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The act that best reflects the emptiness of people's hearts is to show off.
It's understandable to get carried away for a while, after all, everyone has a time to fight for a breath.
However, this needs to be revealed in front of the people you can trust the most, otherwise you will regret it.
Especially in front of your children, even if your eyebrows are fluttering, don't show off the following 3 things, it's no good.
01: Don't show off the joy of defeating your opponent
Life is a process of sometimes rising and sometimes declining, and temporary gains and losses do not mean anything.
If we are restless because of ups and downs, we will fall when we go up and sink when we are low.
As a parent, to establish correct values for your children, you don't have to be a saint, but try to get yourself out of your emotions, take a short-term view as long as possible, and look down on victory and defeat in order to achieve long-term peace.
Everyone will have jealousy, and inferiority is inevitable, but we need to suppress these emotions, even if we force ourselves to become a touching person without sorrow and joy, and we can't mess up when failures and setbacks come.
Of course, don't be arrogant and show off your might when victory and achievements come.
Life goes on, the outcome is undecided, we must give the children a normal heart, let them know that in this era of victory and defeat in the rapid change, they are always neither humble nor arrogant, polite and courteous.
02: Don't show off the happiness of overpowering your loved ones
There are also comparisons between relatives.
than lost, frustration suddenly arises;If you win, it is not necessarily a pleasure from the heart.
Because, deep down in our hearts, we all have this certainty, that is, comparing ourselves with relatives does not give us much sense of accomplishment, but gives birth to a sense of loss.
If this complacency is shown to children, it will give them a hint that they should not take affection for themselves, and this seemingly more intimate relationship is no different from any other emotion.
This will lead to a mindset of comparisons and the belief that you will only feel successful if you are better than everyone around you.
However, true success is not achieved by comparing others to others, it is only a narrow view.
Especially in front of the closest people, we have to fight for the defeat, which will make people think that we are competitive and lose family affection.
In addition, vanity can make people tired all their lives, because there is a sky outside the sky, there are always people who are stronger than us, and when the time comes, we will continue to catch up while questioning ourselves.
After a long time, the feeling of exhaustion and powerlessness gradually develops, and I spend the rest of my life in powerlessness.
03: Don't show off the luck of deceiving others
If you don't want people to know, you can't do it unless you do.
Showing off the luck of deceiving others in front of their children will only make them sophisticated.
Once formed, this perception will give them the illusion that deception and lies are acceptable means as long as they win, and even that they are an amazing ability.
This is very detrimental to the formation of their three views.
Honesty is the cornerstone of education, and it is also the criterion of life.
I think any parent wants to set a good example in front of their children, so that they grow up to behave in a good way and stand up to the sky.
Moreover, any misconduct is a matter of probability, and one day the truth will be revealed, but this inappropriate behavior will make others have a completely opposite judgment on our impression, thinking that we cannot be trusted and trusted.
Therefore, don't show off your occasional petty luck in front of your children, but tell them the importance of honesty, let them be frank and open-minded, do things clearly, not afraid of failures and setbacks, and remain honest and truthful.
Showing off is not a sign of wisdom, but rather makes people feel shallow and stupid.
As the leaders of our children, we should not only educate, but also lead by example, guide them with our own actions and thoughts, and let them know how to face the ups and downs of life.
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