In today's society, most families have only one or two children, so grandparents and grandparents are very close people in the eyes of children. However, why do most children think grandma is closer?Let's take another look at that.
When a child has a child of their own, the older generation will naturally pamper the grandchildren more. Whether it's a grandmother or a grandmother, they will revolve around the child. It stands to reason that grandma and grandma should be close to children, but most children are closer to grandma. Why is that?
For most children, grandma and grandma play different roles in their upbringing. For some reasons, there is less contact time between grandma and child, so it is easier for child to form a deep bond with grandma. In addition, some women rarely return to their parents' homes after marriage due to distance or work, and their children rarely go to their grandmother's house, which leads to a certain sense of alienation from their grandmother psychologically. As a result, they develop a more natural and intimate relationship with their grandmother.
Although children's speech and behavior seem innocent, in fact, they have a very thorough understanding of grandma and grandma. Children actually know very well who their relatives are and who are outsiders. Although grandma is also very good to children, but due to the distance orlifeXi and other reasons, children do not feel as natural and relaxed at their grandmother's house as they do at their grandmother's house. Therefore, they will set certain boundaries for their grandmother psychologically, believing that they are outsiders and are unwilling to sleep with her.
A child's perception of grandma and grandma is not entirely formed by the child itself. Parents in the everydaylifeSome of these practices can also have an impact on the child. If parents do not pay attention to guiding their children to view the relationship between grandma and grandma correctly, but let them form a sense of kinship psychologically, then children will see grandma as an outsider. The correct way to do this is to tell the child that grandma and grandma are their own family members, and they love and care for them very much, so that the child does not feel psychologically alienated.
At the same time, if some mothers are worried that their children and grandma are not close to themselves and are unwilling to go back to see their parents more, how to cultivate the relationship between their children and grandma?After getting married, women should go home more often to visit their parents and bring their children back more often, so that they can feel the love of their grandmother. Only by seeing each other more, keeping in touch often, and caring for each other, the relationship between the child and the grandmother will be closer.
Relationships between people need to be maintained in order to stay close. Whether it's family, friendship or love, it's important to see each other more, keep in touch often, and care for each other. For children, there is no distance between grandma and grandma, and there is no saying that anyone is closer. As long as they are good to their children, they can feel their love.
In the eyes of children, grandma is a relative, and grandma is an outsider. Although this is just a child's statement, there is their perception of the daughter and the mother's family behind it. However, this kind of cognition does not mean that grandma has no relationship with her mother's family, but is a psychological feeling. Therefore, when parents guide their children to view the relationship between grandma and grandma, they should pay attention to cultivating children's correct cognition and let them know that grandma and grandma are their own family. At the same time, after getting married, women should also go home more often to visit their parents and take their children back more often, so that their children can establish a deep relationship with their grandmother. It is only by maintaining a relationship that the child's intimacy with his or her grandmother and grandmother can be enhanced.