Accompany you to old age, destined.We often say that whether husband and wife can accompany each other until they grow old is the arrangement of fate. In fact, this is not superstition, but a deep understanding and perception of life.
Whether two people can come together, spend the wind and rain together, and enjoy the rainbow together, in fact, depends to a large extent on their choices and efforts, and these choices and efforts are the attitude and way of life.
In the life of a couple, everyone has their own thoughts and opinions, which is the diversity and richness of life.
However, when we are expressing our own opinions, we should not forget to build a platform for the other person to express their ideas.
This platform can be patient listening, a kind reminder, or an equal discussion. And when we are confronted with the other person's point of view, we should not tear down the stage, but should understand, respect and appreciate. Because, behind every point of view, is a person's thinking and growth.
No one is perfect, and everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. In married life, we should praise each other's strengths more than find fault with each other's shortcomings.
Because, praise can stimulate the other person's enthusiasm and self-confidence, and make the other person feel appreciated and understood. Pickiness, on the other hand, will make the other person feel denied and discouraged, and make the other person lose confidence and motivation.
Therefore, more praise and less criticism is the most important attitude in the life of a couple.
In married life, it is inevitable to encounter all kinds of problems and difficulties. In these times, we should share the pressure and burden of the other party more than to complain and blame the other party.
Because sharing can make the other party feel supported and cared for, and make the other person feel relied on and strengthened. Complaining and blaming can make the other person feel hurt and isolated, and make the other person feel helpless and hopeless.
Therefore, sharing more and complaining less is one of the most important qualities in the life of a couple.
Marriage is not a matter of one person, but of two people. In our married life, we need to grow together and practice together.
We need to learn together Xi how to deal with problems, how to express emotions, how to respect each other, and how to support each other. We need to face the challenges and difficulties of life together and share the joy and happiness of life together.
Because marriage is a practice of two people, only when two people work together and grow together, can they go further, more stable and better.
To sum up, whether husband and wife can accompany each other until old age is not determined by fate. Rather, it is determined by our own attitudes and behaviors. If we can build more platforms, not tear down the stage, praise more, be less critical, share more, complain less, and practice and grow together, then we may have a happy married life. Because a happy married life cannot be achieved by one person, it requires the joint efforts and dedication of both husband and wife, and only when two people work together can they go further, more stable and better.