As the saying goes: one pregnancy is stupid for three years, I would like to say that these three years are one year of preparation for pregnancy, one year of pregnancy, and the first year after the baby is born.
The core of these three years is condensed into two words: children.
During the preparation for pregnancy, I was anxious about having a child, went to the hospital to check my body, took Chinese medicine to regulate my body, and actively exercised, looking forward to the baby meeting me unexpectedly one day.
During pregnancy, I am always worried about the baby in my belly, every prenatal examination is like an exam, and I am very nervous if I feel a little uncomfortable, early fetal protection, morning sickness, inconvenience until the third trimester, and the urgency of childbirth.
In the first year after the baby is born, the baby begins to enter the role of mother. From the initial feeding every two or three hours, staying up late is not good;
The baby spits up milk again and again, occasional cough, intestinal flatulence, stomach savings, boredom period, oral desire period, every discomfort in the process of baby growth is concerned about the mother's heart, check the answer, go to the hospital, vaccination, the mother is the leader.
In addition to taking care of the baby, the in-laws also need to go through a difficult run-in period when they come to take care of the child.
I also have a difficult problem: what to do with work.
Before I was trying to get pregnant, I was also a small leader, but the pressure was relatively high, and the company was far away from home, so running around was not conducive to preparing for pregnancy and jumping to a small company. After arriving at the new company, the business began to shrink due to the epidemic, and in May 2023, I started working from home, and I happened to be pregnant, and I have been working from home until now.
The company's business is relatively stable, there is more free time at home, the baby gradually worry-free, and feels that his energy has recovered to before, and he has to start thinking about it again.
At present, I want to read books, do self-insurance, and popularize insurance.
Keep doing it and keep being your sparkling self.