It's been a headache in the past two days, and I hope the old iron will have a similar experience and give some advice.
The general situation is like this, I am a post-70s generation with two sons, the eldest son has been working for 7 years, and the younger son is in the second year of junior high school this year.
Do you have an experience, the boss is generally more honest and obedient, and the second child can speak well since he was a child, giving people a feeling of flamboyance.
One set of words, one set of deeds, makes people speechless.
The day before yesterday was Christmas when I came home from school, I used to throw my schoolbag on the sofa as soon as I entered the door, either going to the bathroom or entering my room.
We were both in the living room at the time, and we saw him carrying a paper bag in his hand on the side of our back, and he put it down before he came out to put the school bag.
This action attracted his mother's attention, so he jokingly asked him what you were holding in your hand, and he didn't let us see it, he perfunctorily said that it was nothing, it was a building block from someone, and then he sat down at the dinner table to eat.
After eating, he took the initiative to come and sit in the living room with us, basically didn't stay with us in the past, felt that he had something to say, and slowly guided him to say that the paper bag was given to him by one of his female classmates, which contained a cup, a bottle of hand-folded little stars, a little Santa Claus, and two greeting cards.
He showed us one by one, but he didn't let us see what was written on the card.
There must be no doubt about early love at this point, he is quite indifferent, and asks us what kind of attitude we have, which makes people cry and laugh, only 14 years old, ask us what attitude we have?
I had been mentally prepared for this before, so I told him a lot calmly, but I always felt that the problem had not been solved, and I was thinking about how to deal with it in my mind for the past two days.
The boss has always been very obedient, and he never let us worry too much, and I really don't know how to deal with this kind of thing for a while!Lao Tie, who has a good way to deal with it, say it and let me learn from it, thank you!Puppy love