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Every woman wants to live a happy and happy life, just like a blooming flower, showing her most beautiful and splendid life. I hope that I can have a sweet and happy love, live a chic and wonderful life, and everything can come true.
And, in real life, most of the women who can really live a quiet life and do everything smoothly are blessed by themselves. It's not like what people say: "A woman's greatest blessing is to meet a good man." ”
In fact, only when a woman herself becomes better and better can she meet a better man, not because she meets a good man.
A person's blessing has nothing to do with fate or the environment in which he lives, but is determined by his own mentality. That is, mentality is the most important factor in determining whether a person is blessed or not.
The Diamond Sutra says, "Mutual origin is born from the heart." ”
In fact, the heart will not only change a person's appearance, but also lead to a change in a person's blessings.
So, which four kinds of women are doing well and being blessed?
1. A woman who loves herself
A woman who loves herself, no matter what, will take good care of herself, never treat herself badly, let herself be wronged, and will not let others hurt her.
The more a woman loves herself, the easier it is to be liked by others. If you are good to others and pay for others, others may not treat you the same. Therefore, women do not care about themselves, and the more they pay for others, the more they will not be cherished by others.
Instead of being nice to others, you should love yourself well. If others love you very much, it is better to love yourself a little.
My friend Xiao Zhang works in a foreign-funded company and has a good income. She loves herself very much, and what she likes, she will rely on her own ability to get it. In addition to her work, she always maintains an enterprising spirit.
Not only did she learn to cook, she learned to draw, and she learned to swim. She made friends, fell in love, and studied well. She is very happy and fulfilled every day, and she lives a very chic life.
It can be seen that women who love themselves are very good at taking good care of themselves, treating themselves well, never letting themselves be wronged, and never letting others hurt themselves.
Therefore, the more women who know how to love themselves, the more they know how to make themselves happy and happy.
Second, a woman who can think openly
People's lives are not smooth sailing, there are always unsatisfactory times, those women who are not doing well will always be more serious, can't think about it, and can't get along with themselves.
And women who can think openly, no matter what happens, they know how to adjust their mentality, and they can gain calmly and lose peace. Accept it gladly, don't embarrass yourself, and live with your heart.
For example, Minglan in the TV series "Do You Know", she made plans when she married Gu Tingye.
If the marriage is not satisfactory, bring your own dowry, stay away from right and wrong, go to the mountains and rivers alone, and let yourself live happily. If Gu Tingye loves her and protects her, then Qin Se and Ming will spend this life together.
It can be seen that women who can think openly, no matter what they encounter, they can know how to adjust their mentality, to deal with and resolve, they will not give up on themselves, let alone hurt themselves, they will make their lives better and better.
3. A woman who is not angry
Remember the saying: Impulse is the devil!
I deeply believe that if people can't control their emotions, they will easily make mistakes under impulse. Therefore, it is very necessary to control your emotions.
Rob White once said, "At no time should a man be a slave to his own emotions, and should not subject all his actions to his emotions, but should control them in turn." ”In fact, women who know how to control their emotions can maintain an optimistic and calm mood, and when they encounter difficulties, they are not angry and can always save the day.
Women who are not angry, they understand that it is useless to be angry in trouble, and only by being calm and calm can they think of a way to solve the problem.
People who are not angry are more likely to be liked by others, and the more friends they have, the more opportunities they will have. So, the more angry a woman is, the better off their life will be.
Fourth, an independent woman
Zhang Ailing once said: "All women always have a place to live, not others, only themselves." ”Independent women are mostly excellent and have strong hearts, they don't need to be dependent on others, they have their own careers and independent economies.
Independent women, they have their own opinions, they have their own goals, and they have the ability to fight for them, and they live a wonderful life.
An independent woman can not only take good care of herself in life, but also will not rely on a man emotionally, let alone live because a man doesn't love her anymore.
In the TV series "Tiandao", the heroine Rui Xiaodan is an independent woman.
In the words of **English:A woman with a completely independent personality, her present and the future she envisions are entirely the fulcrum of her own existence, leaving no room for "subordination" and "dependence". ”
It can be seen that an independent woman, they can withstand the wind and rain on the road ahead, and can stand proudly in the world!
Closing Remarks:
Every woman is unique, don't care about other people's eyes, and try to be herself. As long as you maintain your personality and continue to cultivate yourself, you can become better and more powerful.
To be a woman with a strong heart, no matter whether others have support and love, as long as you stick to your dreams, keep working hard, and love yourself, life will definitely get better and better!
It's not a woman's ability to be beautiful, she must live beautifully, then she has no regrets!