How can I become a worthy person?My personal opinion is as follows, and I hope it can bring a little inspiration and help to readers.
A person of great value can not only bring self-confidence to himself, but also influence the people around him and make them better. Of course, it will also bring good luck to your career, love and family.
1.Independent.
Have their own independent thoughts and decisions, and are not influenced or constrained by the words and actions of others. He likes to explore new things, new ideas and new technologies, and does not follow the crowd. To do this, you need to have enough abilities: the ability to live and the ability to work. Ability and life experience are inseparable from continuous learning and Xi, and at the same time, it also needs to be constantly summarized and reviewed, quantitative change leads to qualitative change, in the process of continuous accumulation, one day, you will find yourself strong enough, strong enough to be confident and independent. You don't need other people's reviews and labels to prove yourself!I'm who I am, a different fireworks!
2.Have a strong sense of self.
Know very well who you are, know your strengths, know your weaknesses, and be able to learn from each other's strengths. When you have a clear self-awareness, you will understand that you will stick to your life goals and go crazy and fight for them, in the process, there may be people who ridicule and say cool things, but all these interferences from others will not shake your pursuit. "Don't be shocked by the humiliation, watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court;Go and stay unintentionally, look at the clouds in the sky". Indifferent to all glory and humiliation, he always enjoys the flowers blooming and falling in the courtyard in a quiet mood. is indifferent to all the ups and downs and gains and losses, and the clouds in the sky gather and disperse with the wind. It expresses an open-minded attitude towards things indifferently and naturally.
3.Three times a day, I save my body.
Think about others in the first half of the night, and think about yourself in the second half of the night." Every day, we should think about what we have done today, whether there is anything inappropriate, if there is something, we will change it, and if there is none, we will encourage it. Always maintain the grace and good mood you should have, don't hurt people for things at work, do not do things to people, whether there is something emotional, etc. Think deeply about your emotions and thoughts, maintain a healthy and sunny mental state, and make your work and life full of happiness and tolerance. Zi said: "His body is upright, and he will not be ordered;His body is not right, although he does not obey orders", which means that he is upright, and he will obey people without commanding;He is not upright, and no one obeys his orders.
4.Economic self-sufficiency.
Be able to take care of yourself, your family, and your parents, and not depend on others for survival. Nowadays, many people are gnawing at the old age, squandering their parents' lifelong savings, and depriving their parents of basic living security. People who are not responsible for their families and ignore their children's education have no value. So, we have to work hard to give ourselves a certain economic foundation.
The world is panicked, but it is just a few taels of broken silver, but this broken silver a few taels can solve all kinds of panic in the world, ensure the health of the elderly for ten thousand years, and children can enter the school, firewood, rice, oil, salt, and grains.
The economic base determines the superstructure, and without the foundation, everything is a castle in the air, and a flower in the moon mirror in the water.
5.Likes to be alone.
Enjoy your alone time, not rushed, not impatient, and feel more comfortable than with others. Being alone can better relax yourself, from the spirit to the body, you don't need to take care of other people's feelings, you can do whatever you want, completely release your human nature, remove the disguise, throw away the hypocrisy, and stay away from exhaustion!
6.Have a small circle.
It is enough to have three or five friends in life, and there is no need for a large social circle, and waste time and energy all day long to maintain these unreliable relationships. Three or five friends are enough, there is no pressure to gather, there is no worry, there are difficulties together, and happiness is shared. It's okay to drink tea, chat, pull calves from all over the world, you don't need to look at anyone's face, you don't need to pat anyone's ass, you are free, that's enough!It is enough to abandon useless socialization, put away the groveling heart, behave uprightly, and support and understand from friends.
7.Creativity.
Only with creativity can society progress and human beings develop. In life, we need to have a unique perspective and approach, and be able to confidently differ from the common view. Think out of box means not being bound by a stereotype, but thinking outside the box, looking at things from a unique perspective, and refusing to follow the crowd, even if it makes everyone uncomfortable or ridiculed. In 1804, the world's first steam locomotive was built by the British mining technician De Lveske using Watt's steam engine, with a speed of 5-6 kilometers per hour. But at that time, this speed was slower than riding a horse, and it was ridiculed by everyone.
8.Don't always follow the rules.
Don't always be constrained by social rules, sometimes you have to follow the rules in order to create miracles, let your life without regrets, and let your work and career flourish and succeed. Rousseau once said, "Too much caution misses opportunities." "So don't be afraid to take risks and seize opportunities!Dale Carnegie once said, "Our greatest fault is that when the opportunity arises, we close our eyes, and we don't even notice it when we trip." "Live to learn and toss to be old, life is short, why do you need to live a life according to the rules. "How Steel is Made" sentence: The most precious thing of man is life, and life belongs to man only once. A man's life should be spent in such a way that when he looks back, he will not regret that he wasted his time, nor will he be ashamed of his inaction, so that at the end of his life, he will be able to say:'My life and all my experiences have been devoted to the most magnificent cause in the world--- the struggle for the liberation of mankind.