Xiaohua (pseudonym) was originally a well-behaved and obedient girl with good academic performance and superior family conditions. But from the fifth grade of primary school, Xiaohua gradually became naughty, disobedient, and even stole the family's money. At first, Xiaohua's parents didn't pay much attention to it, but as time went on, the situation got worse and worse. Xiaohua began to lie, skip class, indulge in games, and even make friends with senior classmates to bully other classmates. The change in Xiaohua made the family very worried.
This transformation that occurs in Xiaohua, from a psychological point of view, can be caused by a variety of factors. On the one hand, as she grows older, Xiaohua begins to crave adventure and try new things;On the other hand, Xiaohua may have been influenced by some classmates who misbehaved, and felt that she could get more attention and recognition by being with these people. In addition, it is also possible that Xiaohua is affected by social pressure and feels that if she does not participate, she will be excluded or isolated by other classmates.
Addressing the above questions
Recommended for parents:
Establish a positive family environment
Parents should give their child enough attention and support to provide her with a positive, healthy and stable family environment. If the child has a problem, it is necessary to carefully understand the real reason behind the problem and face it with the child. At the same time, parents should also strengthen the supervision and education of their children, so that they understand that lying, skipping classes, stealing family money, bullying classmates, etc. are all bad behaviors, and guide children to fully understand the consequences and harms of bad behaviors, as well as the possible negative impact on individuals, families and society.
Boost your child's self-confidence
Parents should start with their child's strengths, give her more affirmation and encouragement, and help her build self-confidence and a sense of identityIf you find that your child has strong hands-on ability and loves to work, you can arrange some activities or tasks that are suitable for her to make her feel her own value and importance, enhance her self-confidence, and encourage her to devote more attention to positive and healthy activities.
Develop good social habits
Parents should guide their children to handle interpersonal relationships correctly. Parents should not only create opportunities to establish a beneficial social environment for their children, but also guide their children to realize that social interaction is mutual, learn to reject bad behaviors, socialize more with positive people, develop good social habits, and meet the needs of physical and mental health development.
Seek help from a professional
If the child's behaviour problems continue to worsen or affect her learning and life, parents should consider seeking psychological help or psychological counseling in a timely mannerProfessional psychological counselors or psychologists can assist parents in scientific family education, carry out counseling for problems, establish new cognition, and overcome psychological barriers.
The method of scientific education of children should be a combination of love and strictness, which can relieve children's pain and enhance children's happiness. At the same time, parents need to realize that children's behavior change is not achieved overnight, and it requires continuous efforts and attention, starting from multiple aspects, and accompanying children attentively in order to achieve good results.
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