I didn't play the role of a good husband in the family.
In the "Very Quiet Distance" talk show, actor Zhang Guoli once mentioned this sentence.
Perhaps it was because of his first marriage that Zhang Guoli would have such a statement.
Luo Xiuchun is Zhang Guoli's ex-wife.
Luo Xiuchun spared no effort to improve Zhang Guoli's career, she not only ran around to help Zhang Guoli take over the play, but even reduced her working hours to go home to take care of the children, and supported him wholeheartedly.
Despite this, Luo Xiuchun failed to maintain her marriage to Zhang Guoli.
Zhang Guoli soon married actor Deng Jie, which happened after his divorce.
As the years passed, if someone asked Zhang Guoli about his ex-wife, his face would become very ugly, and then he would say, "I'm sorry for her, but I will never let Deng Jie down." ”
What happened during this time?
Zhang Guoli's family was not wealthy during his childhood.
His father was a railway system worker and was not well paid.
The family has 5 siblings and most of the time their father is the one who supports them.
Zhang Guoli has had this consciousness since he was a child: "I want to go out to work as soon as possible to reduce the financial burden on my family." ”
Out of consideration for the interests of others, Zhang Guoli became a reporter of the Chengdu Railway Second Bureau Art Troupe by accident.
When Zhang Guoli first became an adult, his appearance was more cheerful and sunny.
His humorous, sensible and polite personality has attracted the attention of many girls.
Luo Xiuchun's figure is also among them.
Luo Xiuchun's family background is completely different from Zhang Guoli's.
Her father was a cadre in the railway system, while her mother was a factory director at a state-owned company.
At that time, having such an identity background was already regarded as quite superior.
However, Luo Xiuchun did not consider himself superior because of his identity.
She has always been low-key, even if she treats Zhang Guoli, who she likes very much, she has never been willing to show her heart.
Once, Zhang Guoli performed in the art troupe.
Luo Xiuchun stood quietly alone, and all the girls in the audience screamed and cheered.
She was also filled with excitement and excitement, but her naturally introverted personality prevented her from expressing this emotion.
Perhaps because of this unique place, Zhang Guoli can see Luo Xiuchun at a glance when he stands on the stage.
He mistakenly thought that Luo Xiuchun was not interested in his performance.
After the performance, Zhang Guoli immediately rushed to Luo Xiuchun and asked, "Isn't my performance interesting enough?"Why didn't you laugh out loud?”
When Luo Xiuchun heard the "dream lover" speak to her, she immediately blushed as an apple with shame.
Luo Xiuchun stammered this sentence: "Your performance is fantastic, I like it very much." Her face was redder than before.
Zhang Guoli was surprised to see such a shy girl for the first time.
He had uncontrollably heart-pounding emotions.
They fit in very well with each other and soon began a romantic love conversation.
originally thought that this pair of talented women who were such a match would win everyone's approval.
Luo Xiuchun and Zhang Guoli fell in love, but surprisingly, Luo Xiuchun's parents slapped the table directly to express their disagreement.
He is penniless, what is the merit of him?First of all, his conditions are not as good as ours;Secondly, as an actor, his work and feelings can be changeable and he will not be able to live a stable life with you.
Luo Xiuchun didn't listen to it at all, although the Luo family's parents analyzed the truth very powerfully.
I am him, and I am just to be with him!Luo Xiuchun firmly expressed her stubbornness.
Seeing that their daughter was so resolute, the Luo family's parents couldn't dissuade them, so they had to propose: "You bring that young man home for us to meet first, and if you make a good impression on us, we won't say anything more." ”
Luo Xiuchun naturally won't let her parents' expectations of her be disappointed, because they gave her a chance.
Soon after, Luo Xiuchun took Zhang Guoli home for dinner.
The Luo family's parents still have a lot of resistance to Zhang Guoli who has just entered the house.
At that time, Zhang Guoli's appearance looked very young, giving people a very attractive feeling of femininity.
The Luo family's parents are not willing to let their daughter marry a *** who is addicted to pleasure
Although the Luo family's parents still compromised, they saw that their daughter's eyes were full of Zhang Guoli's appearance.
They summoned Zhang Guoli to a room alone for questioning.
If you can take good care of Xiuchun and live up to her, we will give our daughter to you with confidence, because she is a pure-hearted child.
Looking at these words, the future father-in-law's tears were about to fall.
Some contradictory emotions suddenly appeared in Zhang Guoli's heart.
He subconsciously doubted his heart: "Is my liking for Luo Xiuchun real?"”
The problem only briefly appeared for two seconds, and then quickly disappeared.
Zhang Guoli then replied to the Luo family's parents very firmly: "Don't worry, I will treat Xiuchun well, she is my first love, and I will never let her down." ”
The second elder of the Luo family looked at Zhang Guoguo's sworn expression, and finally breathed a sigh of relief.
In 1991, Zhang Guoli and Luo Xiuchun tied the knot, and soon after, they welcomed a lovely son.
Their whole family was full of joy because of the birth of their son, but they also fell into trouble because of it.
In order to raise his son, Zhang Guoli worked hard in the troupe to perform dramas, and he used to complete a job every day as long as he rehearsed it.
Since having children, he not only has to rehearse plays every day, but also has to do some chores backstage, with the sole purpose of making money to support his family.
During that period, Zhang Guoli had almost no time at home, and he spent most of his time working in the regiment.
Luo Xiuchun saw that her husband was working so hard, so she didn't dare to trouble him when he was busy.
Every morning at 4 a.m., she gets up to prepare breakfast, then takes care of her husband, then comforts her son, and finally goes to work.
After work, she gets busy, cooking for her son and comforting him, and then waits for her husband to come home.
Luo Xiuchun's life is so monotonous every day, day after day.
Luo Xiuchun once took a vacation, and she was cooking at home and taking care of the children.
She was changing the baby's diaper while the water in the kettle was boiling, making a constant "whining" sound.
She was pulled by both sides, and Luo Xiuchun couldn't cope with it at all.
She then called for Zhang Guoli to come to help.
Although Luo Xiuchun shouted for a long time, Zhang Guoli stayed quietly in the room and did not make any response.
Luo Xiuchun had no choice but to hold the child to carry water.
After Luo Xiuchun finished carrying the water, she returned to the room, intending to figure out why she called Zhang Guoli for a long time without getting a response.
Zhang Guoli finally fell into a deep sleep, which became the result.
Luo Xiuchun was full of helplessness and grievances at that moment.
Her tears flowed down one drop after another as if they were uncontrollable.
I want to cry out loud.
Luo Xiuchun didn't cry, she was worried that she would wake up Zhang Guoli, and finally closed the door quietly and left.
Luo Xiuchun repeatedly said to herself: "My husband is just working too hard, he thinks about the family wholeheartedly, I have to understand him." ”
Luo Xiuchun's mood improved a lot, and she felt relieved when she thought of it.
What she loves deeply in her heart is Zhang Guoguo, and no one can replace her.
Zhang Guoli learned in 1983 that director Mi Jiashan planned to shoot a TV series called "The Crooked Stone Path".
Zhu Lin has been confirmed to play the heroine, and the selection of the actor is still in progress.
Zhang Guoli has always acted in dramas on stage, and has hardly set foot in the field of film and television dramas.
When he heard the news, he couldn't wait to give it a try.
However, given Zhang Guoli's qualifications and background at that time, it was not easy to get in touch with this great director.
Zhang Guoli sighed and sat on the small bench at home, wondering if he was really going to miss such a good opportunity.
He stared at the ground with a sad face, his eyes full of sadness.
Luo Xiuchun was also very uncomfortable in her heart, because she was so painful to see her husband.
She wanted to help Zhang Guoli, so she asked around to find out the situation.
Luo Xiuchun accidentally mentioned this to her father, and her father suddenly told her: "It seems that our next-door neighbor is the artist of that crew, and I plan to ask him." ”
When Luo Xiuchun heard this, his eyes suddenly lit up.
There will be such luck.
Luo Xiuchun couldn't wait, worried that it would be too long, so the next day she bought a large basket of fruits, and then, accompanied by her father, took Zhang Guoli to visit the neighbors.
The neighbors appreciated Zhang Guoli's acting skills, so they successfully recommended him to Director Mi Jiashan.
Zhang Guoli thus became the protagonist of "The Crooked Stone Path".
Although this TV series only has 3 episodes, its popularity is not inferior to today's works such as "Three Lives, Three Worlds, Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms", "Flower Thousand Bone" and so on.
He once won many awards such as the "Feitian Award".
Zhang Guoli has ushered in a new development in his career because of the fame of the TV series.
He didn't stay long before he was transferred to work at the Sichuan People's Art Theater.
Succeeded in obtaining a secure job security.
Zhang Guoli himself did not expect that his career would have such a huge change.
With great excitement, he hugged his wife Luo Xiuchun tightly and said, "Thank you for everything you have done for me, I will work harder to treat you well." ”
Zhang Guoli's sincerity touched Luo Xiuchun, and she was moved to tears.
In the eyes of others, the couple's married life looks very happy and happy.
However, when Zhang Guoli met Deng Jie, everything changed.
In 1984, when Zhang Guoli was on the rise in his career, he filmed a TV series called "The Password Was Not Leaked".
He got acquainted with a beautiful young actress named Deng Jie in this crew.
The two were only in a cooperative relationship at the time, plus both had families, so there was not much communication.
The opportunity for the two to talk formally was due to an accident.
There is a scene of a fierce quarrel between the two sides in this play.
Theoretically, as long as the two debate each other, the dispute would be over.
During the filming, Deng Jie suddenly had an emotional breakdown and began to cry, which surprised everyone.
Everyone present at the time thought that she was immersed in it and couldn't extricate herself, so only a few people stepped forward to comfort her and left.
Only Zhang Guoli felt that this matter was not so simple.
He slowly walked up to Deng Jie, handed her a glass of water, and then asked, "You seem to have something on your mind, don't you?"”
After Deng Jie heard this, she cried even more.
With tears in her eyes, she said, "I think I might be going to get divorced." ”
Deng Jie was originally a beautiful woman with outstanding appearance, but once she cried, she was even more sad and moving, as if pear blossoms brought rain.
Zhang Guoli felt a little unbearable in his heart, and at that time he wanted to come forward to comfort him, but considering that his identity was not suitable, he finally chose to remain silent.
Deng Jie later divorced, and the relationship between Zhang Guoli and Luo Xiuchun also cracked due to the long-term separation between the two places.
Deng Jie and Zhang Guoli did not expect that they would become husband and wife in the future.
Deng Jie became popular in 1987 for playing the role of "Wang Xifeng" in "Dream of Red Mansions", and was soon invited to join the crew of "Backwater Breeze".
At the beginning, Deng Jie didn't know that the male protagonist of this drama was Zhang Guoli, she just thought that this script was very good.
It wasn't until she arrived at the crew that she was surprised to find that it was Zhang Guoli who was working with her.
The two did not feel strange, because they had worked together before, and Zhang Guoli had comforted her before.
Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie have many intimate scenes in this drama.
Deng Jie no longer has a sad face every day, on the contrary, she has always been happy and happy.
Perhaps because of this reason, Zhang Guoli suddenly felt Deng Jie's charm.
Whenever Deng Jie appeared in front of him, Zhang Guoli would feel his heart beat faster, and his cheeks would involuntarily flush.
Luo Xiuchun had never felt this way.
At that time, Zhang Guoli didn't know that he had fallen in love with Deng Jie.
Once, Deng Jie enthusiastically invited the whole crew to drink water, and she specially distributed water carefully for everyone.
Zhang Guoli was extremely excited at that time.
Many words appeared in his heart, expecting that after Deng Jie gave him water, he would express his sincere gratitude to her.
However, he did not get this opportunity, and reality did not allow him to do so.
When she was called away, Deng Jie was holding the water and preparing to hand it to him.
With no other choice, Assistant Deng Jie gave Zhang Guoli a glass of water.
At that moment, his heart was filled with loneliness, and it was also at this moment that he realized what he really felt inside.
He developed a liking for Deng Jie.
Zhang Guoli is a man of action, and in order to pursue Deng Jie, he is desperate to leave everything else behind.
At that time, there were many people who pursued Deng Jie, and people sent flowers to her almost every day.
In order to attract the attention of the "goddess", Zhang Guoli came up with a solution.
Whenever Deng Jie received flowers, he would always walk up to him and ask, "Do your flowers need to be watered?"”
When she first asked, Deng Jie thought this person was very strange.
After a while, Deng Jie began to notice that Zhang Guoli admired her.
Deng Jie was extremely smart, she knew that Zhang Guoli already had a family at that time, so she resolutely rejected him: "I don't want to have a relationship with a married person." ”
Zhang Guoli reluctantly told her the truth, saying: "Xiuchun and I have been separated for a while, but we haven't officially divorced yet, if you are willing to be with me, I will go through the formalities as soon as possible." ”
Faced with Zhang Guoli's sincere expression, Deng Jie decided to agree.
However, not long after this incident happened, Zhang Guoli's wife, Luo Xiuchun, also learned about it.
Luo Xiuchun cried and asked Zhang Guoli: "You told me that you didn't fall in love with someone else!."”
Zhang Guoli remained silent and did not speak.
He had already realized that this would happen one day, but he didn't expect it to come so quickly.
Luo Xiuchun looked at her husband's performance, and her heart was like a knife.
She knew that this marriage was irretrievable, so she could only reluctantly propose: "Since this is the case, then divorce and the child belongs to me." ”
Luo Xiuchun's face was full of tears, and her heartbroken appearance made Zhang Guoli's heart ache like a knife.
Realizing that he felt guilty about both his wife and son, he decided to leave the house.
Zhang Guoli and Luo Xiuchun signed a divorce agreement in 1988, and their marriage eventually broke down.
Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie soon reunited after the divorce.
I thought that his life ushered in a happy second spring.
Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie made a fuss about divorce and marriage, and many negative rumors caused them great pressure, which was unexpected.
In desperation, they decided to leave Sichuan Renyi and go to Beijing to make a living.
They receive very few resources because there is no back-end shelter.
Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie have not found a suitable role to film for two consecutive years.
In order to earn a living and support his family, Zhang Guoli went out every day to look for work.
As long as there is a scene, he will shoot;As long as there is a role, he will play it.
If there was no other option, he would go for a part-time job and stand on the side of the road handing out flyers.
Deng Jie felt very uncomfortable, she saw Zhang Guoli working so hard, so she advised her husband: "You don't have to work so hard, we still have some savings, you can take your time." ”
When Zhang Guoli heard this, he shook his head.
Even though I have nothing at the moment, I will never let you down. Since you choose to follow me, I will definitely let you live a good life.
Zhang Guoli has always felt guilty about his ex-wife Luo Xiuchun.
However, now that the situation has developed to this point, he has no interest in dwelling on the past anymore, and is only thinking about how to deal with the matter in front of him.
He vowed never to disappoint Deng Jie again, and he was determined to protect her with all his heart.
In 1996, Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie, a couple who had been at a low ebb, finally ushered in the peak of their careers.
They co-starred in a costume drama called "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo".
Since then, Zhang Guoli has become famous.
Then, he successively starred in films such as "Kangxi Weifu Private Interview" and "Ji Xiaolan with Iron Teeth and Copper Teeth", and was warmly welcomed.
The back-to-back ratings of all three productions have reached record highs.
Zhang Guoli not only played the role of actor, but also promoted to producer and director.
Finally ushered in a beautiful day.
At this moment, Deng Jie suddenly made a request to Zhang Guoli: "Shall we have a child?"”
Zhang Guoli was still laughing, but after hearing this, his expression suddenly stiffened.
Having a dog will bring you company if you're feeling lonely.
Although the fact that Deng Jie was rejected by Zhang Guoli was not clearly expressed, anyone could feel it.
At that time, many outsiders thought that Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie didn't want children because of their ex-wives.
However, this claim has not been confirmed.
When Deng Jie and Zhang Guoli participated in the charity activities of the welfare home in 2005, they met a little girl who had no parents.
At that time, the little girl was still very young, and as soon as she saw Deng Jie, she directly called out "Mom".
In an instant, the audience was stunned.
The dean hurriedly picked up the little girl and prepared to leave the welfare home.
The dean was moved by Deng Jie's words, and she suddenly shouted, "I want to adopt this child." ”
Deng Jie has long aspired to be a mother, but she has never been able to have a child of her own.
She relented, after all, it was not easy for a little girl to be willing to call her mother, so of course she was unwilling to give up.
Deng Jie and Zhang Guoli adopted the little girl. That's it.
In 2008, when they went to the welfare home again for a charity event, they met a young boy.
Together, they again decided to adopt the boy.
Although the children were not born to Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie, in Deng Jie's opinion, they are like their own children.
Zhang Guoli is 67 years old, time flies, and time flies.
Zhang Guoli said of his ex-wife Luo Xiuchun: "I feel guilty about her. If I need help in the future, I will try to help, but only with Deng Jie's consent. ”
Although Zhang Guoli felt guilty about Luo Xiuchun, this did not prevent him from loving Deng Jie.
Zhang Guoli also wrote a love letter to Deng Jie on her birthday.
Even though today is your birthday, looking back on your life, I feel envious of you, because you lived your life wonderfully. The strong side is you, the gentle side is you, the lively side is you, the quiet side is still you, and the years have left good memories on us.