My mother-in-law and my mother are both retired old ladies, between themlifeThe approach and mentality are very different. My mother-in-law is the kind of person who cares about everything, she is always suspicious, tossing and turning at night, and often constipated. My mother, on the other hand, was the complete opposite, she slept quickly and could snore in less than a minute after she finished speaking. My mother-in-law is very caring for her body, and she is eager to try it when she encounters the health care methods recommended on TV. Every winter, she and my father-in-law were able to eat thousands of poundsCabbageAnd green onions, this is not an exaggeration, I can't help but believe itCabbagewithTofuThe miraculous effect of the work. Breakfast wasCabbageSilk, lunch isCabbageStewTofu, and dinner isTofuStewCabbage。And my mom was rightCabbageI hate it, and I only need to see it in winterCabbage, she will quickly dodge. She doesn't take care of her every day like my mother-in-law, but pays more attention to enjoymentlife, likes self-service barbecue and hot pot, and organizes people to eat. Although it is AA system, at least she will not be too frugal. When something happens, my mother will call me **, directly talk about the topic, and go straight to the question, while my mother-in-law will report good news or bad things regardless of good things or bad things, and she won't say anything when asked.
My mom was very generous with her money and could take me to the restaurant twice a day. Once I went to pick her up, and she proposed to go for mutton soup, but I firmly disagreed, because there was food ready at home. When I was a child, I had to roast chicken, and she did the same with me. She would ask me to buy all kinds of things for herSkincareproducts, including:Plain creamSerumsLiquid foundationetc., while my mother-in-law only uses low-cost onesSkincareproducts, even if you buy them, you don't open them.
My mom would make breakfast when she got up in the morning, and then went to the park to dance and walk, dance and shoot with a group of old ladies. She is very active, whether it is dancing or shooting, it is very interesting. My mother-in-law, on the other hand, guarded the nest and didn't go out for a day, accompanying my father-in-law to watch Peking Opera or playing chess with him. The two of them are very tacit, cooking together and shopping for groceries together, although sometimeslifeIt's boring, but they rely on each other and support each other.
In general, although my mom and my mother-in-law are both retired old ladies, their mentality, concept of spending money andlifeThe state is completely different. My mom is optimistic and cheerful and loves to enjoylife, spend money generously, be active and interesting;My mother-in-law, on the other hand, is more worried about things, frugal and healthy, stays at home, and accompanies my father-in-law to live a dull lifelife。Everyone has their ownlifeway and mentality, as long as you can adapt and enjoy retirementlifeThat's it.