He Ju's second marriage life, after Wei Daming's marriage proposal and concise certificate, slowly unfolded like a picture scroll. There is no grand banquet, no complicated ceremony, just going out to share a dinner that day, which can be regarded as an important node in life. He Ju doesn't like complicated chores, on the one hand, because she and Wei Daming are busy with work, and it is difficult to reconcile the time;On the other hand, as second-time marriages, they don't see the need to be overly complicated. Eight years have passed, and He Ju has once again stepped into the palace of marriage. Although this was more out of satisfying her father's last wish before his death, she had a deep impression of Wei Daming's family concept. He is a person who does not smoke, drink or gamble, lives a life at two o'clock and one line every day, is not only a person who works hard in the hospital, but also a person who advocates simplicity. He Ju was sincerely satisfied with this. She doesn't like the kind of man who is lively all day long, likes to drink and party, and indulges in entertainment. She feels that it is a blessing to meet Wei Daming, and she believes that the future will be happy and harmonious. The new months of marriage did exactly what she wanted. 
However, as time passed, He Ju began to notice something unusual about Wei Daming. This person likes to pretend, and all the food and drink are in the house He Ju bought before marriage, and he doesn't pay a penny. It made her feel uncomfortable. Didn't you raise a free food?
It doesn't cost anything to eat and drink, and there are people who warm his bed at night. Just when He Ju was suspicious of this, Wei Daming actually took the initiative to start paying living expenses. The amount is not much, only 1,000 yuan.
He explained that it was mainly used for the meals of his family, He Ju and his son who was in high school, and he basically ate in the hospital, so the 1,000 yuan was enough.
What are these words?Do you think He Ju is a hotel here, a hotel?He Ju was a little unhappy in his heart. However, she thought about it again, if she cares too much about life, she will lose the true joy and flavor of life. Moreover, she herself is actually not short of this money.
So, she decided not to care about it, and planned to manage this second marriage life well. She thought that as long as she was generous enough, their lives would be fine. However, as time goes on, she discovers that things are not as simple as she thinks.
He Ju understood that Wei Daming was a simple and thrifty person. But he will also invest. I heard that he successfully sold two houses in the past and made a lot of money. Seeing that other colleagues in the hospital had bought houses, Wei Daming's heart also began to itch.
From time to time, he mentioned the matter of buying a house in front of He Ju. He Ju was noncommittal, just smiled faintly. Because she thinks that it is his business to buy a house, after all, the money in his hand is also his own.
Wei Daming can be at his disposal. Although they don't say it officially, they tacitly manage their own finances and take care of their own children. He Ju has a son, and Wei Daming has a daughter, and this girl will soon graduate from college.
Therefore, she didn't want to take advantage of Wei Daming and decided to take on all the responsibilities of her son, including the future marriage. He Ju doesn't need to buy a house herself, because she already owns two properties.
Although she still has some savings on hand, her son is about to go to college, and the future costs are unpredictable. However, she didn't know that Wei Daming had been clamoring to buy a house, but he was unwilling to pay for it.
His crooked thoughts all pointed to He Ju.
Isn't the house where your dad used to live now rented?Actually, we can sell it and buy the house I fancie. Wife, let me tell you, my vision is absolutely first-class, we sell and buy again, we will definitely make a steady profit!Wei Daming patted his chest and was very proud.
He Ju looked a little stunned. If you want to buy a house, why should I sell it first?He Ju muttered in his heart. "What about the loan after buying a house?He Ju pretended not to know anything, and deliberately guided Wei Daming to speak.
The loan is simple, let's pay half of it, so that we are not tired and relaxed. Sure enough, that's what he was going to do. I will sell the house for the down payment, and then take out half of the loan, so that you can easily get seven or eight hundred thousand.
Because He Ju's father's house will be sold for at least 1.5 million, because it is a large suite, and it is a school district house. When the father bought it, he took into account the problem of He Ju's son going to school, and although it was not used in the end, the location was excellent.
It was impossible for He Ju to agree to this proposal. Although she wants to live a good life, she is not so stupid as to sell her house for the sake of her second marriage. She didn't want to fall out with Wei Daming, so she found a reason not to offend anyone.
My father passed away, and this house is the only property he left me in this world, and the only thing I miss, and I don't plan to sell it. ”
Wei Daming and He Ju both took half a month's leave to return to their hometown. Wei Daming's mother was bedridden because she was paralyzed, and his father had difficulty taking care of him alone.
So, Wei Daming proposed to take his mother to the city to live with them. Although He Ju was somewhat unhappy in her heart, she believed that it was her responsibility and obligation to support the elderly.
She agreed to Wei Daming's suggestion, and planned to hire a nanny after picking up her mother, and spend money to hire someone else to take care of her. As for Wei Daming's father, if he continues to stay in his hometown, they will go back every once in a while to have a look.
However, Wei Daming offered to bring his father with him. His reason is very simple, the two old men have never been separated in their lives, and now they are too old to separate the two places.
Although He Ju's house is one hundred and twenty or thirty square meters, it is sudden.
However, with two more old people, it will still be crowded. plus hiring a nanny, Wei Daming's mother could have been given a room. If the father-in-law comes again, the old couple will have to occupy a room, and the nanny will need a room.
With only three bedrooms at home, it can become very difficult to arrange. He Ju objected to this, and she made her thoughts and concerns clear. "Chengcheng can sleep in the storage room, I don't think that room also has a window, and the space is okay?"Does my son have to sleep in the locker just to get your parents over?How can you think so.
At that time, this was He Ju's inner thoughts, and she also said the same thing when she expressed it to Wei Daming. "Who are my parents and who are your parents?".We're married, aren't my parents your parents?
You said that if your parents were in trouble and they were going to bring them in, how could I stop them?Impossible. Besides, Chengcheng is already in his third year of high school, and he will go to college in a few months, and he will go out independently.
So, we're just going to have to do it!Of course, there is another way, which is to sell your father's house and buy a new set of finely decorated ones for my parents in our community. "Look, on the one hand, Wei Daming insists on his own opinions and makes his own calculations, and on the other hand, he tries to kidnap him morally responsible.
In fact, He Ju felt that he was a little too much, and at the same time he seemed too smart. The offer to sell a house is impractical. However, it is true that Chengcheng is only a few months away from the college entrance examination. In September of the second half of the year at the latest, he will set foot in the university gate. Well, that's all there is to it.
In order to make the second marriage life more comfortable, He Ju chose to compromise. In order to live a good life, she relented. With the arrival of her in-laws and the hiring of a nanny, the home suddenly became more crowded, and He Ju felt very depressed.
During this period, she suggested whether to send her parents back to Wei Daming's house and come back every few days to visit. However, Wei Daming was resolutely opposed, believing that he could not accept it. He said that his parents only had one son, and if he did this, wouldn't it be equivalent to being sent to a nursing home?
Although He Ju did not want to argue, her proposal was rejected. It wasn't until later that she learned that Wei Daming objected because the house had been rented out a long time ago. This means that Wei Daming not only lived in He Ju's house for nothing, but also brought his parents.
It's a pity that He Ju didn't know anything at that time. She wholeheartedly wants to live a good life, and she doesn't want her second marriage life to become a mess and full of contradictions.
She was even willing to give up her room to Wei Daming's stepparents, even though it made her son Chengcheng uncomfortable. Cheng Cheng may not feel comfortable in his heart, but as long as his mother is happy, he also chooses to remain silent. He was a sensible child. He Ju is busy with work and housework every day, and the newlywed life seems to be coming to an end soon. The home is filled with in-laws and nannies, and private space is almost non-existent.
At that time, He Ju saw all this very simply, and simply felt that letting the old man live at home was what he should do as a daughter-in-law.
She ignores the existence of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, as well as the contradictions and obstacles that may arise between the two. Although Wei Daming's mother once suffered from a cerebral infarction, her body was paralyzed, and her thinking was not as agile as before, she still had her own opinions.
She mentioned to He Ju many times in a way that her language was not clear enough, hoping that she and Wei Daming would have another child. He Ju said that he is in his 40s, and it is no longer realistic to have children.
Moreover, she is very busy with work, and she simply does not have the time and energy to take care of her children. The mother-in-law and father-in-law didn't care about this, and they repeatedly emphasized this request in front of Wei Daming. He Ju believes that Wei Daming is in his 50s and it is impossible to have another child at this age.
However, she didn't expect at all that Wei Daming not only wanted a child, but also a son. "Gee, I'm in my forties, and I'll be fifty in a few years. Don't say I won't have a child, even if I do, I can't guarantee a son!At that time, He Ju half-jokingly expressed his wishes and opinions.
She didn't take things too seriously. "What's the relationship in your forties?Didn't you see that there is a 67-year-old couple on the Internet who also gave birth to a daughter?Moreover, we are both doctors, and it is very simple to do B ultrasound in the hospital without spending money. When the time comes, if it's a girl, you can choose to terminate it. ”
Wei Daming stated it seriously, but he didn't notice that He Ju's expression had already become gloomy. She never expected that this man would be so selfish, ignorant, and intimidating.
Selling a house has touched He Ju's bottom line, and asking her to have a child and a son seems to have touched the red line in her heart. She began to reflect on her marriage to Wei Daming, and Wei Daming as a person.
Compared to the one he knew, he had changed. At the beginning, she thought that he lived a simple life, had no bad habits, was very considerate to her, and was a person who lived a life. Nowadays, however, gradual change is uncomfortable. "I can't give birth, so dispel this thought!He Ju said unceremoniously.
She doesn't have that good temper and patience anymore. Although Wei Daming still did not give up and kept lobbying, fortunately He Ju insisted on his position. However, after this incident, their second marriage has become somewhat regrettable.
He Ju's heart not only had a pimple, but also began to have a knot. From time to time, she examined, recalled, and reviewed, trying to sort out the original intention of her second marriage and the true meaning of this marriage.
Their marriage became a miasma, and Wei Daming's thoughts He Ju knew nothing. In her mind, their marriage has shown a clear red light. The days were uneventful, and He Ju gradually became reluctant to go home.
There are nannies, in-laws, and a stingy, stingy, and selfish Wei Daming at home. Alas, the home that was once built by her is now more and more annoying to her. However, what she really hated wasn't the home she poured her heart, money, and energy into building.
From the bottom of her heart, she hated and hated the people who lived in it, and the things that were inexplicable and chaotic. His son is about to take the college entrance examination in a month, and all of He Ju's attention is on his son. Ever since she had put her son in the storage room, she has always felt indebted to him.
She decided not to worry about trivial matters at home with Wei Daming for the time being, and to ensure everything for her son first. Although Wei Daming usually said something that displeased her, she tried not to let it affect her mood. However, Wei Daming is obviously not a person who is willing to give up.
Just when Cheng Cheng was sprinting for the college entrance examination and He Ju was nervous, he put forward a new idea. "We've been married for a year now. At that time, we didn't talk about the economy and so on.
After my parents came, half of my salary was used to pay for the babysitter. Originally, this money was used for financial management and to accumulate funds for our old age. Now that the money is gone, I thought of a compromise solution: either you give me your salary of 9,500 every month and let me manage my finances. ”
I will give you 1500 per month as living expenses. But don't worry, the money will still be ours in the future. We're married, your money is my money, my money is your money...Hearing Wei Daming say this, He Ju completely saw through this person.
It turns out that this is a complete selfish ghost, a complete abacus master. He Ju sneered in his heart. This day cannot be passed again. If it continues, she is afraid that she will be sold by him one day.
But the son is going to take the college entrance examination, and the quarrel and divorce should not be at this time. He Ju didn't pay Wei Daming's salary, and she didn't quarrel with him. She endured.
Anyway, Chengcheng only has about 20 days to take the college entrance examination, even if he has to get through it. Indeed, on the night of the end of the college entrance examination, He Ju had a showdown with Wei Daming. She made it clear that she had to get a divorce if she didn't live this day anymore.
Wei Daming felt incredible, and he asked why?He Ju asked him to ask himself. Wei Daming also said with an innocent face: "What do I ask myself?."I think I'm normal and everything is fine. It's your problem, it's that you don't want to live this day. ”
Life is not good after all, He Ju poured out all the dissatisfaction in his heart at once. "I see, you never really treated me as your own. Everything I do is for our home, for our future.
And in your eyes, there is only you and your son. "Our Future?Our home?He Ju was surprised by such logic. However, she didn't want to argue with him anymore.
Divorce is inevitable anyway. She asked Wei Daming to get his parents to move out of the house within a week. Then, the two embarked on the road of divorce. Wei Daming disagreed, insisting that he would not divorce.
Life is good, why did He Ju want to divorce?"It's okay if you don't get a divorce, then I'll go and tell you about the last time you were bribed by a medical representative of 100,000 yuan. Wei Daming didn't expect that he thought that his behavior was unpredictable, but he was known to He Ju.
After these words, he didn't need He Ju to urge him again. On the fourth day, he moved out with his parents. However, moving out is just one thing, and his stalking of He Ju still hasn't stopped.
said that he didn't want to get a divorce, everything was for this family. He hoped that He Ju would understand him, and he even said that he was true love for He Ju. Forget it, I can't afford your love. He Ju was really scared.
She was bent on getting a divorce, and she had to get a divorce. Seeing that there was no room for redemption, Wei Daming didn't pretend. The old fox finally revealed his long hidden tail.
If it weren't for the fact that you have two suites and are still doctors, do you think I would have taken a fancy to you?Don't look at me in my 50s, I am more than 34 years old.
Don't worry, if I leave you, I will immediately find someone younger and more beautiful than you, and I will find someone richer than you. "It's so disgusting for a man, it's so obscene for a man. He Ju felt that he was blind in the first place, and he fell in love with such a character, which can also be said to be such a dognxi?
Hurry up and find it, I won't delay you. These were He Ju's last words for Wei Daming. In late August, they filed for divorce.
After a month of cooling-off period, finally before the past eleventh holiday, He Ju finally dissolved his marriage with Wei Daming. He Ju's second marriage has come to an end, and she is finally free.
In this holiday at the intersection of the Mid-Autumn Festival and the National Day, she and her son enjoyed great ease and ease. Their house is spacious and bright, and the days are simple and comfortable. No one has the idea of beating her salary, there is no pressure on her to sell her house, and there are no more worried elderly people in the family. She should have lived such a comfortable life, why should she let herself endure such exhaustion and hardship, and still have to compromise hard?The marriage of two people is supposed to be about a better life, and if the hardships of two people together far outweigh the burden of living alone, then the choice itself is a mistake. The most important thing is to take timely stop-loss measures!