Meta-view--- not every point of view can be called meta-view.
Luo Xiang said: "True love, when you are not around, is the same world;Whether we can see each other or not, they are all haunted by the same dreams. There is affection for one another, love for one another;Caring for each other, thinking of each other;Even if you don't have a husband and wife, if you put it in your heart, you can warm your life. ”
But I've seen too much love that always comes and goes, and it comes and goesIn the end of a relationship, it is often the person who loves the most who lets go first.
It's not that I don't love anymore, but in the process of love, because I care too much about the other party, I will be jealous, I will be sad, I will be angry, the more I love, the more I care, and I think crankily every dayThe more you love, the more painful it becomes, and some people fall apart because of it!
But the rational and mature concept of love is called: "affectionate and not entangled". Learning to accept and let go of things when you lose things is the highest way for a person to live. ”
Hayao Miyazaki once said: The best view of love is not to have too much entanglement when thinking about someone, maybe this is the best responsibility for yourself, and you can keep looking forward. ”
It's easy to fall in love, but it's hard to stay together, in comparison, there are people with such several patterns, their love is like tasting a cup of tea, the more bitter it is, the more fragrant and sweet, the sweeter it is, the more it loves, it is the kind of person who loves to the depths of the depths the more difficult it is. This kind of person who is desperate for love is especially precious!
Because in the era when love is like fast food, there are people with these patterns who do not change their original intentions, once they are tempted by someone, they will love all the way to the end without regrets, and even if they are hard, they are not afraid to love deeply
Husband and wife palace martial arts
Cold on the outside and hot on the inside, infatuated absolutely
There is a little cutie of Wuqu in the conjugal palace, and her appearance looks unattainable, because people who can't look down on him will turn him away. But once a person enters the eyes of the Dharma, it is as if he has changed into a different personis full of each other, and his eyes are full of each other.
He is quite demanding in his feelings, and his performance is also tough and strong, in fact, it is to protect himself, and it doesn't look realActually, yestaI know in my heart that some people just don't fit.
They also devote themselves to what they identify, and they know that it is wise to wholeheartedly like the person around them and cherish the happiness they have at the moment. Only when someone walks intaIn the heart, you can find outtainfatuation and true affection.
The giant gate of the conjugal palace
Die down, continue to pay
There is a cutie with a giant door in the conjugal palace, and the performance of falling in love with a person is to remove all psychological defenses, and it is difficult to transfer the love call. Because he believes that fate is the person who is recognizedYou have to pay without regrets, and you don't care if there is anything in return!
Therefore, people with a pattern like TA are indeed easy to be fooled by rhetoric in their feelings, and they may end up with both people and money.
Don't look at TA on the surface, but in the heart you will always remember the past. For example, the places you have been to with someone, the things you have done, and the words you have said, they are all firmly in your heartIt belongs to the typical knife-mouthed tofu heart.
The husband and wife are the same
Moths fight fires, the more bitter they are, the more they love
The husband and wife palace has the same little cutie, ta is the kind of love can let go of all principles and face, unconditionally follow each other to the ends of the earth, even if the love is humble, it doesn't matter,As long as it feels right, you can't help but get into it.
Even if the other party doesn't like him, even if there is no result of a crush or unrequited love, he has no regretsLoving someone is like a moth to a fire!
Even if there is a problem in the relationship, he will always be the one who is dumped, and most of them will not take the initiative to break up, even if everyone says that he chose the wrong person, he will still self-hypnotize and tell the world that he is the happiest personThe other party loves himself very much and silently chooses to endure everything.
For people in such a pattern to get out of a relationship, I'm afraid it will take a long, long time.
Metaview Postscript
As Master Hongyi said: "Those who are destined for you don't need to ask for it, you don't need to stay, this is a destined possession, and those who are not related to you, why ask, why stay." It's all untouchable emptiness. The real fate is not to leave after meeting, and not to leave after a long time.
True love is joy at first sight, but also long-term companionship. It carries the trivial troubles of lifeAt the same time, it also points to the dream in the heart, always moving in the same direction, and going both ways to the other side of happiness.