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Preface. There are too many people in life who don't know how to see themselves clearly, and are constantly confused by the eyes of others and affected by negative emotions. Too many people also complain all the time that their lives are not satisfactory. 。
But people who truly live a transparent life are able to find their own direction and find their own value in chaos.
As it is often said, you can see yourself clearly because you live clearly enough. Because if you live clearly, you can see life clearly.
Lin Yutang said:
Have a clear understanding of yourself and the world.
He said in "Cai Yuantan":
Life is tiring for a person if they don't know what they want.
Only by recognizing oneself can we find one's true self, and only by correctly understanding the world can we see oneself clearly.
There are two sides to everything, and if we see too clearly, we can easily be deceived by appearances and lose our way.
Only by recognizing the world and correctly understanding oneself can one live a truly transparent and free life. If a person does not know his status and abilities, he will live a very tired life and will not get true happiness and joy.
Only by having a clear understanding of the world and correctly understanding oneself can we live a more relaxed and happy life.
Don't take other people's help for granted.
Many people always take the help of others for granted.
The reality is that everyone has difficulties.
If you don't take the help of others for granted, many detours can be avoided.
Sometimes, in life, just doing what you want to do doesn't lead to anything. Like any little thing, if you want someone else to do it for you, you're going to end up ruining it.
Because in life, no one will help you forever.
There are many people in life who can help you, but there are very few people who can really help you.
Therefore, instead of taking helping others and doing things for each other for granted, we need to learn how to be grateful and give back.
True maturity is not to become more and more apathetic, but to become more and more calm. ”
I believe that true transparency cannot be achieved through words, but through the body.
Xi compassion.
It is inevitable that people will encounter some ups and downs in their lives, but there are many people who have overcome these setbacks and difficulties and achieved success. And even after overcoming the difficulties, some people are still depressed.
Why are some things obviously not important and not worth your time and effort?
In fact, a truly transparent person is not a person who speaks freely and has no one in his eyes.
In life, many people don't know how to show sympathy to others, and always want to lose their temper with friends and relatives.
Even if some people are unhappy, they will vent their bad emotions on the people around them, making the people around them who love them also sad.
In fact, when you talk or do things with others, you need to think more from the other person's point of view.
If you lose your temper with others a lot, you don't deserve to have a happy life. Also, if you are constantly arguing with others, you do not deserve to be happy.
Only by learning to empathize with others can we improve our own lives.
Life needs more understanding and tolerance, and life needs more thoughtfulness and tolerance.
Let go of expectations of others.
If a person expects too much from others, his life becomes tiring.
Some things may not be the same as you think.
Expectations often only make things more unpleasant.
Everyone has their own trajectory in life, and you can't ask someone else to do what you want.
Therefore, we need to let go of expecting too much from others. You don't always have to think about others.
Only by learning to let go of the high expectations of others can you live a relaxed life and make yourself happier.
True goodness is like water, nourishing all things, but not competing with all things.
You can only understand if you live clearly. Everyone has their own trajectory in life, what they should do, and how to strive to be who they want to be.
Know how to feel grateful.
Each of us should have a grateful heart, because this is an ability that everyone should have.
Thank you to our parents for bringing us into this world, to our teachers for giving us knowledge, and to our friends for giving us warmth.
No one can help you forever. The only person who can help you in your life is yourself.
Learn to cherish and appreciate the people around you who are kind to you. Because they taught us what kindness is. Also, learn to appreciate the people around you who are not kind to you. Because they tell us what reality is. ；There is no such person in this world, a person who is really good to you.
With a grateful heart, you can see more and better things, and you can find sunshine, happiness, self-confidence, and happiness.
When you have a grateful heart, you will appreciate how beautiful life is and how simple happiness is.
May everyone know how to be grateful, take care of themselves, and love themselves!