Someone claimed: "Most women who fall into extramarital affairs are too stupid." ”
Indeed, after many women are involved in extramarital affairs, they blindly devote themselves to love and give everything, only to be let down in the end and left scarred.
However, even then, it is difficult for women to really let go of their lovers. After the affair is over, they will still miss each other, but they will not take the initiative to contact each other, let alone entangle. It is impossible to relive the pain that has been experienced.
Therefore, they will be sentimental alone, silently caring for their former lover, and seeking emotional solace without disturbing him.
Such women are very sincere in their feelings, but unfortunately, they choose the wrong person and have to bear the pain of extramarital affairs.
Women are like this, once they fall into a relationship, it is difficult to get out, but their body and mind have been hurt, and they can only fill those wounds with tears, even if they miss it in their hearts, they will not start again lightly.
After the end of the day, after the affair is over, women still miss their lover and usually behave in the following ways:
1. Don't dare to disturb him, hide in the corner and cry alone After the affair is over, if women still miss men, they will become extraordinarily vulnerable. They didn't dare to disturb the man, so they could only hide in the corner alone and weep, feeling extremely painful. They can't let go of the past, repeatedly reminiscing about the romantic times, the longing becomes more and more intense, and the heart becomes more and more sad. As a result, they rarely go out to socialize, staying at home all day, crying silently alone. Although they understand that their feelings are irretrievable, it is difficult to let go, bear the pain, and cry very heartbreakingly. They stared at their phones in a daze, hesitating to dial the familiar number, and finally chose to give up. After all, the woman doesn't know what to say after the ** is connected, and she is afraid of disturbing his life, and all the pain can only be borne by one person. Therefore, they cried almost alone, crying while thinking about men, gradually releasing in the wash of time, cherishing that deep love in the bottom of their hearts, forcing themselves to forget.
Second, silently pay attention to everything about him and seek some emotional comfort After the affair is over, if the woman can't let go, her mood will inevitably be extremely heavy and she will not be able to live a normal life. Therefore, they will quietly pay attention to that man, driven by longing, and want to know and grasp all the information about him. However, women do not pester him, but silently care for him and observe him quietly without his knowledge. For women, just seeing his figure makes the mood happy and emotionally comforting. Although the women miss him so much, they also know that they can't disturb his life and that now that it's over, there's no need to keep dwelling. Women are different from men, even if they leave, the love they once had will always remain in their hearts, it is hard to forget, and whenever they think back to the past, their hearts will still be moved. At this time, women will find all kinds of excuses to comfort themselves: "It is enough to love deeply and be well." Therefore, they will only silently pay attention to the man, will not interfere in his life, silently look at the person they once loved, get some comfort, in order to relieve the pain in their hearts. In this world, not all love is suitable, learn to let go, learn to forget, for unworthy love, there is no need to be stubborn, perhaps mature vision. In the long river of years, let those painful loves gradually fade, and finally forget each other in the rivers and lakes.
3. Running to see him, but in the end it still passes by After the affair is over, if women miss their lover very much, they will feel extreme pain and even have difficulty sleeping. In this case, they will be so eager to see their lover that they can't help but look for him in person, hoping to meet him. As a result, the woman will pluck up the courage and pretend to meet him by chance, full of nervousness, but when she walks up to him, she suddenly regrets it. At this time, the woman was afraid to reconnect, and finally chose to let go and pass by him. The woman returned home alone with a heavy heart, her thoughts getting heavier and heavier, and finally she could only cry bitterly. Such a woman may need to go through a period of time before she can gradually let go of her past love and let go. When they miss a man, even if they run to see him, they will not bother him, and will eventually pretend to be strangers, pass each other, and everything disappears with the passage of time.
Overall, after the affair ends, women still miss their lover and may behave in the following ways:
1. Don't dare to disturb him, hide in the corner and cry alone;2. Silently pay attention to everything about him and seek some emotional comfort;3. Ran to see him, but in the end he passed by.
In fact, an extramarital affair is not worth a female "moth to the fire", it is just a short-lived pleasure and has no future at all. Women should not blindly pursue love, let alone bet their life's happiness on unworthy men. No matter how much you once loved, as long as it is over, you don't have to be stubborn, only by letting go as soon as possible and looking forward positively can you find the truly suitable person. I hope that individual women can keep their senses, refuse to fall into extramarital affairs, and when faced with the ** of married men, please decisively say no!