Creative Inspiration Center I came out of my hometown at the age of six and settled with my father in a distant state-owned enterprise. Therefore, the memory of my grandmother is very vague, and I only vaguely remember my grandmother's white, delicate, and kind face, the figure of being busy with housework every day, and the little feet that used to be bound and inconvenient to walk.
When I was in the third grade of elementary school, I suddenly heard the bad news that my grandmother died of a sudden myocardial infarction, and my two sisters and I cried together"Grandma makes everyone especially nostalgic and nostalgic.
After Grandma died, Grandpa has been living alone. Grandpa's quiet and stern personality began to change, and he often lay on a bamboo chair in the courtyard, staring at the red sunset in the western mountains, his eyes glistening with tears. My mother whispered to me, "I must be missing your grandma now!".”
Grandpa's children all moved into the city one after another, leaving Grandpa alone to guard a large courtyard. There are a dozen tall apple, pear, walnut and pepper trees in the yard. Grandpa's life was inconvenient, and his neighbors kept persuading him to marry another mother-in-law so that they could take care of each other's lives.
When I was in junior high school, my grandfather finally shook up and went to see a mother-in-law in a nearby village. Grandpa came back and thought about it for two days and agreed to the family business.
The eldest aunt, second aunt and father deliberately chose an auspicious day to buy a sumptuous banquet for grandpa and stepgrandma in the largest restaurant in town, which is the most simple wedding. Then take the grandmother through the door.
Because of my deep affection for my grandmother, my sisters, younger brothers, and family partners and I were quite repulsive to my step-grandmother. When Dad found out about this, he hurriedly instructed us: "Everyone is busy in the field and can't take care of grandpa, mother-in-law does good things for us, everyone has to thank others!".In the future, you have to respect people, and you have to call grandma!”
My grandmother lost her husband at an early age and lived alone, very hard, and only one niece had a relationship. Grandpa is a retired cadre, with a good monthly retirement salary, and is proficient in medicine, cooking, and grinding, and is upright, benevolent, and has a high prestige in the village. After my grandmother followed my grandfather, her living conditions improved greatly, she didn't have to worry about food and clothing, she was in a happy mood, her body gradually gained weight, and the wrinkles on her face also stretched, and sometimes she even hummed a few words of Pu opera, which made everyone laugh. She and her grandfather both have a Xi of smoking, and they both hold a wisp in their spare time. The brand of cigarettes smoked is a grade higher than that of ordinary neighbors, which is the envy of old men and women who are addicted to smoking.
During the summer vacation of high school, I went back to my hometown to live with my grandfather and step-grandmother for a month. The noodles made by my grandmother are particularly delicious, and I have to scramble two eggs every day to replenish my body, and she said: "This baby learns too hard to Xi, and her body is thin!.""I felt very warm.
I, my grandfather, and my grandmother went to grow vegetables in their own fields, do farm work, and experience the joy of labor firsthand. The white radishes in the field are very thick, significantly larger than the ones I usually see in the wet market. There are also green leeks, fat green onions, fiery red peppers, and authentic green vegetables!
One evening, my grandfather went out to see a fellow villager. I chatted with my step-grandmother, and she said with deep feelings: "Your grandfather is most afraid of loneliness, last year's New Year, there was no one else in the family, just our old couple, lonely." Other people's families set off firecrackers in groups, noisy and shouting, so lively!Your grandfather didn't have a taste in his heart, so he cooked alone, fried four good dishes, and drank a lot of wine alone. In the second half of the night, he suddenly stopped snoring, I felt that something was wrong, and pushed with my hand, he didn't react at all, and he was in shock!I hurriedly pressed his middle down hard, and it took him a while to wake up!”
I am very grateful to my grandmother, she saved my grandfather's life!
A few days later, it was my grandmother's birthday. My grandfather and stepgrandmother and I ate a table of wine and food around a small table on the kang, and the old couple was very happy, both drank some wine, and recalled the past with emotion.
My grandfather had cirrhosis of the liver, and he had been careful and meticulous in his meals, and he took hepatoprotective drugs intermittently. At the age of 77, my grandfather was found to have advanced stomach cancer and died after a year of treatment. The grandmother washed her face with tears all day long, and the aunt was worried that she was too sad, so she took her to her own home to serve. My grandmother suffered from severe asthma due to long-term smoking, old age and decay. She still couldn't quit smoking, which affected her heart. At the age of 69, my grandmother died on my aunt's kang.
According to the custom, the people removed the windows of that room, carried the stepgrandmother out of the window on a stretcher, and buried them solemnly next to the graves of grandpa and grandma, and there was a graveway between them and grandpa's graves.