In this 8-day holiday at the intersection of the Mid-Autumn Festival and the National Day, He Ju lived like a fish in water, comfortable and happy. Even though she was a doctor, she couldn't enjoy continuous rest and had to be on call at all times, but none of this mattered to her.
She had long been Xi to physical exhaustion, and what made her feel truly free and comfortable was because she finally ended her short marriage to Wei Daming before the holidays.
Her identity was freed, her body and mind were liberated, and she no longer had to endure the humiliation of those who were ashamed to ask her to hand over her monthly salary of 9,500 and only give her 1,500 pocket money. Now, she can finally breathe freely and enjoy her own life.
No one is dictating her life anymore, and no one wants her to do this or that. This is where she truly feels comfortable and relaxed. It was as if a heavy shackle had finally been untied to his body, and it was as if a mountain had finally been removed from his head.
The son also took eight days off, and the mother and son either went out to play together. Either He Ju goes to work, and his son finds classmates to pass the time. In short, it's so pleasant to be at ease with what you encounter and arrange it at will.
Then why did He Ju and Wei Daming divorce?What the hell happened between them?This is a long story, in fact, He Ju and Wei Daming are both second marriages.
He Ju and her ex-husband are junior high school classmates, they met in their youth and ended in their thirties. They used to be childhood sweethearts, and they were harmonious. He Ju thought that he had won the hearts of one person in his life, and he was able to do it without separation.
However, busy with life and children, she finally lost to the junior who had just graduated from college, was fair-skinned and beautiful, and had a sweet mouth. lost his mother at a young age, divorced in middle age, had an old father and a child, He Ju felt that his fate was bumpy and tragic. But the gears of fate never turn the way we want or want them to.
We can only go along, and then accept and go on with each day. He Ju no longer wants to accept such a reality, but her ex-husband's cheating is cheating, and divorcing her is divorce. She was sad and miserable.
But she was busy with work, children had to be cared for, and life had to go on, she didn't have much time to be sad and sad, lamenting the unfairness of fate, so she continued to bury her head and rush forward. Her ex-husband is her first love and the first man in her life.
Therefore, the dissolution of the family and the failure of the marriage hit her huge and deep. He Ju can no longer raise any interest in men, and she doesn't want to find someone to make do. People who have gone through long and difficult years can leave themselves, let alone halfway couples.
Besides, she has a son. Men are very realistic, and most people don't want their daughters to divorce and take children, and they still bring their sons. Let's always be so single in the future, and live a good life with my son.
This is the voice of He Ju's heart. She was 36 years old and her child was 10 years old. The days went on like this, although there were occasional loneliness and ups and downs, but on the whole it was quite stable and steady.
He Ju also gradually came out of the shadow of divorce, and she became brighter and happier day by day. The light in my heart and in my eyes lit up again. But all this changed dramatically in the 7th year of her divorce, that is, when she was 43 years old.
This year, the old father, who has always been strong and pays attention to exercise, was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in the middle of the year. If thyroid cancer is the mildest of all cancers, pancreatic cancer is the more serious. Besides, when the examination came out, it was already in the advanced stage, and the doctor immediately explained to He Ju that his father was no longer necessary.
And his life is only half a year at most, and three or four months at least. He Ju's sky fell. yes, can she not step on her god?Father is her heaven and her earth, and for so many years her father has been both a father and a mother.
He Ju's mother died when she was seven years old. The young father was stunned to resist the nagging of his grandparents and the kind words and persuasion of his relatives, and insisted on not remarrying. A person raised He Ju with hard work.
The young He Ju is unlucky, because she has no mother at such a young age, and it is impossible for her to have maternal love anymore. But she is lucky because she has such a kind and warm father.
Dad's arms are broad and powerful, and the little He Ju has grown up well under his protection. Including her divorce for many years, it is also because of her father's silent protection and her son's company that she can spend and persevere smoothly.
Hearing that his father only had these days left, He Ju cried until he collapsed on the night of his father's diagnosis. But when it was dawn, she had to pretend that nothing had happened and take her father to see a doctor. His father is a smart man, even if He Ju doesn't say anything, he knows the general situation of his condition.
In the last days of his life, my father was not afraid that he was about to leave. What he was afraid of was that he was gone, what should He Ju do?She only has her son left in this world, and her life has no place to come from, only a way back.
Who cares about her joys and sorrows?Who cares if she's sad and sad?Who gave comfort and thoughtfulness to her when she was lonely and helpless?Who's going to be by her side when she's old?
Thinking of this, my father's heart felt like it was being pinched. As a result, a strong desire surged in his heart, even though he understood that this desire was contrary to He Ju's original choice not to marry. He hopes that He Ju will find a partner, a shoulder to rely on for the rest of his life, and a companion to accompany him in his old age.
At the end of his life, he mentioned this wish to He Ju many times, sometimes explicitly, sometimes implicitly. However, He Ju neither nodded in agreement nor shook his head in refusal, always cleverly avoiding this topic. Her father understood that she was reluctant to find anyone else.
But he couldn't find any other way to relieve his worries. Therefore, at the last moment of his life, he held He Ju's trembling hand tightly and told his last wish with his weak strength:
I hope that after his death, He Ju will not have to be too sad, take good care of the children, and live a happy life;I hope He Ju will find a down-to-earth and reliable partner to spend the rest ......of her life togetherHe Ju clenched his father's withered hand, tears flowed like a spring, and then nodded vigorously.
She understood that if she did not agree, her father would not be able to rest in peace. Because for so many years, she was all her father, both in her youth and in her old age. This man, who is like a mountain, sees her as more important than anything else.
His father passed away forever in the fourth month after suffering from cancer, and He Ju's heart was empty of a big hole. During that time, my son was in high school, and her Xi was busy with his studies, and her work was not easy. Faced with her father's departure, she almost collapsed.
But no matter how busy and tired she is, she has not forgotten her father's last wish, that is, she hopes that she will live well. Then find someone who is down-to-earth and reliable, and live the rest of your life well. Wei Daming walked into He Ju's life at such a moment.
In fact, they have known each other for a long time, because they are both people in the medical system, although they work in different hospitals. Someone had intended to match them before, but He Ju had always insisted on not marrying again, so she didn't take it seriously. After my father left, about half a year or so, someone matched them again.
After Wei Daming learned the news that He Ju's father had just left, he gave her spiritual comfort and spiritual comfort.
He always did all this just right, which made He Ju feel that all this was not deliberate, but sincere. The key is that Wei Daming's ex-wife also died of a sudden illness, and he has lived alone with his daughter for so many years.
This inevitably made He Ju feel that such Wei Daming had some similarities with his father. A father can insist on having a good life with his children and have not remarried for many years. He must be a responsible, down-to-earth and reliable person, and he cares for him, and knows the cold and the cold. He Ju's heart was warmed.
Wei Daming's appearance gave He Ju some comfort to fight against the pain of losing her father to a certain extent, and also relieved the unknown anxiety in her heart.
She began to accept his care and care unreservedly, and also invested her sincerity and true feelings in the relationship. Wei Daming is a man who can get by, he never spends money indiscriminately, and he has no bad habits such as smoking, drinking or playing cards.
His work and life are very simple, just two points and one line between the hospital and the family. His daughter has also grown up and is about to graduate from college, which makes He Ju feel very down-to-earth.
Of course, He Ju also has some selfish intentions, because Wei Daming's child is a daughter and has become an adult, and there should be very few places for her to worry about in the future.
Of course, she already has a son herself, and she has saved some money over the years, and her father has left her some. She also has two houses, so there are basically not many things that Wei Daming needs to be responsible for in the future.
This is relatively fair for both parties, and these factors will not be a stumbling block to their happy life. Considering all this, she chose Wei Daming. After getting along for about half a year, Wei Daming proposed to her. He Ju agreed to him without hesitation.
She fulfilled her father's last wish, and also found a warm harbor for herself in the second half of her life, she took it for granted. Although he is in his forties, He Ju's heart is still enthusiastic and pure. She showed all her sincerity and sincerity to love Wei Daming and live their little life.
When they first got married, they were as lingering and sad as a young man. Although Wei Daming is about to turn fifty, his whole person and heart still look quite young, which may have something to do with the fact that he is a doctor and his work every day without hitting his head or rain. In short, He Ju was very satisfied with the days in front of them.
After marriage, Wei Daming is still the same hospital, and the family is two points and one line. He didn't change because of marriage, or those hidden bad habits were revealed after marriage. He Ju felt that she had found the right person. She often has a smile on her face and looks radiant.
The ** and doctors in the department all joked: "Director He, your second spring has begun, and it looks very good." Haha, He Ju smiled every time, then said a few words to everyone, and threw himself into the intense work.
But on the surface, she looks calm and breezy, but when she hears everyone say this, she can't help but be proud. Indeed, she felt that she had lived a really good life during that time. I didn't expect that the life of remarriage is not as difficult as imagined, and remarried couples can be happy.
However, I don't know when it started, He Ju felt that her life with Wei Daming was abnormal and unreasonable. When they got married, they didn't discuss the topic of salary and daily expenses after marriage. Because He Ju has a son, and Wei Daming has only one daughter, she feels that she can't take advantage of others. She thought about earning money for herself and her son to spend, and she would not count on Wei Daming alone for expenses in the future.
At first, she felt very happy and relieved, but after getting married, she gradually realized that the necessities of life at home, such as oil, rice, and paper, were still there, but they were getting less and less. Moreover, Wei Daming has never taken the initiative to subsidize a penny of food expenses, nor has he ever spent a penny to buy some daily necessities.
This made He Ju feel quite confused, she didn't know whether the man was intentional or unintentional. Life costs money, and although the salary is not given to me, you have to bear some of the living expenses.
Just when she was dissatisfied and puzzled, Wei Daming actually took the initiative to give living expenses. But it's not much, it's 1,000 yuan per month. Wei Daming thought so and said so:
Usually I eat very little at home, mainly because you and your son eat a lot, so I should be more than enough to give 1000 a month. Don't worry, I have the rest of my salary, and I won't spend it indiscriminately. In the future, if our family has a place to use money, I will take it out.
You know my character...."Hehe, He Ju knows him well. But this understanding is no longer the pre-marital understanding that this man will live and is a person worth paying.
Rather, instead of spending money carefully, he picks the door and is stingy. There is nothing wrong with saving her own salary, and she can eat and live in her house for 1,000 a month, and there are people to warm her bed at night. He Ju felt angry and funny.
But for the sake of providing him with emotional value, He Ju decided not to care anymore. If you worry too much about your life, it's not too much, and besides, they are still a second-married family. After He Ju convinced herself like this, she felt that it was nothing.
The knots in my heart were artificially untied by myself, and the happiness and sweetness of the past returned. She thought that as long as she was generous enough and didn't care, there would be no problems with their lives. In the final analysis, He Ju wants to live a good life in this hard-won second marriage.
After all, she is a traditional person. She is unwilling to choose divorce, remarry, and face possible embarrassments and accidents again. However, the tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, what kind of person is the real Wei Daming?
In the following days, he subverted He Ju's cognition again and again, and also broke her original concept. In the year when the Chinese New Year was about to begin, Wei Daming mentioned in He Ju's ear from time to time: which colleague bought a house in **, and which colleague invested in a villa in **.
He Ju thought to himself, if you have money, buy it, that's your freedom. She just thought that Wei Daming was talking casually, and she just listened. After all, she already has two houses, and her son is in his third year of high school, and there are college expenses to consider in the future.
He Ju didn't plan to buy another house, even if she had some savings on hand. She thought that Wei Daming was just talking and had nothing to do with him. However, a night's bedtime conversation made He Ju reacquaint himself with Wei Daming.
His words were unacceptable, making He Ju feel like a monkey under his play, and gradually realized the depth of his heart. So, what did Wei Daming say?Why does He Ju have such a cognition?Where will the future of second-married couples go?