We often hear people mention that life can be divided into two stages - when you are young, you are constantly enriching yourself, accumulating knowledge and skills, and participating in the pursuit of love or career in your heart. During this time, we are constantly challenged, constantly enriching ourselves, trying our best to make choices, and even if we are struggling with pain, we will always believe that it is worth giving to our loved ones, often until we are physically and mentally exhausted.
As for the second half of life, we should adopt a subtraction strategy, accept our own shortcomings, less dwell on unsatisfactory things, not worry too much about future difficulties, no longer press on those who have lost, and learn to let go and bless them.
In the process, we have come to understand that not all efforts will be rewarded, some people who have drifted away have tried to let go, and we have also learned to be optimistic about those who have missed out. Life is long, and if we are busy all day and focus on the pursuit of results, we must often feel physically and mentally exhausted. Therefore, for the rest of our lives, we only want to talk to like-minded people and keep a proper distance from those who are not compatible.
If we know that the love of someone else belongs to them, we will bless them, and try to distance ourselves from those who are self-centered and need to compromise with us. Life is short for decades, why bother working every day, always wearing a mask with tears behind a smile and life?In the second half of my life, I longed for a life of security, getting along with people I could talk to, spending carefree time together, not having to go against my will, and expressing joys, sorrows, and sorrows freely.
The so-called life, plain is the truth, there are too many pursuits, and you can't take it away after death. Therefore, for the rest of my life, I do not expect glory and wealth, but only want to spend a long time with the right person for me, and laugh loudly when I am happy, and have an excuse for sadness. All in all, life is nothing more than a time of pleasure in the pursuit of simplicity and simplicity.