xiaoyu. Xiao Man made Zhiyuan's snooping clear, and the relationship between the two became increasingly intimate under Xiao Man's initiative.
Xiao Man saw that Zhiyuan was talented and knowledgeable, and the scholarly spirit was a little naïve, she planned to gamble on Zhiyuan, from the point of view of birth, the family conditions of the two failed to bring them resources, and the only thing they provided was to let them have a decent job under the support of their parents.
Xiao Man has been guiding Song Siyuan to see the situation clearly, Song Siyuan was unmoved, but felt that Xiao Man slapped him in the face, and he refused Xiao Man's change in his spiritual world.
Zhiyuan publicly shouted at the meeting, denouncing the extravagance and waste of the bureau's expenditure, and the Chinese medicine market research report was denied by the bureau.
The research place of traditional Chinese medicine is Director Wen's hometown, and the random arrow unintentionally stabbed his Director Wen, Director Wen showed embarrassment at the meeting, and left the scene in an embarrassing way.
After Xiao Man learned about it, he took Zhiyuan to the hospital to visit the hospitalized director's wife, and when he heard that the bureau saw his intentions, he understood Zhiyuan's position, and his heart was put down for the time being.
After the incident of sending traditional Chinese medicine, Director Wen mistakenly thought that Zhiyuan was going to take refuge in his opponent
When Xiao Man patiently persuaded him, he didn't care about one sentence in his mouth, one didn't care, and he didn't dare to face Xiao Man when he said it. Xiaoman has experienced three ups and downs in life, and knows how to put away the edge and follow the trend in order to become a vested gainer of the times.
02 The modern version of "Xue Baochai" Lu Xiaoman
Compared with the character Xue Baochai in "Dream of Red Mansions", her family history and family business are not as big as Jiafu, Xue Baochai still needs to be attached to Baoyu, she puts her future on Baoyu, she is the representative of the concept of official career, quite the heart of Mrs. Wang, she has the support of parents and secular concepts behind her, and she is the best candidate to become a wife.
After several persuasions, Baoyu was displeased, and finally broke up unhappily. Baoyu found Daiyu with spiritual resonance to relieve the sorrow in her heart, Daiyu's body is weak, and it is difficult to shake the power of the world, everything is just a fearless struggle.
In the torrent of the times, one's will is as weak as dust, those who go along prosper, and those who go against it die.
Xue Baochai and Xiao Man had the same thoughts, but they had little effect, and even had the opposite effect, pushing their beloved farther and farther.
03 The boundary between a gentleman and a villain
His remarks at the meeting slapped Director Wen's face, and the opponent Deputy Director read the joke, and the Deputy Director pulled him to have a long talk late at night, praising his remarks at the meeting, praising him endlessly, and holding a book to give him away.
The common problem of scholars is that they can't stand a little praise, and when they praise it, they will be like the rats on the stove, they are overwhelmed and messed up. In order to repay Director Yu's appreciation, he prepared Chinese medicine to send him, and was bumped into by Director Wen, Wu added oil and vinegar to make Director Wen angry, and he was so angry that he dropped a cup in the office.
After being used as a gun, she came to Xiaoman to complain, and Xiaoman was busy giving her ideas and dealing with the aftermath. He said helplessly: Those who are villains are like gentlemen, and those who are gentlemen have become villains, and Luo Qingshui's heart is not false when he is broken, not the heart of a thief.
I always feel like we're talking in different rooms, and more often than not, it's not talking, it's talking to ourselves. Zhiyuan can't let go of the shelf, and he can't tolerate a woman accusing him of his values in front of him, which is why he can listen to Luo Qingshui's advice, but ignore Xiao Man's intentions.
Xiao Man had no choice but to propose to break up, before breaking up, Xiao Man took the initiative to ask for a kiss, Zhiyuan was still unmoved, in their relationship, Xiao Man was always passive. Xiao Man still has a lot of reluctance in her heart, Xiao Man kissed it affectionately, and when the love was strong, she decisively pushed Zhiyuan away, crying and leaving, retaining the last trace of dignity for herself.
04 The predecessors planted trees, and the descendants enjoyed the shade
Love is two and a half days of freshness, there is no love in this world, some are just living at home, don't look too romantic, there is a woman, ordinary, well-informed, kind-hearted, can take care of your life, can fulfill the obligations of a wife, enough. It doesn't have to be pretty, it doesn't have to be too capable.
The ordinary Qin Mei met for the first time in the hospital, Zhiyuan went to the health center for injections with fever, and the actual Xi was pierced several times, causing him to complain, and Qin Mei, who heard the sound, came to relieve the siege, Qin Mei learned in the communication that he was the leader of the bureau, and he was even more careful to appease, afraid that something would go wrong.
He wanted Qin Mei to help him get a needle, and asked her to take off her mask so that he could get an injection from her next time, she obediently took off her mask, and her ordinary face was written with infinite tenderness, Zhiyuan couldn't help but say: Women should study medicine, and the white coat is the most beautiful dress on your body.
Qin Mei relied on her title of "Qin Yipin", which came in handy when Wenju's family was hospitalized, and also pulled Zhiyuan in his career, so that he could be reused. Qin Mei was obedient to Zhiyuan, her eyes were full of admiration, she captured his heart and became her wife.
5. She is the guide, but she is a lifelong companion
And Lu Xiaoman saw Zhiyuan too thoroughly, he once said to the matchmaker Sister Wu: I may never be what she wants, and I don't have what Xiaoman wants.
A woman just wants a dependent, she wants you to be his dependent. He felt that he couldn't afford Xiao Man's future, what Xiao Man wanted himself, he needed to dismember himself beyond recognition, as if he was sacrificed, and become as unbearable as Wu Yong, then it would not be him.
Xiao Man said: Wu Guo (don't ask for merit, but ask for no fault), this character has his merits, you hate him and are afraid of becoming him, but you have strength!
A person with a level will not do what he says, but he always has to quietly experience the intentions above, and then follow the direction, do it, and pay the price to achieve the goal.
Director Wen doesn't necessarily like Wu Guo, but he can't do without people like Wu Guo.
Zhiyuan, who thinks highly of himself, is unwilling to commit himself to carrying a sedan chair for others. He thinks that his bones are noble, and he would rather bend than bend.
However, there is only one kind of nobility in this world, and if you go up, you are not noble. If you go down, you are not noble.
Noble evaluations are given by others, what's the use of saying that you are noble?It's just self-deception!
Conclusion: Zhiyuan persuaded Xiao Man not to change him hard, even he couldn't change himself, unless someone pulled him to the hospital for surgery, Xiao Man became a prophecy, she said: There will be this opportunity, but it's too late, the sleeping lion in Zhiyuan's body is waiting for the time to wake up...