Jobs used to say in the past:
In the first 30 years of your life, you will develop some Xi. And in the last 30 years of your life, these Xi will determine your fate.
A person's Xi possesses extraordinary energy that can influence and determine one's destiny throughout one's life.
Xi will give people lasting motivation and long-term benefits throughout their lives.
If you develop bad Xi, it is like walking into the darkness, and once you fall into it, it will be difficult to get out of the predicament.
It is often said that "there is no way for good or evil, but only for others", which means that a person's fate is closely related to their Xi.
If women unfortunately develop the following three Xi, they may lose their happiness in the future and become more and more tired. I hope you don't have these Xi.
Overly impulsive consumers don't realize the importance of saving.
Women are emotionally sensitive creatures and exhibit less calm behavior when they are affected by emotions.
Impulse shopping is one of the classic representatives of women's emotionality.
In the TV series "Du Lala's Promotion", Du Lala's boyfriend Li Hongming betrayed her, and their relationship ended.
Durala is very depressed and frustrated after falling out of love, and after experiencing painful torture, she suddenly and impulsively wants to go shopping.
He first went to the famous store of Guomao and bought some expensive clothes that are usually difficult to get, and he didn't care about ** and personal preferences at all.
Then, he rushed to the car 4s shop, paid the full cost with his only credit card, and finally got the car of his dreams.
Impulsive spending can fill the emptiness of the heart for a short time, but in the end it does not solve the underlying problem.
When we calm down, calm down, and get rid of the previous state of excitement, we often regret what we have done before.
At present, many businesses are taking advantage of women's vulnerability to create a sense of insecurity, which in turn encourages them to rush to buy products.
Although human desires are endless, they cannot meet all their needs because each person's income is limited.
As a result, many women face the troubling dilemma of having less income but more expenses, and the phenomenon of moonshine is more common.
Some people are Xi to overspending or overspending lifestyles, leaving their wallets empty and even saddled with large debts.
Highfield once expressed this opinion: "When we spend money, we feel very happy and satisfied, but when we have no money, we feel very miserable and distressed." ”
Although wealth does not guarantee happiness, the days of poverty are undoubtedly very difficult.
Learning to save is important for future happiness, because your bank card balance will be an important capital for you to cope with risks.
Indulging in complaining can bring about too much negativity.
Everyone's life path is unique, and everyone will experience a variety of challenges and difficulties.
In the face of these unpleasant situations, some people choose to persevere and work hard to overcome the difficulties, while others choose to stagnate and complain.
Complaining is not just a mood or state, it is an unhealthy behavior.
When women indulge in complaining, their personal good fortune and happiness also quietly depart.
When we face injustices in our lives, we can choose to vent our inner emotions. However, it is more important to find solutions to the problems at hand.
Self-blame and falling into self-pity will not change anything, but will only exacerbate the negative effects of the state of mind and emotions, making it more difficult for you to get out of the situation.
On Tieba, a netizen posted a complaint about his wife:
His wife often complained that he was dissatisfied, that he could not meet her demands no matter how hard he tried, and always responded to his efforts with blame.
Whenever he came home from grocery shopping, his wife always complained that the price of the groceries was too expensive or that the choice was not good enough, from cooking to washing dishes.
Whenever there is a disagreement between the husband and wife, the wife always complains that her husband earns little money, that she has married the wrong person, and that her current life is too difficult.
He even told his tragic and unfortunate life in front of others many times in tears, which attracted the attention of the surrounding residents.
Every time he thought of his wife's sad face, he felt physically and mentally exhausted, and he had no motivation to go home.
As Liu Wenwen said: "Complaining is like pouring water into your own shoes, and the more you complain, the more uncomfortable you feel." ”
Those women who like to complain always spend their energy in constant complaining, leaving themselves in the mire of negative emotions.
When we encounter setbacks and things don't go our way, if we just keep complaining and complaining, it's better to take the initiative to take action, so that we can get over the situation more quickly.
Staying up late often and neglecting the importance of health.
In today's fast-paced life, paying attention to health has become an issue that is often mentioned but easily overlooked.
According to the data provided by the 2022 China Work and Rest Report, we can see that generally speaking, there is an average of 36 days will stay up late, which means that about a third of the week is spent on night activities.
Among 25- to 45-year-olds, the average time to go to bed is 10:48 p.m. on weekdays and later on weekends.
More than 90% of people have the behavior of staying up late, nearly half of them stay up late Xi habitually, and more than 50% of the time every week they fall asleep after 11 p.m.
In contemporary society, sleep problems have become one of the most common and serious health problems.
Lack of adequate sleep is closely related to human health, and staying up late may lead to problems such as high blood pressure, high blood sugar and high blood lipids, as well as increase the risk of heart disease and sudden death.
It's not uncommon to hear people say:"It's immoral not to go to bed at 10 p.m., and it's too dangerous not to go to bed at 11 p.m.
This is not an exaggeration, especially for women, even if they save their lives, it is not worth it to damage their image because of it.
Perhaps, chasing short ** on a calm night will become an addiction, but definitely not staying up late for a long time.
Because of the momentary pleasure that gave up precious health, it is now meaningless to try to recover it.
High-profile Olympic champion Eileen Gu once believed that one of the keys to her success was getting enough sleep.
She not only pays attention to daily life and Xi, but also insists on sleeping no less than 10 hours a day to ensure that she is always energized.
As Shakespeare said, "Every living thing needs sleep to regulate its body." ”
Getting enough sleep is an important benefit for beauty and the best way to stay healthy. Not staying up late is the best way for women to manage themselves.
Keynes once expressed the following view: "Thinking guides behavior, behavior forms Xi, Xi shape personality, and personality determines destiny." ”
Forming good Xi can really change a person's life.
Time flies, and time flies.
Although time cannot be stopped, there will always be some people who can calmly face the changes of time.
Streamline your life, reduce your clergy, get rid of the unnecessary, and embrace the good. In this way, life will be easier and more relaxed.
I hope that women can confidently and calmly show their most beautiful side, without losing dignity or impatience, and go out of their own life path. As the years passed, they still pursued beauty.