Lust is like a sword with two edges.
The right desire inspires people to keep moving forward;Excessive desire can cause people to lose their way.
The father-son relationship between Hou Zhirong and the Marquis broke down, and the Marquis could not accept his father's arbitrary manipulation of his fate, so he rejected the marriage based on interests. The tragedy of his marriage, a rarity at the time, is still deeply revelatory for us today. Chen Chen, a rude and uneducated "rich girl", had a hard time entering the heart of the marquis.
Chen Chen has deep feelings for the Marquis, but the Marquis has fallen deeply in love with Wu Shiyi.
Hou Zhirong forced the marquis to marry Chen Chen, which touched the marquis's bottom line. The Marquis was arranged in both his studies and his career, and he was able to endure it, but when it came to marriage, he did not want to be a manipulated puppet.
True happiness is up to us.
The Marquis chose to leave home because of a momentary impulse, and Hou Zhirong thought that he would come back after all the hardships he had experienced in the outside world, but to his surprise, the Marquis's determination was even stronger than he expected.
After getting rid of Hou Zhirong's influence, the marquis still successfully launched his own business and created his own world.
In the work "Three Lives Are Lucky to Meet You", the Marquis achieves fruitful results in love and career, he not only finds his soul mate Wu Shiyi, but also establishes his own studio, and the ending of the story is perfect.
He was able to experience happiness not only because of the great effort he put in, but more importantly, because he was full of kindness in his heart, stuck to his principles, and always followed the basic principles of life.
In the original work "Three Lives Are Lucky to Meet You", Chen Chen cleverly used a project to lure the marquis, successfully lured him to the hotel, and tried to use this opportunity to develop a relationship with the marquis. Facing the Marquis who was about to go bankrupt, Chen Chen did not choose any shortcuts.
In the face of money and beauty, not every man can control it properly, and the 5 men with the "most tragic fate" in "Three Lives Are Lucky to Meet You" all seem "greedy".
1, a person named Zhu Dapeng.
Although Zhu Dapeng has an honest and kind girlfriend like Wu Shiyi, he is still dissatisfied.
He accused Wu Shiyi of neglecting his feelings on the grounds that he was too busy, but in fact, he couldn't control his loneliness and had unstable thoughts.
Without Wu Shiyi's knowledge, Zhu Dapeng quietly went to the hotel with Xuemei to book a room, and he lied to Xuemei that he was single, and Wu Shiyi was just his former girlfriend.
In the face of Xuemei, Zhu Dapeng belittled Wu Shiyi as worthless, and he insisted that Xuemei was the true love of his life.
Xuemei was coaxed into ecstasy, her heart and body were handed over to Zhu Dapeng, and it wasn't until Wu Shiyi rushed into the hotel** that Xuemei realized that she had been deceived by Zhu Dapeng.
Due to the irreparable affection she paid, Xuemei had to make a wrong decision and started a life of cohabitation and barely living with Zhu Dapeng.
Zhu Dapeng betrayed his feelings and sprinkled all the stains on Wu Shiyi's body, and his selfishness and ruthless behavior angered Wu Shiyi's family.
Wu's mother found someone to canvass for Zhu Dapeng's opponent, but Zhu Dapeng unfortunately fell behind Sun Shan in the writer's selection activity, and at the same time, his love life did not reach the expected level of pleasure.
In the original work of "Three Lives Are Lucky to Meet You", Zhu Dapeng recalled Wu Shiyi's kindness again after spending time with Xuemei, and his dirty thoughts could not escape Xuemei's gaze.
Zhu Dapeng's sunrise and sunset attitude made Xuemei extremely uneasy, and she had several arguments with Zhu Dapeng, who was bored with Xuemei's tough attitude and began to reassess their relationship.
Zhu Dapeng proposed to Xuemei to break up in a tactful way, but Xuemei refused. In order to marry Zhu Dapeng, Xuemei forced him with a knife, and during the argument, Zhu Dapeng accidentally scratched Xuemei's face.
Xuemei noticed that Zhu Dapeng didn't really want to marry her, and if she couldn't get true love, she would ask for money, and used plastic surgery as an excuse to entangle herself and take Zhu Dapeng's real estate as her own.
Zhu Dapeng was afraid of Xuemei, a crazy woman, and just wanted her to leave as soon as possible, but Zhu Dapeng, who was exhausted by Xuemei's torture, lost his bargaining power and could only "spend money to eliminate disasters".
It is described in the original work of "Three Lives Are Lucky to Meet You":
Wu's mother learned the news about Zhu Dapeng's departure from somewhere, and learned that Zhu Dapeng had decided to go abroad. Wang Xuemei chose South Korea for cosmetic surgery and agreed to the request of a Korean student who runs a plastic surgery hospital at home. She used Zhu Dapeng's property to blacklist Zhu Dapeng. Interestingly, neither Zhu Dapeng nor Wang Xuemei revealed their plans, but chose to keep them secret. ”
This love relationship, which deviated from morality, eventually led to Zhu Dapeng suffering heavy losses, and his life and property were all in vain, all of which was the result of his own self-inflicted consequences.
2, named Hou Zhirong.
Hou Zhirong is a business person who only focuses on personal interests.
He was very strict and stingy with his subordinates, so he was nicknamed "Hou Papi;".In his treatment of his son, he did not attach importance to family affection, but regarded the marquis as an auxiliary tool for the growth of the family business.
He treats his lovers with great care.
Hou Zhirong, a man in his fifties, fell deeply in love with Qian Xiaoyan, who was in his twenties. He knew that Qian Xiaoyan's family was not well-off and it was difficult to resist the attraction of material things, so he chose her and let the older man enjoy fresh food.
Hou Zhirong drove a luxury car for Qian Xiaoyan and provided a temporary residence for Qian Xiaoyan and her family, all the garages were in his name, and Qian Xiaoyan was only allowed to use them.
Qian Xiaoyan mistakenly thought that this was real love, but she didn't expect to be taken advantage of by an old man, and Hou Zhirong never considered marrying her.
Hou Zhirong regards Qian Xiaoyan as his pet, and what he seeks is a gentle and obedient companion. In the original work "Three Lives Are Lucky to Meet You", Hou Zhirong's inner world is described as follows:
Having this little pet may be a relief, but if one day it becomes less considerate of others and even wants to break into the home, then the pet can no longer be raised, and even if it likes it, it must be cut off. ”
Hou Zhirong, a man with a large family business, has shown his ingenuity when dealing with issues related to women.
Since the death of his ex-wife, he has not entered the palace of marriage again, because marriage involves the redistribution of assets, and he does not want the Hou family's wealth to fall into the hands of outsiders.
It is not uncommon for Hou Zhirong, a ruthless person, to be betrayed by everyone and separated from his relatives.
The Marquis could not bear his manipulation and chose to leave home;Ma Yong was no longer willing to be his pawn, so he quietly took the huge amount of 20 million funds in the company's account;Designer Bao Xiaohan has gained insight into his true face and no longer serves him.
In the original work of "Three Lives Are Lucky to Meet You", the marquis refused to marry Chen Chen, which made Chen Chen feel very aggrieved. Chen Chen's father was very angry because of this, and suspended the supplies to Hou Zhirong**, who was in a difficult situation due to the lack of necessary raw materials.
Just when the roof was leaking, it suddenly rained overnight, and the company was almost hollowed out by the traitor Ma Yong inside. Hou Zhirong couldn't find a suitable assistant, and to make matters worse, his son betrayed him and took away the project. In the face of such huge internal and external pressure, Hou Zhirong fell ill.
Hou Zhirong's company and personal health have taken a serious hit, causing him to lose his past glory.
3. A creature called a starfish.
Haixing has a deep affection for Qian Xiaoyan, although he tried his best to pursue Qian Xiaoyan but failed, unfortunately Qian Xiaoyan chose to socialize with the upper class and moved into a luxury villa.
Starfish was not satisfied with the status quo, so he quietly followed Qian Xiaoyan and found out that Qian Xiaoyan's lover was Hou Zhirong, which made Starfish feel very shocked.
Starfish and the Marquis are close friends, but the Marquis's father becomes his rival in love. What's more, Hou Zhirong is over fifty years old, and Qian Xiaoyan would rather choose to live with such an older man than accept his affectionate confession, which deeply hurts the feelings of the starfish.
Starfish paid close attention to Qian Xiaoyan's social circle, and he witnessed Qian Xiaoyan's display of luxury homes and happy lives, and his heart was full of pain and sorrow. He was jealous of Hou Zhirong's wealth, and in order to get revenge on Hou Zhirong, he chose to take a different path.
In the original work of "Three Lives Are Lucky to Meet You", it is described that after Qian Xiaoyan was abandoned by Hou Zhirong, Haixing stole the design draft of Zhirong Construction Group and sold it for 500,000 yuan. With the funds, he rented a spacious four-room home and signed a multi-year contract with Qian Xiaoyan for her to live in.
I just received 500,000 yuan, but I quickly spent 480,000 yuan, starfish This is the first time I have spent so generously!Those who are so frugal, probably because the money came too quickly and went too quickly, did not feel too much distress for a while. ”
Hou Zhirong quickly pinpointed the specific location of the design draft and found the starfish. Since the paper could not completely encapsulate the fire, the starfish almost **. Qian Xiaoyan took the initiative to take this responsibility and promised to repay the money.
The reason why starfish went down the wrong path, although it seems to be out of emotion on the surface, is actually for money.
When he secretly browsed Qian Xiaoyan's circle of friends, his behavior was similar to Qian Xiaoyan's, and they all became too vain and greedy. He once dreamed of becoming rich overnight, but he didn't actually have the ability to do so. Driven by this desire, he had the bad idea of stealing.
He felt that Qian Xiaoyan was not optimistic about him, mainly because of his poor economic situation. Although he "earned" 500,000 yuan, he still imitated Hou Zhirong's way and placed Qian Xiaoyan in a big house.
Even if you take something that is not your own, you must eventually return it. What is embodied in him is a tenacious spirit. Haixing repaid a debt of 500,000 yuan by running a small noodle restaurant, which was undoubtedly an even worse blow to the already financially difficult family. His short-lived greed brought him only short-lived good fortune and endless toil.
4. Named Ma Yong.
After completing his university studies, Ma Yong chose to follow Hou Zhirong.
Hou Zhirong offered Ma Yong the position of vice president, but did not give him a good salary, Ma Yong did not complain about this, and remained loyal to his boss Hou Zhirong".
It wasn't until Ma Yong happened to hear the conversation between Hou Zhirong and the marquis, father and son, that he woke up like a dream.
Hou Zhirong told the Marquis: "No matter how good Ma Yong is, he is always an outsider, and I will never entrust the company to him." ”
Hou Zhirong's heartfelt words undermined Ma Yong's enthusiasm. Ma Yong mistakenly thought that Hou Zhirong's attention, trust and cultivation of him was to allow him to "inherit the throne", but in fact, he was just a supporting role for the Hou family.
Ma Yong has given unreservedly for many years, but in the end, he has only been rewarded with Hou Zhirong's exploitation and jealousy, causing his mentality to become unbalanced.
Ma Yong plotted actions against the Marquis several times and embezzled the company's funds behind his back. In order to defeat Hou Zhirong, he disguised himself as a fake and started a relationship with Tian Min, the company's accountant, but he had no feelings for Tian Min and just wanted to use her.
With Tian Min's assistance, Ma Yong succeeded in destroying the company's financial system and smoothly transferring 20 million yuan to overseas accounts, which made Hou Zhirong feel helpless, and it was completely unclear who did all this.
Tian Min witnessed Ma Yong's behavior getting out of control and deeply felt the horror of this man, so she chose to resign, blacklist Ma Yong, and completely disappear from his life.
Tian Min's "treachery" made Ma Yong feel cold.
With a sneering smile on his face, the big horse monkey said, "Everyone is like this, what is justice and shame, it is all because of our lack of wealth." ”
As a result of Ma Yong's actions, Zhirong Construction Group almost faced bankruptcy, and he also received the punishment he deserved. While in prison, Ma Yong conducted in-depth reflection and careful planning on himself, but in the end all his efforts came to naught.
Ma Yong's inner twist is mainly due to his failure to position himself correctly, and his strong desire for power and money destroys his rational thinking.
5. Blue flags.
Lan Qi was Wu Shiyi's first love, but after Wu Shiyi and Zhu Dapeng ended their relationship, Lan Qi returned from overseas and expressed her love to Wu Shiyi again.
Lan Qi has achieved great success in her career, owning a hotel under her name and inviting Wu Shiyi to join her team several times. Despite Lan Qi's promise of a high salary and a quiet job opportunity, Wu Shiyi was unimpressed.
On the other hand, Wu Shiyi holds the view that she and Lan Qi have been separated for many years, so they cannot regain their former relationship state.
From another point of view, Wu Shiyi is passionate about her profession, and she doesn't want to become a captive canary because she has her own dreams and goals.
Lan Qi noticed that Wu Shiyi's attitude seemed very indifferent, so he adjusted his tactics and attacked his father-in-law and mother-in-law instead.
Lan Qi warmly invited the old couple to stay in the sea view room of the hotel and prepared many gifts for them, which made the old couple very happy and expressed their acquiescence to the marriage.
Wu's mother persuaded Wu Shiyi to recognize the facts and follow Lanqi, so that he could be materially guaranteed and would not suffer hardship, but Wu Shiyi was always unwilling to take the step to Lanqi.
Mother Wu has been very shrewd all her life, but in the matter of Lan Qi, her judgment seems to be a little biased.
Lan Qi is willing to let Wu Shiyi go to work in the hotel, mainly because Wu Shiyi is extremely possessive, which is also the reason why he needs to put in great effort.
In the original work of "Three Lives Are Lucky to Meet You", it is described that Wu Shiyi has interacted with other male colleagues at work after working in Lanqi. Lan Qi sometimes loses his temper due to jealousy, and this emotionally unstable state reveals his character shortcomings.
Lan Qi expressed this opinion: "Nothing I care about can be flawless. Even if there is a 1% flaw in my creation, I will destroy it. The woman I love dearly, I don't want her to smile at other men. ”
Talk pleasantly to you today, and tomorrow there may be moments of kisses and hugs. Indeed, I was jealous and jealous. I can't avoid jealousy when I love someone deeply, the affection between us should be genuine, and no one wants it to be overshadowed by anything. ”
Lan Qi experienced a marriage, and it was precisely because she couldn't stand his suspicion and manipulation that his ex-wife risked her life and decided to break off the marriage with him.
Lan Qi is a child without parents who has lived under the protection of others since he was a child. He has a strong desire for affection and love, and this love has a distinctly "exclusive". Wu Shiyi worked by his side, which made him feel particularly tormented.
When Wu eleven steps out of the house, Lan Qi will follow closely to observe whether she has been in contact with other men;Lan Qi was furious when he saw the encounter between Wu Shiyi and the Marquis, and planned to attack the Marquis with a knife. Wu Shiyi succeeded in protecting the Marquis, but was seriously injured himself.
Lan Qi finally understood the harm he had caused to Wu Shiyi, realized his mistake, and took the initiative to surrender to **, which allowed Wu Shiyi to get out of his control.
For most of them, greed and lust are the main reasons that lead to their unfortunate lives.
Zhu Dapeng was torn between the two women, not only lost Wu Shiyi, but also failed to keep Xuemei, but also lost real estate, his career was hit hard, his reputation was damaged, and everything became a mess.
Starfish has a persistent attitude towards women who don't love it, and will not hesitate to risk it for 500,000;Ma Yong pursued too much of a high position that did not belong to him, so he sacrificed the rest of his life.
Hou Zhirong is greedy, but he can't catch anything.
Only Lan Qi is a person who pursues feelings too much, and his pathological possessiveness does not restrict the other party, but his own freedom.
A writer once said, "In this world, things are always full, and satisfaction leads to loss." If we don't know how to control the size of our desires, then we can't really take control of our lives. Only by letting go of the superfluous can we find true life in what we have. ”
It is only when you control your desires that you can truly control your own destiny.