On a show, a 12-year-old boy handed in such a resume:
1-year-old hiking, 2-year-old climbing Nanjing Purple Mountain, 3-year-old running naked in the snow ......At the age of 11, he graduated from Nanjing University, and at the age of 12, he planned to study for a doctorate and a master's ...... at the same time”
It's hard to imagine such a staggering resume, and its owner is only 12 years old this year, which is exactly the age when other children go to elementary school.
Who the hell is this teenager?How did he become such a smart "prodigy"?What has he achieved now?
When it comes to He Yide, everyone should not have any impression, but when it comes to snow naked running, many people must have an impression.
In the winter of 2012, there was a sudden appearance on the social **, the streets of New York, USA, due to several days of heavy snow, the streets were covered in silver and uninhabited. In such weather, almost everyone chooses to stay closed and warm up at home.
However, on the street at minus 13 degrees, a three- or four-year-old boy wearing only a pair of shorts and red from the cold suddenly appeared. There were still snowflakes in the sky, and every time they fell on one's body, it would cause a pain accompanied by a biting chill.
The boy cried and ran to his parents holding the camera, the tip of his nose was already red from the cold, and his body was also flushed with frozen red. His whole little face was full of tears, his little fists curled up tightly, and he shouted helplessly to the other side: "Mom, I'm cold!".Hug me!”
However, his crying was only exchanged for an extremely cold father outside the camera:"Keep running, don't stop!”And, as the boy approached, the father holding the camera was even backing away.
Finally reached the destination, however, the torture was not over, and the father asked the naked boy to do push-ups on the snow.
And this torture can be called torture, and the boy stayed in the ice and snow for five minutes
As soon as this ** came out, it instantly gained 260,000 **, and the Internet ** was also in an uproar.
Netizens have rebuked this "irresponsible" and "ruthless" father, accusing him of "child abuse", thinking that no matter what the reason, treating a four-year-old child like this can be called abuse. Some people even suspect that this father's approach is creating a gimmick without a bottom line to win attention.
In the face of overwhelming doubts and even personal attacks, his father He Liesheng was unmoved, and he did not mean to reflect at all, instead, he said: "This is my education method, only in this way can he become a talent!."”He Liesheng even gave himself a name for this type of education - Eagle Education.
In the face of the explanation of "eagle education", netizens did not buy it, they named the boy "naked running brother", and constantly rebuked this practice. He Liesheng didn't care about these evaluations, because in his opinion, his love for his son was unmatched by anyone, and he didn't need to prove it to anyone.
So why did he do it?As the saying goes, tiger poison does not eat children, as the biological father of the child, it is impossible not to feel sorry for his child, and the reason why He Liesheng is like this is because this child was once an extremely weak premature baby.
In February 2008, a baby's cry could be heard in a hospital in Nanjing.
This baby who has just fallen to the ground is He Liesheng's son, and later his naked running brother - He Yide, whose nickname is Duoduo. This year, He Liesheng was forty years old, and He Yide was his only son.
Originally, it should have been a good thing that the child landed safely and the mother and child were safe, but the doctor did not have a happy look.
Facing He Liesheng's anxious gaze, the doctor told him that although the child was born safely, it weighed only more than three catties due to the premature birth of three months. Therefore, the child's condition is not optimistic, and the child also has left ventricular hemorrhage, cerebral edema, etc., so it is very likely to leave sequelae.
As soon as the three words "sequelae" came out, He Liesheng felt like he had been punched out of thin air, and his brain exploded, and he asked in disbelief"What sequelae?”
In the face of his continuous questioning, the doctor told He Liesheng that the child is currently showing various symptoms, and there is a certain possibility that he will become a child with cerebral palsy. Subsequently, the young Duoduo was sent to the incubator by the doctor.
As soon as these words came out, the mother was a little devastated, and she kept pulling her husband to ask what to do. Compared with his mother, He Liesheng only panicked for a short period of time before calming downHe calmly comforted his wife and told her that he would never let his son become demented.
At that time, the wife only thought that this was an empty word from her husband to comfort herself, but she didn't expect that this was not a simple empty word, He Liesheng succeeded in doing what he said, and really put this sentence into action.
He Liesheng can be called a ruthless person. He used to be a physics teacher in a middle school, but he resigned after just one year on the job.
When asked about the reason, he said that it was because he could not agree with the "examination-oriented education" in China, so He Liesheng, whose ideals did not match reality, lost the extremely precious iron job in the eyes of others and decided to start his own business.
In the nineties of the last century, the country's economy developed rapidly, and all walks of life also appeared in a new atmosphere.
And He Liesheng also has the ambition to break out of the world, keeps up with the torrent of the times, and puts his entire net worth into an industry, hoping to establish his own achievements from then on
However, what He Liesheng didn't expect was that risks often coexist with opportunities, and this investment quickly lost money, not only lost all his property, but also owed a lot of debt.
However, this blow did not bother He Liesheng, and soon, he regrouped and once again devoted himself to the trend of entrepreneurship. After experiencing countless turmoil and setbacks, He Liesheng finally seized the opportunity and became a successful entrepreneur.
The experience in the shopping mall made He Liesheng highly agree with the "wolf culture" that many companies are criticized for, as the so-called natural selection of the fittest survives, He Liesheng firmly believes that the law of the jungle can breed the real strong.
Therefore, in the company founded by He Liesheng, everyone will be strictly demanded, and many rewards and punishments have been formulated and strictly implemented. Not only is he extremely strict with his employees, but He Liesheng is also unrelenting in his treatment of himself, working overtime in the company until late at night every day, and paying only a lot more energy than employees.
For this, he went through all the books on parenting, and also studied many topics about congenital deficiencies, trying to find ways to save children in continuous Xi.
Three months later, under the treatment and care of medical staff, Duoduo successfully passed the dangerous period and was notified that he could be discharged from the hospital. The doctor told He Liesheng and his wife that once the child had any problems, they must send the child to the hospital for examination.
He Liesheng listened to the doctor's words and nodded, at the same time, he had already formulated a series of "** plans" in his heart, and he wanted to implement them on his son.
Only ten days after Duoduo returned home, He Liesheng and his wife broke out into a very serious quarrel.
Duoduo, who had just been discharged from the hospital, had just gotten rid of the incubator and various instruments, and his body was at the time of weakness.
The mother naturally saw the pain in her eyes and heart, and just wanted to protect her son from now on to be safe and healthy forever.
However, He Liesheng took out the "** plan" he made for his son, saying that this is the best exercise plan that he has researched and consulted a lot of information and consulted professionals.
Immediately after, he took out a custom-made baby swimming ring, put it on Duoduo, and put him in the bathtub with a water temperature of no more than 25 degrees. You must know that the water temperature of a normal baby bath should be strictly controlled at 38 degrees to 40 degrees, and such a water temperature will be a little unbearable even for ** bathing, let alone a baby who has just been discharged from the hospital
As soon as Duoduo entered the water, he cried uncomfortably, wanting to get rid of the cold water, but in the face of the child's crying, He Liesheng was unmoved
The wife was so anxious that she wanted to take the child out at that time, however, He Liesheng held her down indifferently and insisted that the child could have stronger immunity, saying that his wife was actually harming the child by doing so.
And after a full ten minutes, He Liesheng hugged Duoduo out. That night, Duoduo developed a low-grade fever and began to have diarrhea incessantly. Seeing the tragic situation of the child being tossed, the mother's heart was broken, and she had a big quarrel with He Liesheng at that time, and resolutely refused to let He Liesheng implement his plan again. Other relatives could not understand this behavior, and accused He Liesheng of "tossing blindly" and "abusing children".
He Liesheng turned a deaf ear to everyone's accusations, he believed that his plan was reasonable, and after exercise, it would definitely make the child's physique enhanced.
In the end, neither of the two could convince anyone, and in the end, He Liesheng and his wife agreed to train according to their own plan for a week, and if the child still could not adapt, they would no longer train on their own.
In the next few days, He Liesheng intensified, soaking the child in 25-degree water every day, watching the child cry, and, as the days went by, the time spent in the bathtub gradually increased, from ten minutes at the beginning to twenty minutes, and finally even became an hour.
Unexpectedly, on the sixth day, the child began to play freely in the water, and he would laugh happily. And He Liesheng was also extremely happy, he understood that his plan was successful, and Duoduo really adapted to the "Eagle Plan" that he had worked so hard to formulate.
After seeing this result, the wife finally understood her husband's plan and expressed support for He Liesheng's follow-up plan
Immediately, He Liesheng officially started his "devil training", and every day, Duoduo had to train for several hours. Because his wife couldn't bear to see the child like this, she would always stop it, so He Liesheng refused his wife to participate in the child's ** plan.
A few months later, when I went to the hospital again for a check-up, the doctor also found that the child's health was much better than when he was first discharged from the hospital. The family was very happy, but at the same time, everyone also thought that this kind of education could be over.
But He Liesheng didn't think so, and soon, he began the next step of the plan, forcing the child to train in terms of physical fitness and culture. It can be said that when he was still babbling, Duoduo lived a life like a sprint in the third year of high school.
At the age of two, he hiked to the Purple Mountain, and by the time he was three, he had already learned more than 3,000 Chinese characters and was able to communicate in English in some simple but fluent ways.
After being tested by professionals, the level of three-year-old Duoduo has completely reached the level of primary school.
At this time, He Liesheng decided to take his son He Yide to live in the United States.
When Duoduo was four years old, the father and son became famous because of the ** who ran naked in the snow, and Duoduo He Yide was called "naked running brother" by netizens. Despite countless doubts and abuse, He Liesheng still carried out his "Eagle Plan" in his own way, and happily accepted the title of "Eagle Dad" given by netizens.
Under careful and rigorous planning, Duoduo has grown extremely rapidly.
At the age of four, He Yide sailed alone and participated in the International Regatta in Qingdao. At the age of five, he flew around the Beijing Wildlife Park for two weeks in a fixed-wing aircraft, breaking the record for the smallest flyer in the world.
At the age of six, he published his autobiographical book "I Am a Naked Running Brother", and at the same time, he crossed Lop Nur, known as the sea of death, with his father He Liesheng.
After making this series of achievements, He Liesheng did not stop there, he thought that his son should enter a higher school, so he made a plan for his son to participate in the self-examination of Nanjing University, and with this goal, he made a two-and-a-half-year-long study plan accurate to every hour of Xi.
When He Yide was nine years old, he was admitted to the junior college of Nanjing University as he wished, and at the age of 12, he obtained a bachelor's degree from Nanjing University through the college promotion.
At the age of 13, He Yide was admitted to the MBA of Wukang University in Spain. In February of this year, 15-year-old He Yide received an admission notice from a postdoctoral fellow at the University of Cambridge in the United Kingdom.It can be said that He Yide's life is very brilliant, and he has achieved achievements that most people can't achieve.
When He Yide made all kinds of glorious achievements, He Liesheng said that he was very satisfied with his education method, he said:"The flowers in the greenhouse can never withstand the wind and rain. ”
Indeed, whether it is a body that is far beyond ordinary people, or a resume that is glittering with gold and is beyond the reach of his peers and even adults, He Liesheng's approach is extremely correct and successful. After all, it is the wish of every parent to hope that their son will become a Chan, and He Liesheng has also perfectly fulfilled this wish, and he has created a genius with his own hands.
However, many netizens questioned this behavior, saying that He Liesheng linked the child's growth experience to the training class he foundedUsing his son as his advertising signboard, and therefore constantly consuming He Yide to win the public's attention, this behavior is actually a kind of bad seedling-fueling education.
While other children are still enjoying their childhood and playing carefree, He Yide is like a constantly running machine, and his life is even divided by hours, so as to achieve the purpose set by He Liesheng for him, is this kind of life really what He Yide wants?Is he really happy again?
We don't know what this bright and shining child thinks in his heart. It can only be said that every child is an independent individual, and we cannot replicate He Yide's success, but I believe that every parent will let their children show their unique colors.
What do you think about He Liesheng's educational philosophy, whether it is good or bad?