Dream of Red Mansions: Baoyu is cowardly, can't defend herself like jade, and is not worthy of Daiyu?Recognize the two truths of men, and women will collapse!
Text: Jiang Zi said the story.
In the story of "Dream of Red Mansions", the male protagonist is only Jia Baoyu, and around the little ancestor of Jiafu, Lin Daiyu, Xue Baochai, Shi Xiangyun, Miaoyu, Baoqin, Fu Qiufang, these masters and young ladies all have scandals with him, that is, the maid with a name who is worried about Jia Baoyu as an aunt, and there are also countless people such as Qingwen, Raider, Musk Yue, Autumn Pattern, and Bi Zhen.
However, Jia Baoyu, who once said that he was willing to die for Qiguan and those people, could neither protect Qingwen nor Daiyu, and at the life-and-death juncture between Qingwen and Daiyu, he did nothing, which disappointed countless women, and felt that this man was cowardly and incompetent, and he was not worthy of Lin Daiyu at all.
After listening to Baoyu's words, although there were 10,000 words in his heart, he just couldn't say it, and after a long time, Fang sobbed and said, "You have changed everything from now on!."When Baoyu heard this, he sighed and said, "Don't worry, don't say such things." I died for these people, and I was willing!”What's more, Jia Baoyu also married the Qin family in a dream early, and when he woke up, he secretly tried with the attackers, and even rumors spread by Musk Yue, Bi Zhen and others, so all kinds of things attracted a large number of female fans to scold Jia Baoyu for being a useless scumbag.
As he spoke, he told the story of the dream in detail and listened to the attacker, and then said that the cloud and rain were taught by the police illusion, and the attacker hid his face and smiled in shame. Baoyu also likes to attack people, soft and charming, so he forcibly attacked people and led the police to train Yunyu. The attacker knew that Jia's mother had already put herself with Baoyu, and now it was like this, and it was not for the sake of being courteous, so he tried it secretly with Baoyu, but fortunately no one bumped into him. Since then, Baoyu has regarded the attacker as more different than others, and the attacker has been more dedicated to Baoyu.But even so, Jia Baoyu is already a reliable and good man among the four famous novels. On Wang Xifeng's birthday, Jia Lian pulled the wife of the servant of the family into the house, and the two-story mother-in-law also persuaded Wang Xifeng to be generous, and said that all men in the world are so virtuous, turn a blind eye!
Here, Mrs. Xing and Mrs. Wang also said Sister Feng. Jia Mu smiled: "What's important!."The children are young, gluttonous cats, ** can not keep it like this. Since childhood, everyone in the world has fought like this. It's all mine, he took two more sips of wine, and became jealous again. And all the people laughed.In the eyes of the ancients, the four words of guarding oneself like jade have nothing to do with men. Even most men nowadays can never be proud of it, and they have to steal it every time, no matter how dirty and smelly it is, and they will never stop. After all, women are too naïve and too in love, and men are basically loveless.
First of all, a love-brained emperor who revolves around a woman all his life almost does not exist. Even "The Legend of Zhen Huan", which has the highest IQ, is only a work that caters to a woman's view of love.
There are three unfilial pieties, no queen is the greatest, Wen Shichu can't get married or have a baby for Zhen Huan, and he won't be willing to take the crime of bullying the king for a woman, no matter how much a man likes a woman, if he can't get it, he just misses it in his heart, and he won't revolve around her desperately.
Even if King Guojun falls in love with Zhen Huan, it is impossible to keep himself like a jade and leave him for the first time, before getting married, there should be a few people in the house, and the beautiful maids in the house will not be wasted, and he is expected to get married and have two side concubines, and he is still thinking about Zhen Huan's guard like jade, right?For example, before Jia Lian married Wang Xifeng, there were already two people in the house.
Xing'er said: "There is another cause and effect: the rules of our family, when everyone is older, they will put two people to wait before they marry." The second master originally had two, but he didn't know that he had been here for less than half a year, and they were all found out, so they were all sent out. Although others are not easy to say, they can't get over their faces, so they forced Miss Ping to be the person in the room. The girl is a serious person, she never takes this matter to heart, and she will not pick a wife and husband, but blindly serves him loyally and bravely, so she can tolerate it. ”As a eunuch, Su Peisheng can do it if he is as guarded as a jade, and expect him to be a love brain who puts a certain woman in the most important position in his heartIt's good if you don't have a psychological twist and pinch!
Women, just willing to be naïve, willing to dream, willing to fall in love, and think that as long as she is given a man who loves her life, the throne will not be changed, and the gods will not be appropriate, what can we do to save our hopeless love brain?
Tell the women the truth of the collapse again. A man is naturally greedy, and a man is in love outside after marriage, and the only possibility of changing his mind is that the girl he likes outside is reliable, persuading him to return, scolding him, or telling him the truth, admitting that he doesn't love him, looking down on him, or hurting him hard, and then breaking his luck thoughts.
Otherwise, the main palace is facing a situation where there is no way to heaven and no door to the ground. If you pretend not to know, he will ignore you and be unscrupulous outside. If you know and indulge him, he will be doubly unscrupulous.
If you accuse him?I'm sorry, men are a species that will not admit that they are at fault if they are killed, so they are not willing to pay the price for this, they will only desperately push the responsibility to you by any means, and in turn make trouble for you unreasonably, trying to cover their ears and steal the bell, and deceive themselves. They will force you to have no choice but to give up on him. But if you give up on him neatly, he will feel like a giant baby that you are ruthless and unjust.
The only way to make it useful is to set the rules in advance, pay attention to his words and deeds for decades, take preventive vaccinations repeatedly, and let him accept the concept of single-mindedness and glory in a way that he can accept.
Women really can't understand "why men have the best feelings, and they are still thinking about risking all kinds of dangers to provoke all kinds of dirty and smelly things, what kind of advantage can they brag about?".What's the picture?Is it really worth it to ruin the peace of your heart that could have been with a clear conscience for the sake of a momentary animal need?”
Therefore, the truth about men is really cruel, one is that men will not defend themselves for anyone, and the other is that men usually have no responsibility, and when they make mistakes, they are Xi and desperately try to escape the problem.
Why do men do this?At the end of the day, most men are born with an instinctive objectification of women as their own property, rather than someone who has to be loyal to their hearts, and no matter what kind of woman they meet, they can't change that, and when they hear this, women are even more devastated.
In the story of "Dream of Red Mansions", why did Zijuan say that Lin Daiyu's marriage to Jia Baoyu was the best destination?Because Jia Baoyu is a person who pities fragrant and cherishes jade, he has a much better conscience than most men. For example, Xue Pan and Sun Shaozu are not only attentive, but also domestic violence men, turning their faces, they don't miss any old love!
Zijuan smiled and said: "Although there are many princes and grandchildren, which one is not a three-room and five concubines, facing east today, and facing west tomorrow?"If you want a fairy to come, it will only be three nights and five nights, and you will be thrown behind your neck, and you will even turn against you for your concubine and girl. If there is someone in the mother's family who is powerful, it is better, if there is a girl like a girl, it will be better for a day to have an old lady, and if there is no old lady, it is just a matter of bullying by others. So, it's important to have an idea. The girl is an understanding person, don't you hear the saying: 'Ten thousand taels ** is easy to get, but it is difficult to find a confidant'. ”The information in this article is mainly quoted from: "Dream of Red Mansions" Cheng Gaoben, "Fat Yan Zhai Complete Commentary on the Stone Record", "The Biography of Zhen Huan".