Kids are addicted to mobile phones?No need to scold, a small prop makes the child put down the phone

Mondo Parenting Updated on 2024-01-30

Mobile phones have become an item that contemporary young people can't leave in their hands, they can not find a boyfriend, they can not talk about girlfriends, but they must not live without mobile phones. In today's information age, it is unlikely that you will not play with your mobile phone.

"Mobile phone" has become one of the main ways for us to communicate with people and understand real-time, although mobile phones are important, but at the same time, "enjoyment" has also brought us immeasurable harm.

Next, let's take a look at what harms mobile phones have caused to our physical and mental health

Myopia

Lying in the bed and playing with mobile phones, the first thing that hurts the eyes is the eye, which also leads to a sharp increase in the number of myopia in my country every year. In the past, myopia may have been due to difficult conditions, and it was Xi learned myopia, but now myopia is definitely inseparable from mobile phones. Why can't you play with your phone after the lights go out at night, because after turning off the lights, the room is in a dark environment, so that the brightness of the mobile phone will be directly aimed at our eyes, under strong light, it will only directly affect our eyesight, and may also cause glaucoma, dry eye, and serious blindness.

Eyes

Eye fatigue, eye fatigue will be accompanied by pain, eye soreness and other symptoms, dry eye may also occur, at this time patients often have photophobia, tearing eyes and other symptoms, sometimes heavy fatigue will cause a slight increase in intraocular pressure, and even nausea, headache and other symptoms.

Causes the problem

The mobile phone will have a certain radiation effect, although it will not affect human health, will not make people sick, but it will affect the health of the people. Especially when looking at the mobile phone before going to bed at night, the mobile phone is very close to the face, and the radiation impact is relatively large, which will make the ** accumulate a lot of toxins and harmful substances, and there will be acne, dry lines, fine lines, and dull complexion, yellowing problems, and faster aging.

Interfere with your child's Xi

Children are addicted to playing mobile phones, and time will get out of control, causing children to waste a lot of time without knowing or being conscious, causing children to turn black and white upside down, and have no energy to learn Xi during the day.

Leads to cervical spondylosis

The vast majority of people are in a state of bowing their heads when playing with their mobile phones, which is easy to cause degeneration and hyperplasia of the cervical spine, resulting in an increase in the probability of cervical spondylosis.

So what should we parents do?

The two sides jointly negotiate and formulate rules

After understanding your child's psychological needs, show him that you can understand why he is playing with his phone. It's just that he is still a child, and the important energy and time should be more focused on schoolwork, and you need to work together to make rules about playing with mobile phones. Of course, this rule should not only apply to children playing with mobile phones, but also for parents playing with mobile phones. After children feel the understanding and acceptance of their parents, they will also participate in the formulation and compliance of rules for a long time.

This rule includes, but is not limited to, the following: Turn off your phone every night at 20:00 (21:00 on weekends).Mobile phones cannot be taken to school;Do not use your phone during the time period when you are writing your homework;Parents should not use their mobile phones when their children are learning Xi or communicating with their children about important mattersDon't use your phone to deceive others;Leave your phone at home when you go out once in a while, don't be a slave to your phone;If you fail to use your phone, your phone will be taken back. The way that parents and children negotiate and formulate rules together can effectively help children develop correct mobile phone Xi habits and avoid addiction to using mobile phones due to poor self-control and immature mind.

Set Screen TimeThis method is only useful for Apple mobile phones or tablets, which is the humanized design made by Steve Jobs, the "father of Apple", worried that its technology is addictive, but unfortunately few people in China use this high-end function.

The principle of this function is to use an adult's phone to add the child's phone or tablet as a minor "family member", and then set the screen time of the child's phone or tablet in the adult's phoneWhen your child uses the phone for a set amount of time, the screen of your child's phone or tablet will automatically lock.

Find alternatives for your child (toys;Draw;etc.).

Then many parents will want to ask, what toys do you want your children to put down their mobile phones and play with their children. Actually, I think origami is a good choice. Children are prone to "liking the new and hating the old" for toys, because most of the time, he plays by himself and easily loses his freshness. In the case of origami, parents and children, or children and other children can work together, which can exercise his brain power and teamwork ability.

Toys are not only used to play, but also should be helpful to children, it is recommended that parents should choose more educational toys, educational toys can not only exercise children's concentration, observation, hand-eye coordination, help children with mental training, improve children's IQ, reduce the time to watch TV and play with mobile phones, but also let children play more and more!

For example, for small babies, you can choose some early education toys that grind ears. Older children can choose toys that require hand-eye coordination to exercise their hands-on skills.

I highly recommend this "live" paper toy from Japan - "Shocking Jaw Drop: Nakamura Kaiji Dynamic Paper Toy" to help children develop their intelligence.

Origami originated in China, and after it was introduced to Japan, it developed rapidly, and even became a "quintessence" art. In homeschooling, Japanese parents are very supportive of their children's play with origami.

When I saw this set of small toys, I couldn't believe that they were made of paper, they could jump and jump, and the children cheered and refused to let go.

I was also planted in an instant.

Penguin bombs, flat paper shells, casually thrown away, immediately surprise bounce

At present, the Chinese version has been introduced in China - "Shocking Chin Nakamura Kaiji Dynamic Paper Toy".

Surprisingly, after the improvement of the Chinese version, there is a pressure line on the paper mold, and the child can easily fold it with a button.

Such a fun handicraft, children can make it by themselves!It's so attractive.

In my experience, as long as you can keep your baby busy, she won't want to watch TV or play with her phone.

Sure enough, after buying it back, my baby and father rushed to play, and one big and one small were dragged back to reality.

If you want your child to let go of electronic products, dark punishment is the next policy, setting rules is the middle policy, and realistic attraction is the best policy to cure both the symptoms and the root causes.

If you're also concerned about your child playing with electronic devices for a long time, try these paper devices, which will be a great playmate to bring your child back into the real world.

I summarized it all:

Isn't one of the big attractions of the screen the visual impact?The switching of colors and pictures makes children unable to stop.

But what is on the screen can be seen by the child, but not touched.

The visual impact brought by the paper mechanism is created by the children themselves!

You see, from a simple piece of paper, the child folded and folded, and became three-dimensional!

Buckle it again, put on the little mechanism, mom, it's moving!

This transformation from 2D to 3D made Xiao Juan scream in surprise: Mom, look, a carriage pops out of the pumpkin!

Compared to other toys, it helps children open up a whole new world.

My biggest feeling is that the hidden small mechanism can inspire children to observe, and science is the foundation of learning Xi all science.

The second is the expansion of thinking. It leads children from flat to three-dimensional, and then to bouncing, and children's spatial reasoning and logical thinking are expanded step by step. This will be very helpful for learning geometry and physics in the future.

In the process of splicing, children will invest great patience and enthusiasm, and their concentration, ability, and hands-on ability can be improved, and they can really use their hands and brains.

Dad and child rush to play, and then divide labor and work together to complete a work. A paper mechanism that fills the whole family with laughter.

Wow, there is a frog hidden in the crocodile's mouth, oh no, it's a turtle, oh no, it's a little crocodile.

If you want your child to put down their mobile phone, if you want to accompany the baby with high quality, you might as well try the paper mechanism, it will bring you multiple surprises.

The original version that a friend carried back from Japan before cost more than 200 yuan. After the domestic improvement, 8 more toys were included, and the price was only 99$9!

99.9 yuan, make 18 paper toys, one is only more than 5 yuan, and it is only the money of a popsicle, which can make the child put down the mobile phone and play happily for many days!

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