"Life is like water, full and overflowing;Life is like the moon, and when it is full, it is lost. ”
This ancient adage warns us of the two sides of the ultimate state and teaches us to be vigilant in times of pleasure.
Retirement is another bright prospect in life. At this time, the family has matured and stabilized, and the free time will become our companionship, so that we can enjoy the beauty of life to the fullest.
However, when we are immersed in happy times, we should also remind ourselves to be vigilant. Happiness begets sadness precisely because we often ignore the other side of life's ultimate state.
In retirement, we need to leave room for white space in our lives. This is not emptiness, but a kind of silence and calmness. Maintain a positive mindset and maintain good interaction with the outside world to make life more exciting.
After retirement, we do not stand still, but constantly improve our self-cultivation. It is necessary to cultivate the wisdom to do things rationally, the ability to spend money wisely, and maintain close relationships with family and friends, so as to make life more colorful.
Retirement is not the end of life, but a new beginning. Let's continue to enjoy life with a positive attitude and continue to write our own wonderful life.
Speak Wisely, Be Responsible" has become a motto that we should bear in mind, and they will guide us to a bright future.
Honesty is the foundation of being a person and doing things, and it is an intrinsic quality. After retirement, we must understand that we should refuse to do what we can't do in time, and accurately grasp and complete what we can do in time, which is the most tangible embodiment of integrity.
After retirement, we may feel comfortable because of freedom, but we must not fall into the illusion of "self-righteousness". We must recognize our position and role, know how to do what we say, and avoid agreeing to things that cannot be done, and eventually losing trust with others.
Responsibility is the manifestation of the consistency of words and deeds, and the embodiment of doing what is said. Simon Leopard did not hesitate when the king trusted him, and the wizard left no stone unturned in his promises. These stories teach us that everyone is responsible for their words.
After retirement, although we are no longer bound by the unit, our words and deeds must still meet the standards of ethics and responsibility. Don't be honest and inconsistent with your words and deeds, which will only ruin your reputation.
In educating our children and grandchildren, we are to make good use of the wisdom of words. There is something to say, and the point is up to the point, so as to avoid excessive interference and generation gap. Listening attentively and understanding their ideas is the only way to establish true communication.
Retirement is another starting point in life, and integrity and responsibility will accompany us through this good time. Let's maintain a high standard of demeanor and achieve a glorious retirement.
There is a famous saying in Zhu Zi's Family Motto:"Endure the poor and endure the rich, thrift and deal with others;Know how to measure proportions, and be in line with heaven and earth. ”This sentence admonishes us to be rational and restrained in spending money, not to be extravagant because of temporary wealth, and not to be too stingy because of poverty.
Pension is a part of life, but it doesn't always cover all expenses. We may face unexpected situations or major expenses, so we must use our financial resources carefully to avoid getting into trouble.
Spending money rationally is also a manifestation of a person's upbringing. Not only to meet your own needs, but also to consider the people around you, and avoid being too extravagant or stingy. Through rational spending methods, we are also cultivating our own moral character and cultivation.
When shopping for daily necessities, if we can take into account the needs of the elderly in need, shopping with cash is also a kind act. Not only does this help others, but it also saves money for itself, which is a win-win situation.
When we help our grandchildren shop, we also choose carefully. Consider the impact of purchasing items on your grandchildren's growth and life, avoid blindly meeting your grandchildren's requirements, and cultivate their rational consumption concepts.
Spending money wisely also includes planning ahead and budgeting well. In this way, when facing emergencies or family needs, we can calmly deal with them and ensure the happiness and tranquility of life.
Spending wisely will add a lot to our retirement life. By using our financial resources wisely, we are better able to ensure the well-being of ourselves and our families.
Here, we can have enough time and space to enjoy the beauty that was once too busy to reach. However, there is intimacy and comfort. Maintaining proper intimacy is an important part of our retirement life.
Retirement is not a lonely journey, but a wonderful time to share with family and friends.
Inviting a few old friends to dance square dance, play chess, or play tai chi can undoubtedly add a lot of color to life. These activities not only enrich our spiritual life, but also deepen our feelings for each other.
However, we also need to know how to keep a certain distance. Sometimes, excessive intimacy can backfire, leading to misunderstandings and conflicts. Just like painting a beautiful ink painting, you need to leave blank space, and the intimate relationship also needs an appropriate distance to make it look better.
Let's listen to the story of "Blue Sorrow". The protagonist in the story is too close, which leads to family strife and ends up in a painful situation. This is undoubtedly a profound warning to keep a proper distance and avoid losing the peace and happiness of our family due to excessive intimacy.
In retirement, we also need to know how to respect the family life of others. Don't interfere or disturb other people's private space, and being polite and discreet is what we should do as retirees.
The same is true with children. We need to keep an appropriate distance, not interfere too much with their small family, and respect their choices and decisions. Only in this way can we maintain a harmonious parent-child relationship and enjoy a good retirement life together.
Finally, let's approach retirement with an open and honest attitude.
Either insist on living alone and maintain peace of mind and independence;
Either choose to pursue a new relationship, but also avoid getting involved in emotional disputes with people with families.
Rational and prudent choices can make our retirement life better.
Intimate and comfortable. Maintaining the right amount of intimacy in retirement is an important part of our pursuit of a better life.
Let's be rational and cautious and enjoy this retirement time that belongs to us.
Mr. Bondarev once said:"On the stage of life, it is a kind of wisdom to maintain a certain sense of boundaries. ”
It's not just about personal peace of mind, it's about the quality and happiness of your retirement life as a whole.
In retirement, we should keep a certain distance from the outside world and society. Not isolation, but a kind of freedom, not indifference, but a calmness. Proper boundaries allow us to maintain peace of mind and stay away from unnecessary distractions and distractions.
In the same way, we need to maintain appropriate boundaries for personal finances, relationships with spouses and children. Rational and prudent handling of finances, maintaining mutual comfort and respect, can ensure harmony and stability in family life.
Life is a long-lasting practice, and different stages require different levels of self-cultivation. When you are young, you develop your skills;When he is middle-aged, he cultivates concentration;In old age, maintain self-discipline. Only in this way will we be able to maintain the state of both internal and external cultivation in our retirement life.
In retirement, the way we say and act is especially important. Speak responsibly, do not easily agree or promise, and maintain the quality of honesty and reliability. It's not just about being responsible for others, it's about respecting yourself.
Spending money responsibly is an integral part of retirement life. Maintaining appropriate savings and avoiding financial difficulties caused by overspending can ensure that we can live comfortably and securely in retirement.
Maintaining a certain amount of space and distance in social interactions after retirement is key to maintaining comfort and freedom. This not only maintains personal independence, but also ensures harmony in interpersonal relationships.
Confucius said:"Those who know are not confused, those who are benevolent are not worried, and those who are brave are not afraid. ”In the years of retirement, we need to keep our minds open and free, but also follow the proper boundaries. Only in this way can we live more calmly and comfortably.
Maintaining a sense of boundaries is a kind of upbringing, but also a wisdom. May we have a happy and peaceful life in retirement by maintaining proper boundaries.
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