Faced with their child's smart and quirky personality, parents may think that their child's future academic Xi performance will be outstanding.
Who would have thought that when the school-age age came, the Xi grades were often unsatisfactory, and they often received bad feedback from the teacher's WeChat, and even the reaction of the low score on the report card, and the child's situation at school made the parents very angry and anxious.
This is in contrast to the parents' previous expectations, a child's heart is tied up by play, and the desire to learn Xi knowledge is not at all, which is probably the norm for many children, right?
The Xi habit of summarizing and pre-Xi in primary school has not been developed
For many children, just entering the first grade of primary school, parents may worry about their children's discomfort and minimize the pressure and burden of their children's Xi.
Therefore, the Xi of children's learning is a laissez-faire attitude, of course, it does not mean that parents and teachers are too strict with children. Here we have to talk about a degree and an accuracy.
Properly show the child that he is now a primary school student, and he must have his own sense of time and Xi learning, and he has to worry about many things, and he can't rely on teachers and mothers to let his children do what they can.
Too little time for children to play
In childhood, there is no child who does not like to play, and the playful heart has always accompanied you, me and him in the innocent era.
Children are very smart, but the biggest reason for poor Xi performance is that children's play time and energy are not released, because children are energetic, if they don't play, their energy is nowhere to be consumed, and when something is missing, they will miss it more.
Attention should be paid to the cultivation of oral expression skills, which is the foundation for enhancing children's comprehension skills.
I don't know how many parents have carefully observed your child's oral expression ability, the reason why I focus on oral expression ability here is because after entering the third grade, if your child's oral expression ability is not mature enough, it means that you usually do not pay attention to family education, do not pay attention to parent-child communication, and as a result, the child's oral language development is obviously delayed. Grade 3 students with delayed oral development look the same as they did in the second grade, but due to the increased difficulty of learning Xi, the lack of comprehension skills is exposed.
Attention should be paid to the cultivation of language Xi, and Chinese and English should be applied in daily life in order for children to establish a sense of language.
When the child enters the third grade, there is an English class, which can easily be difficult for children who have not been exposed to English learning Xi Xi in early childhood. After all, the pronunciation mechanism of English and Chinese is very different, and here Mr. Hanshi Lengyue would like to suggest that parents must guide their children with the thinking of learning Xi language, rather than mechanically letting children memorize. In fact, the most effective way to learn Xi language is to apply it in life, especially in combination with life scenarios, to take children to practice oral Xi, which can greatly enhance children's understanding of sentences. Isn't it also true that including philological Xi?However, it is very regrettable that many parents ignore the role of linguistics Xi life, and as a result, children are unable to develop a sense of language. If you realize that what you did in the past was wrong, you might as well change it now.
Attention should be paid to the cultivation of good living and learning XiXi habits, and children should be allowed to establish a rhythmic life routine as much as possible.
In family education work, if parents pay full attention, the process of cultivating good Xi often begins in children's early childhood. However, it is very unfortunate that too many parents do not start until their children enter the third grade of primary school. When children's subjects increase, the difficulty of learning Xi increases, and the time for writing extracurricular homework is extended, it will inevitably lead to a significant reduction in children's rest and play time, including sleep time. In this way, the child's sleep time will definitely be insufficient, which will directly lead to a decrease in energy in the classroom the next day, and the effect of learning new knowledge Xi classroom will be greatly reduced.
In the whole six years of primary school, how much effort we adults put in, how much children can gain.
Accompany children through the six years of primary school" tells vivid stories with concise words in terms of the psychological development characteristics of primary school students, the characteristics of cultural knowledge they have learned, the cultivation of learning XiXi habits, and the cultivation of learning Xi ability. I believe that after reading "Accompanying Children Through Six Years of Primary School", parents and children can easily get rid of the confusion of primary school and truly experience the joy of growing up.
In addition, there is also "Accompanying Children Through the Three Years of Junior High School", which focuses more on how to understand adolescent children and communicate effectively with them. As a parent who came over, the author sometimes had times when he was at a loss in the process of accompanying his children, so the examples that happened in the author's house in the book have been successful or unsuccessful. From the perspective of an educator, the author also wrote about his own awareness and reflection in the book, hoping to be helpful to everyone.
Child, you need to understand that all the effort you put into your school Xi is ultimately for yourself. Your hard work today will make you brilliant tomorrow, make you a useful talent, and make your life more fulfilling and exciting.
Reading can make you smart, humble, and learned, and ultimately make you an elegant and brilliant person. Without the accumulation of reading and learning Xi, it is impossible to have the glory of tomorrow. When you create a better future with your own efforts, when you feel the value of your life, when you realize your life dream, you can understand the true purpose of studying, and you will also thank yourself for the sweat and hard work you have paid!
I have read these books many times, and each time there is a new inspiration, I can't help but sigh at the importance and hardship of education, when you finish reading, you will find that those confusion, confusion, and suffering in your education, especially in getting along with children, have been given solutions, and some even have steps.
And ** is not expensive, the money of a meal, your life may be changed.
It would be better if you could read with other parents, receive the influence of wisdom together, and give it away, and others will praise you for your taste.
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