"Each person paid 1,000 yuan to buy a car for the teacher", which caused other parents to be dissatisfied and angry, and netizens really relieved their hatred
During the school day, students are educated by parents and teachers, but the relationship between parents and teachers is a little delicate. Many parents think that if they want teachers to care more about their children, they need to give gifts, but this practice seems deliberate, and a bad relationship may affect the child.
Although many teachers nowadays uphold the principle of fairness and justice, there are still some parents who aim to befriend the teacher, and even ask others to follow suit, causing other parents to resent.
In the era of the development of the Internet, in order to promote good communication between teachers and parents, "parent groups" have emerged. However, today's parent group has become a bit of a sour, becoming a place for some parents to please teachers, and even encouraging other parents to join the teacher, but it will also be opposed by other parents.
A parent saw that the child's homeroom teacher was about to get married, and spontaneously put forward a suggestion in the group that "each person should pay 1,000 yuan for the teacher to get a car". According to the standard of 100,000, there are more children in the class, and 1,000 per person is just right.
20 minutes later, the parent emphasized the proposal again, but this caused other parents to complain: If you want to please the teacher, you can buy it yourself, there is no need to pull us!
This also reflects a question: is it because some parents are too stammering, flattering, and courteous, which leads to the bad phenomenon of teachers receiving gifts?If parents can lead by example and not participate in these small actions, will the atmosphere of the teaching profession be better?
At this stage, many parents feel relieved, for the teacher's marriage, although it is a festive event, but as a parent, there is no need to make the degree of participation too much, or participate in a small gift, or it doesn't matter if you don't participate, but it is really unnecessary to make such a grand event.
Not only the teacher gets married, but also on the usual holidays, including Teacher's Day, students can express their feelings appropriately, but it is not necessary to spend a lot of money to buy expensive gifts for teachers.
Teachers may lose their jobs because of the "kindness" of their parents, and they have to admit that it is indeed the duty of teachers to teach and educate people, and it is also the responsibility of teachers to strive to improve the grades of each student. Therefore, there is not much contradiction between the two, but because some parents expect teachers to take extra care of their children, they frequently give gifts.
From greeting cards to flowers, from designer clothing to designer bags and cosmetics, and now even to buying a car. So will it evolve into crowdfunding to buy real estate for teachers in the future?
The "good intentions" of parents may be understandable, but these behaviors are really excessive. Your "kindness" may have a negative impact on the future of the teacher!
After all, at present, the management and supervision of teachers' ethics and reputation are becoming more and more strict, and teachers are not allowed to use their positions to accept any gifts from parents. In some areas, special reporting platforms have even been set up, and teachers' words and deeds are subject to public scrutiny. It is resolutely not allowed to obtain any benefits from students, otherwise it will not only damage the image of teachers, but also lose their morality. If the circumstances are serious, they will be reported for investigation, which can be said to ruin the future.
The establishment of a parent group facilitates communication between the two parties, and teachers can communicate class affairs, children's conditions, and life and learning problems in the group. Parents will also have a clearer understanding of their children's problems. However, some parents said that the parent group has become somewhat discordant.
Some parents make people feel uncomfortable with their rhetoric, flaunting their social status and wealth, talking in groups, and even disrespecting others.
As we all know, parents are a mirror of their children, so in the "public place" of the parent group, they should also appropriately restrain themselves and regulate their words and deeds. In this way, you can set a good example for your children.
And that kind of excessive flattery and stammering should not be passed on to children!We want our children to grow up in a healthy environment, so parents should know what to say and what not to say, and also know what to do in what situations.
Overall, the parent group is really a small microcosm that reflects many issues. Parents should not deliberately cater to teachers, and teachers should also be worthy of their profession and ethics. We can't lose the moral bottom line that teachers should have because of a little insignificant benefit, and only by withstanding the best can we achieve a better career.
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