After a breakup, how to deal with the nude bed photos in the hands of the ex?

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-29

With the increasing popularity of smartphones, taking photos has become as easy as breathing and eating. During the relationship, you and I are in deep love, and it is natural to take pictures with your mobile phone to record those burning moments. It is not only the scenery photos of people who travel and play, mountains and rivers, but also the intimate kisses of each other and even h**e sex, so that they can be carefully appreciated in the future and have an endless aftertaste.

As everyone knows, such a move is tantamount to planting a time bomb for yourself.

If each other achieves positive results, it may be enough, and privacy ** becomes a witness to good memories. If the situation changes, the creation makes people, the suspicion arises, and the drift is getting farther and farther apart, breaking up is inevitable. Looking back sharply, I was shocked to find that my nude (bed) photos and other large-scale images were still in the hands of the other party, so I felt anxious and fell into panic.

Guy is good when both parties trust and everything is fine, and when bad is not trusting and full of doubts. In addition, some sinister people use this as a threat, or are unwilling to break up, or ask for money and goods, and do illegal things, and both parties lose. The list goes on.

Suning, Hebei. Zhang Mouyue is a lover in the same village, and began dating in 2014, at first, he couldn't help himself when the love was strong, and took a lot of private photos of the two. In February 2020, Zhang proposed to break up and married her husband soon after. Yue couldn't accept the fact that Zhang was married to someone else, and thought that Zhang and his family had cheated him, so he had thoughts of revenge.

Yue spread the previous photographed Zhang** in his WeChat circle of friends and Kuaishou app, and sent these ** to Zhang's family. During the period, due to being reported, Yue's Kuaishou account was blocked. In May 2020, Yue re-applied for another account and continued to spread Zhang's **and**. Through the spread of the Internet, these **, the number of views reached more than 600 times.

During this period, Yue also harassed and provoked Zhang's husband many times through ** and WeChat. This information also spread rapidly in the local area, causing a very bad impact, Zhang was under great pressure, and finally died of humiliation and poisoning.

Later, Zhang's husband called the police, and Yue **. On December 3, 2020, the Suning County People's Court made a judgment and sentenced Yue to two years and eight months in prison for insult.

Article 246 of the Criminal Law: Where violence or other methods are used to publicly insult others or fabricate facts to slander others, and the circumstances are serious, a sentence of up to three years imprisonment, short-term detention, controlled release, or deprivation of political rights is to be given.

Sui County, Henan. In January 2021, Wu met and fell in love, and during the relationship, Wu photographed Nan. The two have been together for half a year and feel that it is inappropriate to break up. It should have been a separate and two wide, good gathering and dispersal, but in January 2022, Wu called Nan's father **, threatening Nan Mou** in his hand, demanding payment of money, otherwise he would post ** on the Internet and post it near Nan's home. Nan's father was afraid of his daughter's reputation, and in order to save face, he had to swallow his angerThe two sides bargained and came to an agreement. Nan paid 3,000 yuan to Wu, and Wu promised to delete all of Nan's **.

The Nan family thought that the matter would end here, but they didn't expect Wu to taste the sweetness, and the old trick would be repeated after the money was squandered. But Nan no longer complied, so Wu fabricated pornographic information about Nan, posted it on the Internet, and sent screenshots to Nan's father;He also fabricated Nan's family-style ** information, and printed Nan's father's *** into an advertisement** and placed it under the gate of Nan's house. The Nan family realized that this was a bottomless pit, and they would fall deeper and deeper into it if they swallowed their anger, and called the police angrily.

Wu suffered on his own and was imprisoned. The Sui County People's Court made a judgment and sentenced Wu to one year and eight months in prison for the crime of extortion, fined 5,000 yuan, and repaid the victim's economic losses of 3,000 yuan.

[Crime of extortion] Article 274 of the Criminal Law: Whoever extorts public or private property, where the amount is relatively large or extorts multiple times, is to be sentenced to up to three years imprisonment, short-term detention or controlled release, and/or a fine;where the amount is huge or there are other serious circumstances, a sentence of between 3 and 10 years imprisonment and a concurrent fine is to be given;where the amount is especially huge or there are other especially serious circumstances, a sentence of 10 or more years imprisonment and a concurrent fine is to be given.

In the above two cases, the perpetrators of evil have borne legal responsibility for their illegal acts and have been duly punished. However, the victim also suffered great physical and mental damage, and the former lost his precious life, and his relatives lamented itThe latter's own and family reputations have been damaged, and it may be difficult to raise his head for a while.

During a relationship, it is illegal for either party to ask the other party to shoot *** and ** by means of violence or coercionSuspected of coercive ** crime.

Article 237 of the Criminal Law: Whoever uses violence, coercion, or other methods to compel others or insult women is to be sentenced to up to five years imprisonment or short-term detention.

Even if the other party agrees, after shooting**、If malicious spread, thenSuspected of the crime of disseminating ** items.

Article 364 of the Criminal Law: Where books, periodicals, films, audio-visuals, or other ** items are disseminated, and the circumstances are serious, a sentence of up to two years imprisonment, short-term detention, or controlled release is to be given.

Contemptible people believe that at all times and in any place, both parties in love must protect themselves. When you are in love, you are sweet, gentle, and tender, but you should retain your self-esteem and bottom lineIn case of a breakup, it will leave a handle for the unscrupulous person, and it is likely to lay the root of the bane for the future family, after all, there are many things that turn their faces and do not recognize people after a breakup. This kind of boudoir pleasure of taking nude (bed) photos and taking ** should be avoided as much as possible (the previous car Yin Jian: Edison Chen, Cecilia Cheung, Gillian and other ** door incidents were sensational, bringing immeasurable adverse effects to all parties).

Of course, if you shoot it, you don't have to worry about it. Do the following when you break up:

1. Ask the other party for the source file, if the other party can't provide it, inform it to delete and destroy it as soon as possible, and explain the legal consequences of leakage and dissemination, the network is not a place outside the law;

2. If you find the situation of spreading, call the police decisively as soon as possible, and resolutely fight against the lawbreakers. On the one hand, the transmission is blocked by corresponding technical means, and on the other hand, because it is difficult to collect evidence in such cases, the public security organs can assist in obtaining evidence;

3. If the other party's leakage and transmission behavior affects your mental health, you can seek psychological support from your family or professionals in time.

-About the Author-

Gan ShirongHe holds a master's degree from Tsinghua University and a bachelor's degree from China University of Political Science and LawAlumni tutor of Tsinghua University, part-time teacher of China University of Political Science and Law and Party School of Beijing Municipal Law Commission. Deputy Director of the Legal Committee of the China Farmers and Entrepreneurs Association, member of the China Law SocietyPartner lawyer of Beijing Huacheng Law Firm, senior corporate compliance specialist, executive director of the Research Center for Sexual Crimes and Protection of Women and Children. He focuses on handling all kinds of criminal cases, including criminal defense and accusations, and has a deep research on sex crimes and duty crimesand various administrative cases (land and housing expropriation, administrative litigation and reconsideration), etc. He has worked in the capital's political, legal, and discipline inspection systems for nearly 8 years, and served as a public lawyer of the Beijing Municipal Commission for Discipline Inspection and the Municipal Supervision CommissionIn 2008, he led a bicycle ride from the capital to the Everest base camp (5,200 meters above sea level).

Contact**: 15712995234 (same number on WeChat).

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