At the engagement banquet, the sister-in-law snatched the three gold for her sister-in-law, and the woman withdrew from the marriage on the spot Who dares to marry a "robber".
Some marriages are wrong from the start, and once you encounter problems, it is sensible to stop losses in time.
For a woman, marriage is not simply marrying a man, but actually integrating into the man's entire family. This family includes the other half of the beloved, and also includes the father-in-law, mother-in-law, and sometimes the sister-in-law, the brother-in-law, the seven aunts and eight aunts, and so on.
Before getting married, a woman may not realize that marriage is such a complicated thing. However, it was only after she got married that she realized that she had once looked at marriage issues too simply. Falling in love may be just a matter of two people, but marriage must be a matter of two families.
In love, love at first sight is not uncommon. As Zangwell said, "Love at first sight is the only true love, and the slightest hesitation will not be." "In addition to love at first sight, there is also an emotion called long-term love. Love at first sight may be accidental, but love over time is relatively more reliable.
From falling in love to getting married, it may only take a few months, or it may have been a few years. No matter how long it takes, when couples decide to enter the marriage stage, it must be because they are convinced that each other is the most suitable partner. In addition to happiness, marriage gives them touch, and the grievances, sadness and pain that have nothing to do with it are insignificant.
Some people get married and realize that marriage is the grave of love. In fact, for all those who feel this way, the problem with the other half has existed for a long time, and it only became apparent at a certain moment.
Fan Zheng Qing and her boyfriend entered marriage a year after they met, but the originally good times were disturbed by her sister-in-law. Zheng Qing did not blame her sister-in-law, but was grateful to her. In a way, the sister-in-law turned out to be the "savior" in her life.
Zheng Qing and her boyfriend were introduced to each other by a friend. Before the official meeting, the two chatted very happily on WeChat. A month later, they met for the first time. After a year of dating, Zheng Qing clearly remembers the moment she saw her boyfriend for the first time, and his smile was like a bright light illuminating her heart.
Their love process was smooth and beautiful. Maybe it's because Zheng Qing's previous two relationships were unsatisfactory, after meeting her boyfriend, she felt that he was her true son and a person sent by God to save her. For the first time, Zheng Qing had the urge to get married.
One day, Zheng Qing and her boyfriend passed by a bridal shop, and the wedding dress in the window made her stop and admire. When she was about to leave, she saw her boyfriend kneeling on one knee and taking out a ring in his hand, as if he was playing a trick.
Her boyfriend's eyes were slightly red, and he said to her with a slight choked up, "Honey, are you willing to marry me?"I am willing to take care of you and protect you for the rest of my life. Zheng Qing nodded. When the two hugged each other, it seemed as if they were the only ones left in the whole world.
Zheng Qing asked her boyfriend afterwards: "What's the matter with the ring?."The boyfriend explained: "Actually, I bought this ring a long time ago, and I have always wanted to propose to you, but I have never found the best time." Seeing the look on your face as you looked at your wedding dress that day, I knew the time had come. My proposal to you was deliberate, not impulsive. Everything I say to you is sincere, so please trust me and entrust me with your future, and I will be responsible for you to the end. ”
Zheng Qing was deeply touched by her boyfriend's confession, and since she met him, she has been looking forward to building a warm family with him. However, if this kind of thing is not for the man to take the initiative, she will not speak easily. The situation seems to be just right.
The plan for the engagement banquet turned into a divorce due to an accident.
Under the arrangement of Zheng Qing and her boyfriend, the parents of both sides soon met. Zheng Qing's father said to the man's parents: "As long as the children are happy, we as parents will be satisfied." I have no objection to their marriage, but there is one point, Zheng Qing is the natal year this year, and according to the tradition of her hometown, she can't get married in the natal year. So, let's hold an engagement banquet first, and wait for the official marriage certificate next year. ”
The man's parents also agreed with Zheng Qing's father's opinion, so the wedding plan was temporarily shelved. As for the bride price, the parents of both sides also reached an agreement that three gold should be paid at the engagement banquet first.
When it came time for the engagement feast, everyone had a smile on their faces. Zheng Qing and her boyfriend are in a particularly happy mood, this is an important moment in their lives, and it is also a day that will be remembered endlessly in the future.
At the time of handing over the three golds, the prospective mother-in-law held a small ceremony. Zheng Qing took the three golds and said shyly, "Thank you, Auntie." Everything went well, Zheng Qing handed over the three gold to her boyfriend and asked him to keep it properly.
At this moment, the sister-in-law suddenly rushed over and took away the three golds in Zheng Qing's hand. Zheng Qing was a little confused: "Sister-in-law, what's wrong?"What are you going to do?The sister-in-law explained: "You and my brother are not married yet, how can you accept our family's three golds?"In case you break up one day, our family's three golds will be lost. So, give me the three gold first, and I'll pay you back after you and my brother officially get married. ”
Zheng Qing looked at her boyfriend, expecting him to say justice for herself. However, her boyfriend said to Zheng Qing: "My sister is still young, don't worry about her, she is also good for me." Anyway, we will get married sooner or later, and it doesn't matter if Sanjin is put there first, so it's decided. ”
Zheng Qing couldn't believe her ears, the two had been in love for more than a year, how could they never notice that her boyfriend had such doubts. Zheng Qing said to her boyfriend: "If you don't get the three golds back, I will withdraw from the marriage." The boyfriend said angrily: "Is the three golds so important?"Do you love me as a person, or do you love Sanjin?”
Zheng Qing felt that she could no longer communicate with her boyfriend, and announced in front of everyone: "I won't get married, I want to withdraw from the marriage, because I don't dare to marry a 'robber'." Her parents were supportive of her decision, believing she was doing the right thing.
If Zheng Qing chooses to continue her relationship with her boyfriend, her future marriage will definitely encounter problems. Perhaps before this, the contradiction between the two was not highlighted, it was precisely because of a play by her sister-in-law that Zheng Qing saw her boyfriend's true face, and therefore decided to withdraw from the marriage on the spot. Zheng Qing's decision was correct, she stopped her losses in time, and the person who should be most grateful is her sister-in-law.
Today's topic. If you were in Zheng Qing's situation, would you dare to marry such a boyfriend?
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