This year, 2023, a large number of gray hairs have increased on the top of the head. The mother of the child's classmate said to the child's mother: "Your old king is a lot older." Yes, this year's wind and rain are making people old. Especially for the children's education, it killed me for a year.
Involution of China, involution of Chinese education, involution has begun since kindergarten. I am a father of two children, the eldest is the elder brother and the second is the younger sister. My sister's kindergarten, from the day she entered the kindergarten, has been cultivating children's learning XiXi habits, which really responds to the mentality of Chinese parents - never lose at the starting line. But I'm skeptical!
What is a soul?This is the question that my brother's Chinese teacher asked the childWe searched for the concept of "soul" on the website, and the encyclopedia used five or six thousand words to explain the concept of "soul".
When we were 14 years old, our dear *** answered Principal Wei's question: "Why do you want to study"?* said: "Read for the rise of China"!Since then, the consciousness of the rise of China has been deeply engraved into the soul of the prime minister. Since then, his soul has told him anytime and anywhere - to do his best for the rise of China.
Nan Rendong, the chief designer of China Sky Eye (FAST), a great power heavy weapon, because the radio telescope was deeply engraved into his soul, for this reason, he adhered to his dream for 22 years, and used his last years and hard work to build the most powerful single-antenna radio telescope on the earth.
In today's highly commercialized world, in today's extremely involuted education, and in today's games eroding people's minds, our Chinese education lacks one of the most fundamental educations - soul education. The most direct consequence of China's lack of soul education is that there are more and more young people without souls.
A Hong Kong girl named Ho Yiqiong graduated from the University of Hong Kong and later obtained a master's degree from the University of Geneva in Switzerland. She escaped to the UK in 2020 for her involvement in Hong Kong in 2019**, and seven months later, at the age of 27, she committed suicide by leaving a suicide note in a hut in the UK. Why did she end her young life at the age of 27, because her life lacked a soul, a life without a soul, no matter how much she read books and no matter how highly educated, she was also a walking corpse.
When I realized the importance of soul education, I started my soul-casting project. But what aspects should our parents use to forge their children's souls?The following is a mind map of the soul education implementation plan that I drawn.
I started by writing, and I asked my child to keep a diary every day, and he had been writing a diary for nine days. From the diary written by the child, I can see that the child's soul has been severely eroded by the game. This year, the children's various abnormalities and all kinds of ...... against each other, that's because the child's soul has been seriously eroded by the game. This year, I searched for various problems, reflected on various things, and finally saw the essence of the problem from the children's writing. Writing is the child's thought reaction, and through the child's writing, parents can see the depths of the child's soul.
So the first step in my soul-forging project is to keep a diary for my child.
Writing alone cannot cast the soul of a child's heart, but also cooperate with reading and memorizing. My method is to let the children read and memorize ancient poems and prose that can forge their souls, and finally write reading notes. For example, my brother learned "Falling Peanuts" this semester, memorized it and wrote a reading diary. For example, Zhu Ziqing's essay "Back" memorized it to write reading notes. For example, in the "Long Song Xing" in the Yuefu poetry collection, memorize it and write reading notes. I have also begun to sort out ancient Chinese poems and prose, and I am preparing to produce a "Soul Education Poetry and Prose Collection", and I welcome you to join in if you are interested.
Therefore, the second step of my soul-casting project is to start reading and memorizing some poems and prose that can cast children's souls while the children are writing.
Reading and writing is only the most basic and daily work of the soul casting project, and we also need to observe the inner world of children through words and deeds, and then make timely adjustments. The child's mother often travels, and when I dialed the child's mother's **, I asked my brother if he had anything to say, no. At this time, the child was still in the era of self-centeredness, and he did not think of his mother's hardships and his mother's safety. Sometimes my sister's words and deeds are more terrifying, you have to listen to me, if you don't listen to me, I will kick you to death, beat you to death. Selfishness is the nature of every child, and children are self-centered from birth. Our education is to let the soul of the child accommodate and care for other people and things. A child's words and deeds are also the expression of the child's soul, and we must forge the child's soul through the child's words and deeds.
Recently, children have been asking a lot of questions about money. It is important for children to have a proper understanding of money. We want our children to know that labor creates value and labor creates money. Use your money wisely. It is necessary for children to develop the right values of money. The right money values are also an important part of the human soul.
Therefore, the third step of my soul-casting project is to change the child's words and deeds, and cast the child's soul through words and deeds.
Walking, not just tourism. Through walking, children can learn about the world. Let children see the world as it is. Children travel to Hong Kong, Zhuhai and Macao, is walking. Similarly, the child walks into the local town of Baru. Traveling to Hong Kong allows children to see the prosperity of the world, and sightseeing to Macau casinos allows children to see the luxury of the world. Walking into the local town of Baru can make children feel the poverty of the world. Through walking, children can learn about the world as it is and explore the earth. Allowing children to record their feelings as they walk is a great way to sublimate their inner soul.
Therefore, the fourth step of my soul-casting project is to sublimate the soul of a child by traveling thousands of miles.
The winter solstice is coming, and spring is not far away. Soul education has solved my confusion about education, and a brief mind map of how to implement it has been drawn, allowing me to regain my confidence in education.
From insisting on children's homework to insisting on children's diary, from stipulating that my sister should go to bed early to stipulating how much time my brother has to get dressed in the morning, these are all from writing and from the code of conduct to build the soul of my brother and sister.
When I compiled and produced the "Soul Education Poetry and Prose Collection", I believed that the confusion and cold winter of education would leave, and the spring of education would come. I can feel the happiness and warmth of the family even more!