I hope that I will live more authentically and honestly, and I must accept and even like the ups and downs of my body more in order to like the world more, and I hope that I will know how to deal with all kinds of desires, all kinds of ugliness and beauty of human nature, and find the best way to get along with them.
There has to be an experience in life that you have gone through by yourself, you are full of pain, and then you are full of loneliness, but that thing is called growth. A good life and a happy experience cannot bring growth, so you can see many people who are forty or fifty years old, and they still look very naïve, which shows that they have never suffered, and what can make you grow is what makes you reflect. Evolution in nature is natural selection, right?Not evolving is not meant to be destroyed, but evolution is painful. It's inevitable that we'll do something wrong, and it's okay to be wrong, but we have to learn to grow. This may be something we need to learn for the rest of our lives. No one can guarantee what age you have reached, and you will not make mistakes in the rest of your lifeImpossible. Growing up is a particularly important thing, there is a very unbearable side behind a person's glamorousness, each of us has it, no matter how good or bad it is, there is a very unbearable side that others can't see. And then then you realize that life has given you a lot of things, and when you live in a comfortable zone for too long, and it blows a huge blow, what do you do?Are you staggering?Or can you come back to life. There is no obstacle that cannot be overcome, in fact, as long as you want to overcome it, you will definitely be able to overcome it. Many things give yourself a deadline, give yourself a small goal, there is nothing difficult in the world, as long as you are willing to climb.
If one day, you no longer look for love, no longer pursue empty growth, and just start to cultivate your own temperament, everything in your life will really begin.