Ode to Joy is a literary work that delves into many philosophies in the workplace and society, while also depicting the emotional world of the five heroines, and the book is very close to life, allowing readers to quickly immerse themselves in it.
Although I had already read this work during my college years, now that I decided to revisit the original book, my goal was to create the most representative scumbag character in this work - the white scumbag.
I have observed that many women may lack the ability to see a man as he really is, and their personalities are quite complex. Maybe someone has been with you for more than a decade, and you may never have expected that they would betray you and become strangers.
For women, marriage is undoubtedly a crucial issue. Although more and more women today are choosing to live independently, for the vast majority of women, marriage is still a major decision in their lives.
As the saying goes: Men are afraid of choosing the wrong career, while women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. Therefore, I think that there are many things that should be clear before getting married, adhere to certain basic principles, certain conditions must not be compromised, and certain behaviors are absolutely the most basic bottom line.
Therefore, I deliberately created the white scumbag character described in "Ode to Joy", hoping that through his characteristics as a villain, more women can see the true face of men. Although I understand that in the eyes of a lover, Xi Shi's image is similar to Qiu Yingying, and she has a good impression of Director Bai, so she may not be able to truly gain insight into the true face of the white scumbag, but she can always see the true face of that person, which also makes this article have a certain meaning.
The first characteristic of the white scumbag is: sending a message inviting a girl late at night, the time is very tight, and it does not give people enough space to think.
The white scumbag and Qiu Yingying both took the same accounting course on the weekend, and both of them took classes on the weekend. Qiu Yingying seemed a little excited before, and she was still thinking about what she should wear the next day that night.
She expressed this opinion: "The handsome head of our company's finance department also attended the same class, and I plan to engage him in the most attractive way tomorrow. ”
Initially, she brought two pieces of clothing to ask Guan Guan for his opinion. Since Guan Guan had a ** meeting, she didn't have much time to give advice, so she hurriedly proposed to choose Deep Blue, because Deep Blue seemed more mature and decent. But Qiu Yingying was skeptical of Guan Guan's suggestion, and she decided to hang her clothes on Fan Shengmei's door, hoping that Guan Guan would notify Fan Shengmei to come back and provide her with reference.
Because it was too late, Qiu Yingying chose to rest first. When Fan returned home, Guanguan's online conference was also coming to an end. It was late at night, and Fan Shengmei found a mobile phone from Qiu Yingying's clothes pocket in front of her door, and at this time, Director Bai sent her a text message.
Director Bai said to Xiao Qiu: "I will pick you up tomorrow, please send me a text message and tell me the address." ”
After reading the text message, Fan Shengmei realized that it was Qiu Yingying's mobile phone. Guan Guan mistakenly thought that there was some kind of emotional entanglement between them, so he explained the whole thing to Fan Shengmei. But Fan Shengmei's reaction was unexpected, and she quickly recognized the true face of the so-called "white scumbag".
After Fan Shengmei went through the text message again, she decided to delete it. She shared: "Xiaoguan, I want to teach you two principles of being a human being. First of all, if the other party really wants to invite you, then make sure to send a text message or ** in advance at the appropriate time to give the girl a chance to think calmly, and never send it late at night. Secondly, if it was a not-so-handsome white supervisor who sent such a text message, would you think it was sexual harassment?Then, please be fair, because the messages sent by the handsome boss's boss are also sexual harassment. In any company, office romances are not allowed, and once violated, the most unfortunate ones are often grassroots female clerks like Xiao Qiu. This is not a joke, as a male boss, they should be more aware of the consequences of the matter. ”
Fan Shengmei's ruthlessness was really shocking, she immediately recognized the true face of the white scumbag, and frankly admitted that inviting the white scumbag late at night was an act of disrespect. Therefore, any girl should understand that a late-night invitation can be a form of harassment, even for the most handsome white guy.
Often, when men invite girls, they tend to send them a few days in advance or at the right time during the day, rather than late at night, which gives little room for thought. Such people tend to pursue short-term interests and have relatively low respect for girls.
Therefore, this type of person needs special attention.
The second characteristic of the white scumbag is that his romance in the office is explicitly forbidden, and he makes it clear that he is not sincere.
In "Ode to Joy", Qiu Yingying's company explicitly prohibits office romances, and those so-called "white scumbags" actually don't have enough ability to expand office romances. Therefore, Qiu Yingying is likely to suffer a lot of losses in the future.
Although the culture of many companies may not be so prominent in some ways, in the context of "Ode to Joy", I deeply feel that office romance is forbidden, because it is not only Fan Shengmei who thinks so, but there is also a young employee named Li Chaosheng in Guanguan who also has a crush on Guanguan.
Li Chaosheng and Guan Guan are both employees of the same age who work in the same company. Li Chaosheng showed great enthusiasm for Guan Guan when he was in the company, but Guan Guan always ignored his enthusiasm. Despite this, Li Chaosheng did not do anything out of the ordinary. It was not until Li Chaosheng decided to resign from the company that he officially invited Guan Guan and generously expressed his feelings in front of Guan Guan, which shows that Li Chaosheng was out of consideration for Guan Guan in this regard.
But apparently, Director Bai never really considered Qiu Yingying's feelings, he just used the convenience of his work to play with young women like Qiu Yingying.
At that time, Guan Guan naively thought that as long as the two sincerely loved each other, there would always be a solution in the future, but in the end, Fan Shengmei's words made her see the reality clearly.
For the future, everything is clear and straightforward, either Xiao Qiu chooses to resign, or Bai Handsome chooses to resign. Considering that Xiao Qiu's work experience was not easy for him, she firmly believes that he should not resign. Only when the white handsome guy is successfully promoted to the position of supervisor, and there is no CPA working in the hard-line division, he will not give up easily. Hmph, as a male accountant who has been in the workplace for many years but has not yet passed the note exam, he should not expect too many achievements from himself. It would be better for him to stay with a company that will reward him with a supervisory position. At that time, Xiao Qiu will definitely pay for it. Believe me, Xiaoguan, I have many years of experience in personnel management and I have a very keen eye. For a girl like us who is not in her hometown in Haishi, work is her only pillar, and I definitely can't risk it for a man who has no future. Tomorrow, I'll make Xiao Qiu wear dark blue. ”
Fan Shengmei's words are really blunt, and the white scumbag has failed to obtain a CPA certificate in his years of work, which shows that this person is either stupid, or lacks self-motivation, or is unproductive.
Therefore, it is difficult for a person like him to achieve great things. If the two really come together, it's real life. In those days, poor couples often lived in distress and life seemed to have little hope. Moreover, whether people like the white scumbag will have thoughts of betrayal is another topic.
Although the love affair in the office is expressly forbidden, the irresponsible man took the initiative to provoke Qiu Yingying, which is really very irresponsible.
The third characteristic of a white scumbag is: poverty is not the biggest reason, what is really scary is to be too stingy with you.
I think that when a man pursues you, he is not willing to spend money for you and does not expect him to make much sacrifice for you after marriage. Although money is not the measure, his willingness to pay for you is also sincere.
I'm not talking about overly utilitarian ways of consuming. What I'm talking about is very common, such as inviting guests to enjoy a delicious meal or buying some high-quality gifts. We don't need to be too expensive or luxurious, but we should also express our emotions and not be too stingy. Of course, we will also be polite to each other in our interactions. But my impression of Director Bai is that he never really spent much for Qiu Yingying.
Qiu Yingying rides the subway with him every day and stands in front of her. In Qiu Yingying's eyes, her handsome guy has been trying his best to protect her. But the man who really loves her deeply actually doesn't want to see her crowded on the subway, even if there is no car, he will choose to take a taxi to make her feel more comfortable every day. And Director Bai stood in front of Qiu Yingying, not to protect her, but to take advantage of himself more openly.
Although Director Bai may not have enough funds to buy a car, his taxi fee is always there. If a girl really loves you, she will also worry about your financial situation and work with you to squeeze into the subway. But unfortunately, the white scumbag has never really experienced the fun of taking a taxi once.
The date with Qiu Yingying was really stingy.
One night, Qiu Yingying came home relatively late, she did not fall asleep when she closed the pass, she expressed her concern for Qiu Yingying for a long time, asked her where she went, Qiu Yingying replied that she went to the movies, and then went to sing.
Guan Guan initially mistakenly thought that Director Bai had carried out a large-scale bloodletting that night, but Qiu Yingying claimed that movie tickets and restricted K songs were both ** activities. She also proudly claims that the singing box will give away a small cake for free. Hearing this, I have a whole new understanding of this so-called "white scumbag".
Does it really need to be so simple to date your girlfriend or someone who is looking for a partner?I think it's a normal thing. I think I can't stand such miserliness. Qiu Yingying can also bear it, after all, this is her first date. I hope to leave a good memory for the girl and at the same time give myself a decent image. It is clear that this so-called "white scumbag" is completely unconscious in this regard and is really stingy.
Men tend to think of feminine love, but they are not willing to spend even the simplest things, and it is hard to believe the sincerity you sayAround us, some boys are easily moved by love, their love is very pure, without any impurities. Because of the money spent, there is always more to be earned, and there is also a touch of dignity when it comes to being in love, which I think most urban professionals are capable of doing, the only difference is whether they are willing to do it or not.
It is clear that the white scumbag was reluctant from the start.
The fourth characteristic of the white scumbag is: once he encounters a girl with slightly superior conditions and takes the initiative to attack, he will not hesitate to betray her.
Qiu Yingying's initial relationship with the white scumbag was not complicated, and their dispute began with Qu Xiaoxuan's participation. Qu Xiaoxuan and Andy once brought a big crab and hoped that everyone on the 22nd floor could enjoy the big crab together. Initially, they gave Qiu Yingying a **, and also mentioned that the handsome guy Bai could cook. Initially, they didn't want to go back to Ode to Joy.
Fan Shengmei warmly extended the invitation, but in the end seemed to be attracted by the big crabs weighing half a catty each, and agreed to have dinner on the 22nd floor, and asked the handsome white guy to take care of the cooking.
I think that for ordinary men who know a little bit about human feelings, they should agree to this situation, and they will also invite Qiu Yingying's friends to dinner. After all, the 22-year-old people are already Qiu Yingying's friends in Haishi, but obviously, this handsome white guy does not have such an understanding and plan.
When it comes to cooking, it is mainly out of respect for the big crab and not wanting to waste it, so I decided to cook it myself. But when he arrived at Andy's house, the handsome man's eyes did not really stay on Qiu Yingying, he always looked at the other girls in the room, even Xiao Guan, once such a person woke up, Qu Xiaoxuan immediately recognized his intentions.
Qu Xiaoxuan thought that such a person should not hurt Qiu Yingying, so she took action. When she saw Guan Guan slapping the dishes on the table, she walked up to the handsome white guy and asked Guan Guan to take a photo of her and the chef.
This group photo is completely different from Qiu Yingying's, Qiu Yingying completely handed herself over to the handsome white guy during the shooting, while Qu Xiaoxuan was like a dragonfly dotting water, sometimes close to her shoulders, sometimes supporting her arms. In her every movement and movement, Qu Xiaoxuan's deep salon perfume and fanning fragrance gradually penetrated into the depths of Director Bai's heart. The look in Director Bai's eyes was so focused and serious. Although Director Bai's expression was very formal, Qu Xiaoxuan gently touched it, and indeed her shoulders had become semi-soft.
At the moment when Qu Xiaoxuan was taking pictures, she had quietly hidden her ** number in Director Bai's pocket.
In fact, if Director Bai had no evil thoughts in his heart, his feelings for Qiu Yingying were sincere. Afterwards, he may ignore Qu Xiaoxuan's ** and tell Qiu Yingying about it. But unexpectedly, Director Bai really contacted Qu Xiaoxuan at night and successfully concealed the matter from Qiu Yingying.
In addition, Director Bai did not even call Qu Xiaoxuan for more than 24 hours after they met, showing that his character was really obscene.
After the facts were confirmed, the supervisor canceled the original appointment with Qiu Yingying the next day and went to do hard work for Qu Xiaoxuan's company. Director Bai is a big name in the company, and he is a top boss at work, and he has a very strong work ability. In addition, he hid everything from his girlfriend Qiu Yingying, which was obviously indecent, as if one foot was accompanied by two boats. In fact, if there is no Qu Xiaoxuan, such a thing may also involve other women.
After the incident, out of concern for social order, Qu Xiaoxuan gave a group photo of herself to the other sisters on the 22nd floor. At that time, Guan Guan saw this ** and rushed out of the bedroom, and unexpectedly met Qiu Yingying, who also rushed out of the bedroom, both of them holding mobile phones. The mobile phone displays the same**, giving people a classic sense of code communication.
Guan Guan said without hesitation: "I want to get rid of that person surnamed Bai." ”
However, Qiu Yingying shouted loudly: "Qu Xiaoxuan!."Qu Xiaoxuan!”
In the same matter, Qiu Yingying thought that it was Qu Xiaoxuan's fault, but Guan Guan quickly saw through the true face of the so-called white scumbag.
Faced with this situation, Andy was a little confused and didn't understand why this was happening
Fan Shengmei said: "If you look at this from another perspective, you will see two girls who are close in age. One of them was a beautiful woman like a vixen, with a rich fortune and a dowry, and she was a sea turtle;The other is a non-resident woman with no household registration, penniless, and a medium temperament. If you were a man, which one would you choose?They are all real city people. ”
Andy was speechless when he heard this, and this is indeed a fact. The white scumbag is an unreliable person, he may stammer with Xiaoxuan today, and he may also stammered with other women tomorrow.
After the incident, Qiu Yingying became very angry. But surprisingly, Qiu Yingying is very easy to be coaxed. A simple ** call, a few sweet words made the two reconcile. Although Qiu Yingying seemed a little naïve in this regard, Director Bai's behavior also made her feel very uncomfortable. On the way to work the next day, the white scumbag successfully coaxed Qiu Yingying with only a pack of doughnuts and a drink.
Although Qiu Yingying seemed a little stupid, her feelings for Director Bai were sincere, otherwise she would not have been so heartbroken after suffering damage.
The fifth characteristic of the white scumbag is: once he gets Qiu Yingying, he will abandon her and make various forms of trouble for her.
Later, Qiu Yingying learned that Qu Xiaoxuan had hidden a note in Director Bai's pocket, but she didn't know anything about it herself. Qiu Yingying once mistakenly thought that Qu Xiaoxuan had ** her boyfriend, but Director Bai did not leave any clues in his pocket.
Qu Xiaoxuan patiently explained to her, "Xiao Qiu, I was about to tell you about this. After a series of tests, the truth is: your white supervisor is a very lewd man, he, as a gentleman, every time he opens the door for a lady, he will gently touch the lady's little hand in return, and he is such a person. And the second fact, if I can give your Director Bai a chance to touch today, let him experience it, and give him a little chance to become a colt master, then from today onwards, you may have deep feelings for him and her. This is my debriefing. ”
However, Qiu Yingying ignored Qu's remarks, believing that Qu Xiaoxuan was showing off her charm and trying to seduce her boyfriend. She was very dissatisfied with everyone's support for Qu Xiaoxuan and Qu Xiaoxuan's behavior of secretly putting a note in her boyfriend's pocket, and even angrily decided to move out and claim to live with Director Bai.
However, the good times didn't last long, and soon after, Qiu Yingying returned to the 22nd floor of Ode to Joy and returned with deep sadness. This time, instead of visiting the white scumbag, she went home with her colleagues. It turns out that she is in the place where Bai is in charge, and the white scumbag is not allowed to touch anything at all, his computer and mobile phone are kept secret, Qiu Yingying knows nothing about it, but one day, she personally witnessed the white scumbag boarding a luxury car.
She rushed over, and the white scumbag jumped into the limousine in front of her and left with the three sisters. The white scumbag said, do you know why I want to marry you?According to rumors, the three rich girls have been dating the white scumbag for a whole week. During this week, the white scumbag played wildly outside every day, and it wasn't until Qiu Yingying saw all this with her own eyes that she really believed that the handsome white guy she loved was such a person.
Therefore, Qiu Yingying finally understood the true face of the white scumbag and returned to Ode to Joy. In fact, during that period, the white scumbag was not afraid of Qiu Yingying knowing about it, because he was already tired of it and wanted to get rid of Qiu Yingying.
This kind of man is really annoying.
The sixth distinguishing characteristic of a white scumbag is that he often hurts others, and sometimes even acts violently, which cannot be forgiven.
After Qiu Yingying moved back to Ode to Joy, Fan Shengmei turned her head and smashed the white scumbag's dormitory in order to get justice for Qiu Yingying, but did not destroy any valuables. Surprisingly, the white scumbag is not only a scumbag, he is also extremely bad. Not only did he destroy the company's computer with his own hands, but he also ran to the police, claiming that Fan Shengmei had caused it, and asked his roommate next door to give false testimony for him.
Fortunately, his roommate next door has a little conscience, and Fan Shengmei's ** photographed afterwards confirmed his innocence, otherwise he would really be calculated by someone like a white scumbag.
However, this so-called "white scumbag" is narrow-minded, and after he returned to the company, he made all kinds of difficulties for Qiu Yingying. In the end, Qiu Yingying did not think it through and exposed everything, resulting in serious injuries to both parties, and eventually both were fired from the company.
If this is the end of this, then everything will be over. But the so-called "white scumbag" is really bad, he always goes to sue first, beats Qiu Yingying's parents, and says bad things about Qiu Yingying, which eventually causes Qiu Yingying's father to ask for leave to visit his daughter in Haishi.
Later, Qiu Yingying finally mustered up the courage to go to the talent market to look for job opportunities. But unfortunately, she found out that the white scumbag was also looking for a job, and she had already found it. This made her very dissatisfied, so she ruined the job opportunity of the white scumbag. In the end, in front of everyone, the white scumbag gave Qiu Yingying a slap.
This kind of person is not only narrow-minded, but also violent against women, which is really despicable.
I believe that no matter how men treat women, violence against them is the last behavior they can tolerate, because domestic violence is limited to zero or countless times.
If a man is violent towards a woman, especially one with whom she has had an intimate relationship, then such a man is the least worthy of associating with him, and in any case, violence should not be.
The above six characteristics that I have extracted from the white scumbag are some of my observations and summaries of these scumbags, and I hope that the girls can be vigilant and observe carefully.
In the work "Do You Know", the old lady of the Sheng family once expressed this opinion to Sheng Minglan: "If you can understand this, it will be the most ideal. You need to understand that if another provocative daughter appears, then she will be deposed. Marrying someone else is the second reincarnation of a woman. ”
However, Sheng Minglan points out: "It's easy to recognize a few words, but it's a challenge to really understand a person, and many of Lai Han are actually wearing a painted skin. ”
Indeed, in this world, most of Lai Han is dressed in painted skin, and in this world, it is the most challenging to truly understand a person. Therefore, I really hope that every woman in this world can meet a true partner and spend her life with it.