According to the Xi of the old family, women can t eat at the table, you go to the kitchen and stay

Mondo Culture Updated on 2024-01-28

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Editor's note: A man who doesn't know how to respect a woman will never be chosen, and even if he is chosen by luck, he will be abandoned sooner or later.

Chen Lin grew up in a single-parent family, and when she was 8 years old, her mother couldn't bear her father's beating and chose to divorce. It is precisely because of this that Chen Lin is very afraid of marriage, although she had a relationship in college, her boyfriend took care of her, and she once had the idea of wanting to get married, but when the two decided to get engaged, Chen Lin recalled her mother's experience again, she chose to escape, and finally the two had no choice but to break up.

A few years have passed, Chen Lin is already 30 years old, her mother has persuaded her to get married and have children more than once, looking at her mother's eager gaze, Chen Lin feels very guilty. After working hard again and again, Chen Lin finally overcame her fear of marriage, and met her husband in a local blind date event, this man is not so good, and even a little cowardly, but Chen Lin doesn't care, because she understands in her heart that her mother was too cowardly to be bullied by her father, if she finds a husband with a cowardly personality, maybe she will not repeat her mother's mistakes.

After more than half a year of dating, Chen Lin and her husband entered the palace of marriage. The life after marriage is relatively dull, the two of them go to work and live step by step, although they lack passion, but for Chen Lin, this kind of life is already very satisfying. The days were spent in a dull way for a few years. After the efforts of the husband and wife, the two finally took root in the city, bought a house with a mortgage, and although they still had hundreds of thousands of bank loans, the couple was full of hope for the future.

In fact, in the past few years of marriage, the two have also had a lot of conflicts, just as a literati said: "Marriage is like a mirror, no matter how it is disguised, it will eventually show its original form." Chen Lin found that her husband's cowardice was only manifested in treating others, and he was very strong in dealing with people close to him, because Chen Lin heard her husband yelling at his parents more than once, so Chen Lin also persuaded her husband and said: "They are your parents after all, and it is really a bit too much for you to yell at them like this." However, her husband did not accept Chen Lin's persuasion and still went his own way.

Having said that, after the husband and wife bought the house, the husband proposed to set up a banquet at home to entertain relatives, Chen Lin understood what her husband meant, he wanted to show off himself by holding a banquet, Chen Lin readily agreed, and took the initiative to prepare the meal. Early that morning, Chen Lin began to get busy, her husband did not help, but sat there seriously, Chen Lin shouted: "Can you come and help me," I didn't expect her husband to say a little unhappily: "It's your responsibility to cook, what's my business." Her husband's words made Chen Lin a little annoyed, but at this time, relatives had already come to the door one after another, so Chen Lin had to endure it and prepare the meal by herself.

After several hours of hard work, Chen Lin served the meals on the table one after another, during which her husband did not help at all, but kept urging, which made Chen Lin even more dissatisfied. Just after the meal was ready, when Chen Lin was about to sit down to eat, her husband said: "You can't sit here to eat, according to the Xi of the old family, women can't eat at the table, you go to the kitchen and stay, I'll call you again if there is something." As soon as the words fell, Chen Lin was a little stunned, but seeing her husband's blank eyes, Chen Lin's heart suddenly chilled, and she wanted to refute her husband in public, but it seemed that there was no need for this. After seeing everything, Chen Lin left the table and replied coldly: "Okay."

After the banquet, her husband shouted at Chen Lin: "The guests are gone, you come out quickly and clean up, I have to rest." At this time, Chen Lin, who had endured it for a long time, couldn't bear it anymore, pointed at her husband and scolded: "You clean up by yourself, my mother is not your servant, and I can't live this life, let's divorce." After speaking, Chen Lin simply packed her luggage and left home. Afterwards, her husband took the initiative to come to the door to ask for peace, but his attitude did not change at all, and Chen Lin categorically refused to get back together.

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