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Sometimes the child's temper is really big, and if he doesn't say what he wants, he can splash and roll thirty-six kinds of martial arts for you, and you will be so angry that you will be angry in an instant.
But you also know that if you beat him at this time, the problem can't be solved, and you feel distressed, but he can't listen to reason, what should I do?
So at this time, the first thing you have to do is to know why the child has such a big temper
Children who don't get enough sleep may be particularly prone to tantrums and crying. Because lack of sleep will affect the body's endocrine, hormone changes will affect the baby's mood, resulting in the baby's mood, and sometimes anxiety, depression and other emotional problems.
Therefore, it is important for your baby to get enough sleep, which is also very helpful for your child's development.
The most common is that the baby's needs are not met, which is the same as adults who do not eat the food they want to eat and do not get the year-end bonus, they will definitely be in a bad mood, but adults know how to control and adjust their emotions, and children have weak control, so they will cry and lose their temper to vent their dissatisfaction that their needs are not met.
At this time, parents should inform the child why his needs cannot be met and provide him with alternative options.
When the child has a tantrum, if it is at home, many people in the family will come to pay attention, which is not recommended, on the one hand, onlookers, plus people who usually spoil the child, it is easy to promote the child's temper.
On the other hand, when there are many people, everyone's opinions will be different, and everyone will have their own opinions, but it is easy to disagree.
Therefore, at this time, only one person should be left to educate, especially not to have the next generation of parents (grandparents or grandparents) present. The child knows who he is more inclined to and will turn to for help.
For example, if you want to go out but your baby doesn't want to get up and get dressed, you can give your baby two options, "Do you want to read at home, or do you want to get dressed and we go to the park to play?".Or, "Are you going out in this dress today?"Or do you want to go out with the new clothes you bought for the New Year?”。Be careful, don't choose too many here, otherwise the baby will want to go, which will breed new problems. And of course, don't give your child a choice that simply doesn't exist.
The louder the yelling, the worse the tantrum may become, the worse the crying will be, and hitting the child is even more discouraged.
Parents should first reflect on why they are angryIs it because the child doesn't listen to instructions?When the child does not listen to the instructions, you should think about whether the instructions are wrongOnly told him not to throw the toy here, but not told him that he could put the toy in **.
Don't give stiff instructions, combine the animation or storyline that the child likes to watch, role-play, and tell the child not to do this and what to do.
When a child throws a toy, first tell the child that he can't throw it, let the child pick it up and put it in **.
If the child cries and loses his temper, mom or dad can have someone to accompany the child to complete a certain task. Don't skimp on your praise when the task is completed.
Parents often unconsciously compare their children with other people's children, or always take the best standards to ask their children, and after the expectations are high, the children can't reach it, they will think that it is not the child's problem, why is it so naughty?
For example, if your child can listen to a story for 3 minutes, don't expect him to hear it for 10 minutes. Don't compare children with other children, even if they are the same age, each child is a unique angel.
Many parents often regret their children and apologize to their children after yelling at them. When staying calm, you can only do so by meditating on "biological, biological, biological."
As the child grows up, more problems will arise, and the child will want to have a private sphere and control, and will not blindly accept it. At this time, as long as it is a normal need, parents should try to meet the child's needs.