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Introduce. Everyone has their own period in life, during which we have experienced all kinds of things, thought about all kinds of things, and felt all kinds of things.
Some ideas are very beautiful and interesting, some are very painful and unpleasant, and some emotions are very deep and unforgettable.
Each of us will go through a lot during this time. But life is like that, and each stage has different emotions, experiences, and experiences.
There is still a long way to go in life. It is impossible to reach the right goal at every step, and it is impossible to do it correctly at every step. Therefore, we must know how to make choices on the path of life. Be swayed by temporary gains and losses.
It is often said that fate is a bottomless pit, but this is not the case. People need to have goals in life, and those goals can be so great that they will shape the whole world for years and decades to come. It can be as small as setting a small dream in your life.
In short, life is a long and short journey. We always have a lot of ups and downs and tribulations. When encountering difficulties in life, we must not retreat, but must move forward and face them bravely.
Don't compare yourself to others, because life in the world is never the best, only just right. ”
In fact, many people's unhappiness in life starts by comparing themselves with others. For a better reference, I always look at my own life and find it unpleasant.
According to psychology, such people actually have a "strong admiration psychology", and this psychology often makes people feel that there is a big gap between them, which makes people feel pitiful.
Actually, I used to be like that. I often envy people who are better than me, and I like to compare myself with people who are more capable than me.
After all, I'm depressed every day.
Then my mom said something to me. "Silly boy, there is no best life in this world, only the most suitable life, we just need to cherish what we have, don't always compare. Others chimed in. Please be yourself. ”
We all live very simple lives, but some people always like to measure themselves by other people's standards and fall into comparisons.
In fact, there are no truly best people in this world. All you have to do is work harder than others.
Life is how you live. I think that's a good thing. If you don't want to try to change the status quo, learn to accept reality.
As long as people live, plants will continue to live. Life is short and in**, so it's best to enjoy every day.
No one in this world can succeed casually, you have to learn to see the efforts behind the success of others!”
Success requires certain conditions, and these conditions are not easy to achieve.
Some people are obviously working hard and positive, why haven't they succeeded?
What is the reason?
Actually, the reason is very simple.
The first thing to know is that pies don't fall from the sky. The success you see is only the result of someone else's efforts.
Secondly, if you want to achieve the desired success, you need to go through a process of hard work. Even if you don't succeed in the end, you'll get stronger and better in the process.
That is to say, if a person wants to succeed, it also needs a process of hard work.
What is there in life that is difficult to overcome?Your heartache is because you don't want to go through it. ”
Many people feel that life is unfair and often complain why. Their lives are so miserable. Woolen fabrics?
In fact, there is not so much suffering in this world. It's just the pain in your heart, you don't want to give up, you don't want to digest, you don't want to step over.
Some things just need to be experienced because they will help us grow. If you are constantly worried, worried, in the end you will not be able to get rid of it.
And such an outcome will ruin your life.
It's better to stay calm than to feel sorry for yourself. If you work hard and have a clear conscience, everything will be fine.
Look at those who are happy and carefree all day long. It's not because you can't overcome the mental barrier, it's because you know how to adjust yourself.
As the saying goes, one day of happiness is worth one day of unhappiness, and unhappy will only be depressed, so it is better to face everything happily every day.
It's true that life is hard, but you have to learn how to sugar your life.
So don't be shy!
It's better to do what you love than to do what others like!”
There are many ways to live. If you only think about what others like, your life can be miserable.
Do what others like because you have to conform to others, but doing what you like is different.
To do what you like, you must first have your own thoughts and preferences, and then work hard to make yourself happy in the future.
This way your life will be easier.
In order to please others, you yourself have to make mistakes. If I make a mistake, I will definitely be very miserable.
All you need to do is follow your heart and do whatever you want, and as long as you stay true to your heart, you will be able to satisfy yourself.
In this life, we can only rely on ourselves, not others.
So I hope that in the rest of my days I can be a person who knows how to please myself!
The greatest stupidity in life is to always make excuses for yourself. ”
Do you often think that if you don't do something now, you'll do it when you're older?It's too late now. 。
But this was just an idea and was never put into action.
In fact, what your heart desires most is to live a peaceful and comfortable life.
In fact, this is the most stupid idea.
One should do what one wants to do when one is able. Don't always think it's a good thing and take action.
If you don't want to leave the rest of your life with regrets, then you have no choice but to try. Even if you don't end up making it, at least you have a process worth celebrating, and that's a beautiful thing.
The greatest stupidity in life is to always look for excuses that suit you. If you do this, you are not only ruining yourself, but also your life.