Do you regret it after every quarrel?Either regret why you said such a heavy thing!Or regret how not to refute!In short, I just didn't play well !!
Title: What to do if you quarrel?》
Author: [de] Sandra Green.
Illustrated by: [de] Lena Ellerman.
Translator: Li Shixun.
Producer: @青小豆童书.
What?You say it's not good to quarrel!That's right!So we have to learn to "fight scientifically" so that we don't quarrel anymore. Let's take a look at the ultimate guide that the author has brought me, whether it can help children understand quarrels, face quarrels, and finally resolve quarrels!
The whole book uses large spreads, and each page is like a thematic ** presentation, such as the first page, a large scene shows the quarrels that can be seen everywhere, the young mother with two disobedient babies;Two little girls competing for a swing;The flaming delivery man bumps into the fruit from the fruit stand;Squirrels grabbing pine cones;A mother who accidentally released a baby balloon ......There is also a scene where someone is blowing a trumpet downstairs and someone upstairs is pouring water on his head, much like a quarrel caused by a square dance disturbing the people
It can be said that quarrels are everywhere, so let's think about a few questions:
Why are we arguing?
Is there always a good reason to quarrel?
What does it feel like to quarrel?
Under what circumstances is it not appropriate to quarrel?
After a quarrel, how do you reconcile?
Can anyone help us end the quarrel?
What should I do if I encounter a lot of people bullying a person?
How should we make peace?
We must have encountered the scenes in small cases and illustrations in our lives, and at the same time, we can also examine ourselves and see if we have any behaviors that are easy to cause quarrels.
It's okay to argue, but in the right way, as demonstrated by the Red Hat Dwarf and the Cuckold Dwarf in the book, strictly follow the rules of the quarrel code, and there will be no endless quarrels (details are shown in the figure
In the same scene, the last page echoes the first page, as if through learning Xi, all the contradictions have been resolved, and it is a peaceful scene.
Contextualize knowledge and demonstrate it with dialogue, which is easy to understand, we "will quarrel", protect ourselves, and reconcile with others, so that we can socialize effectively.
Age Range: 5+
Reading Takeaways: Emotion Management, Self-Expression, Listening and Empathy, Effective Communication.