Nowadays, more and more children are tired of school, some children are tired of school because of their parents' high expectations, and some children are tired of school because of poor grades. Poor grades will not only frustrate children's self-confidence, but also make children averse to schooling. What should I do if my junior high school child has bad grades?
1. Cultivate children's interest in learning Xi. It is said that interest is the best teacher, when interest becomes the motivation for children to learn Xi, children will take the initiative to learn Xi without the supervision of parents. One of the main prerequisites for being interested in learning Xi is to let children gain a sense of achievement, and the number of times they get a sense of achievement gradually increases, and the interest in learning Xi naturally develops.
2. Don't deny your child too much. Adults and children often see different things and angles. Denying a child's ideas according to common sense and rules is just a blow to the child's creativity and imagination. Therefore, parents should not be in a hurry to deny their children, but try to let them try to find the answer and find their own optimal solution. At the same time, it is also the right way to develop an independent personality and the ability to think independently.
In the past, my children also encountered these problems in Xi, and I really couldn't help it at first, until a friend introduced meAfter a period of Xi Xi the child's thinking and attitude towards learning Xi have changed 180 degrees, his grades have improved Xi, and he also has a sense of achievement, which I am very happy for!
3. Don't blame your child. Many parents see that their children's grades fall behind, so they are anxious and push all the faults on their children. As a result, when the child is constantly subjected to negative criticism, its counter-effect is applied to the school, making the child feel bored with school. In fact, if parents know how to "support" their children, children can often generate greater motivation for their families to Xi.
4. Help children improve their ability to learn and Xi independently. Children with poor grades and aversion to school are mostly because they can't keep up with the progress of their Xi, and they are often criticized by parents, blamed by teachers and despised by classmates, followed by some typical disgust and behaviors. Therefore, as parents, we should find ways to guide our children in learning Xi and improve their learning Xi ability, and over time, the boredom of learning will be weakened, and the interest in learning Xi will become stronger and stronger.
What should I do if my junior high school child has bad grades? How to improve children's poor grades
First, parents should talk to their children, that is, normal communication, chat with their children like friends, and understand why their children's grades decline, whether it is because they can't learn, or because of other external reasons. After finding out the cause, we will face and solve the problem with the child, remedy and find a way together, and at the same time do a good job in the child's ideological work and enlighten the child.
Second, if the child's grades are poor, parents may wish to set goals for the next exam with their children, list a detailed implementation plan, and then let the children practice one by one. With a goal, the child has a direction to move forward. Be specific in setting goals, measurements, and time. Goals should be specific and numerical, not general, and it is necessary to determine the exact time for achieving the goal. For example, you can set a target score for each subject in the final exam. Aiming too low isn't challenging, and too high doesn't make sense, so be sure to set it within reason.
3. For most children, after a day at school, the first thing they do when they get home is to relax, because they have no concept of time at all, and they may not be able to control themselves while playing. At this time, we need to remind our children: Is it time for us to do our homework? No matter what the child's response is, we must make the child aware of this and guide him to act in a short period of time, and after a long time, he will adapt to this Xi rhythm of learning.
Parents should cultivate their children's good learning habits, first of all, let them give up the pursuit, things that can stimulate pleasure in a short period XiXi of time, and let the children get satisfaction for a longer time. This can not only cultivate children's self-control ability, but also make children more down-to-earth in the process of learning Xi. The second is that parents should try their best to let their children take the initiative to improve their Xi learning efficiency, so that they can learn to concentrate on completing their homework and get satisfaction from learning Xi.