Wen Lianzi said emotion.
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Life has to go through a lot, and women of each age experience it differently, and young women may not have experienced so many trials and tribulations of life, so they will be more naïve. As I grew older and experienced more, I slowly lost the impulse and passion of my youth, and I had more stability and a sense of crisis.
Especially women who have passed the age of 45, they have experienced a lot of things, and they know that some things are uncontrollable, so they naturally have a lot of worries in their hearts. As experience grows, so does the sense of crisis, which is known as a midlife crisis.
In fact, there are also women who have passed the age of 45 who have a good life, they are confident to face the morning glow every day, and live a good day with sufficient and hard work. Why are they doing well?That's because they know that after the age of 45, they can live a happy and beautiful life by relying on the following three things!
No matter what age a woman is, she can't do anything if she's not in good health. Especially for middle-aged women, they have the best ability and work experience in the workplace, and they just reach the peak of their careers, but at this time they are not in good health and unhealthy, that is, they are weak and can't do anything.
A female colleague of mine, in her forties, was about to be promoted to supervisor, but at this juncture, she caught a cold, and it was very serious, causing pneumonia and being hospitalized for more than half a month. After being discharged from the hospital and recovering from the hospital, there are still many sequelae, sweating, wheezing, exhaustion and even hair loss.
She used to stay up late and was fine, but now she feels very uncomfortable after staying up late, and it is not a matter of a day or two to recover. Seeing that she is in such an unhealthy health now, the leader planned to promote her to supervisor, but even though her work ability and experience are better than others, she can only give up.
Being unhealthy is a particularly big blow for a middle-aged woman. Just like my female colleague, I saw that the opportunity was in front of me, but I missed it because of my own physical health problems, and that feeling of powerlessness was very devastating.
Therefore, only by protecting your body and being healthy can you have everything. If you are not healthy, everything is empty talk. Of course, if a woman over the age of 45 wants to live well, the first thing is to have a healthy body.
Although money is not everything, it is impossible to do without money in today's society. If you don't have any money, it's hard for you to even take a step. Some people say, "After that, I will rely on people's children, and if your children have problems with their own lives, how can he take care of you?"It's already good that they don't gnaw at the old.
Life not only needs money, but it is also a tool to check and balance all relationships. In all relationships, with the support of a certain amount of money and wealth, others will be in awe of you. The so-called wealth is also the truth that there is money in hand and there is no panic in the heart.
There is a saying that doesn't say: Is it rich and capricious?After the age of 45, a woman has a certain amount of money and wealth, and she is not only confident but also willful.
My classmate Wenwen is that she is two years away from retirement, and she was laid off by the company's layoffs, but she is not anxious when she is not in the class, because she still has a house to rent and has a good income every month. She said that even if her husband didn't give her a home, she wouldn't have to worry. Usually, she doesn't have to hesitate to buy what she wants, and she can travel wherever she wants.
Therefore, only if you have a certain amount of money and wealth, you don't have to look at other people's faces to live, especially after the age of 45, women who have a certain amount of money and wealth will have the quality of life, and they can have confidence and live well.
Whether our mentality is good or not is an important factor that determines whether we are happy or unhappy in life. If people have too many desires and too many expectations, they will think about it more, and the more they think, the more they will suffer from gains and losses, and they will become tired.
If you have a bad mentality, you will have too high expectations of the people around you, like to complain, either pick this fault or find that fault, no such person likes to live with her.
The tenant next door to us is a middle-aged woman who complains all day that her husband can't afford to buy a house for her to live in, or that her husband is getting a job for so low a salary, and she doesn't go out to work herself. will blame her husband all day long, and their family always quarrels every now and then, how can such a life be good?
People have lived to middle age and experienced so much, they should know how to look down on gains and losses, and don't care about everything, so that there will be no disputes in their hearts, and they will not be cranky.
The so-called less desire, people's lives are not so tired and much easier. If there are not so many expectations, there will be no disappointment, and the natural person will be happy.
Therefore, if a woman who has passed the age of 45 wants to live well, she must have a good attitude, only in this way will she live with less sorrow and more happiness!
If a woman wants to live well after the age of 45, three things are indispensable, the first is a healthy body, the second is money and wealth, and the third is a good attitude.
When people reach middle age, they have the above three things, know how to see through everything, don't take the gains and losses too seriously, do not dispute or confuse, live every day, and live a good natural life.