Yesterday, I chatted with a child, and she said, "Sister, after reading Xiaohongshu, I really feel that I am weak." People are in their twenties, with a monthly income of tens of thousands, buying a house and a car, and I have a salary of several thousand, and I still want to live a delicate life, hey, I can't live!”
I smiled and persuaded her, yes, I felt that I was dragging the cause of poverty alleviation after brushing, so what should I do?
In fact, we don't know what other people's real lives are like, but we still have to live them day by day.
After raising a baby, I no longer pursue a refined life, but prefer to live a comfortable life.
After all, the days are your own, and you will lose your original taste when compared with anyone.
01.Do your own three meals a day, and eat with peace of mind
Some time ago, the "prefabricated dishes into the campus" really broke the hearts of many parents.
Since I had a baby, I said goodbye to the spring water with my fingers and began to study fireworks in the world.
If you want to say that you like to cook, you can't really talk about it, after all, oil smoke and washing are still quite annoying.
I can't bear to eat at ease, and another point is super saving, haha
A bowl of braised noodles in our eighth-tier city has now been sold for 14 yuan. And I buy 25 A pack of braised noodles, plus vegetables and meat, about 14 pieces is enough for the whole family.
Breakfast is simple, porridge and side dishes, eggs, plus bread or steamed buns, the family sits together, eating warm and comfortable.
People say that there are two people in one house, three meals and four seasons.
And we, four people in a house, three meals and four seasons, will we be a little more happy?
02.Read free books and save money.
In this age of e-books, I still prefer paper books.
After moving to a new house and having my own bookshelf, I bought a lot of books.
Later, I found that the old books were reluctant to throw away, and the new books cost a lot of money, so I found a nearby library.
There is a little advantage of the small town, that is, except for the winter and summer vacations, there are really not many people who read books.
I can borrow two books with one card, I can do two, and the children can borrow two, and I borrow two, and the book schedule is full for a week.
Sometimes, I also go to the bookstore to see what new books are available, and spend half an hour browsing it, which is both relaxing and comfortable.
Reading free books is really a good way to save money.
03.Spend very little money to please yourself and live comfortably
It may be that when I was a child, I was influenced by my mother's frugal outlook on life, and when I grew up, I was also good at "picking doors" in daily life.
People buy bags, lipsticks, and high-end cosmetics to please themselves.
And I, buy a small bouquet of flowers, buy a small box of cakes, buy a massage comb ......You can be happy for half a day by spending a dozen or twenty yuan.
I also like those simple small gifts, the value is not too expensive, just when the heart arrives.
The person in my family often said that I was easy to raise, but my life was my own, and I could be happy and comfortable with very little money.
04.Reward at the right time and spend heartwarmly
In this society, everyone is rolling, not only adults, but also children.
Tiredness and emptiness are common problems for many people. Physically tired and mentally empty.
At this time, we need to reward ourselves appropriately.
You can set up a family reward day, summarize your progress and your child's progress every week and month, prepare a small gift, or a cash reward, to boost motivation and enhance relationships.
Of course, nothing is done once and for all, and we also need to learn to change the way we do it at the right time, so as not to get tired of aesthetics and enter into ineffective interactions again.
Pay more attention to the heart of yourself and the people around you, soothe the spirit, and focus on heartwarming.
05.Don't overdo itBaby, live worry-free
Sometimes, I feel like I'm the mom who realized it later.
When other people's families were all chicken babies, I never spent too much money on my children.
Interest class, according to the child's preferences, the two babies' paintings have also been hanging in the art class display area.
Xi class, the big one only made up for the shortcomings on the eve of the middle school entrance examination, and the small one has not registered for class until now.
I have always felt that rather than trying my best to get my children to attend more interest classes and make up more classes, what they need more is understanding and encouragement.
I missed the test once or twice, it doesn't matter, I'm not the top-notch mother, don't expect too much.
I just hope that they are positive, proactive, have a certain amount Xi of learning ability, love themselves well, and do not underestimate themselves, which is enough.
Spiritual enrichment,Surrounded by material that is greater than anything else.
Everyone has their own life, we are different, and we don't need to live as someone else, only you know best if you are comfortable or not.
Minimalist living