The youth-themed TV series "The Year in a Hurry" was indeed a little disappointing in the finale. After Chen Xun lived with Shen Xiaotang, his ex-girlfriend Fang Wei suffered a great psychological blow and tortured herself in an extremely ignorant way.
Fang Wei mentioned Kwong Qiang's pursuit of her and agreed. After that, some kind of connection developed between the two. Fang Wei dedicated her first time to Kuang Qiang, but Kuang Qiang not only did not cherish this relationship, but instead used it as a topic in the boys' dormitory to show off his "achievements".
Stills from the TV series "The Year in a Hurry" show.
Kwong Qiang was labeled as a "bastard" in school, he was attentive, improper, liked to be in the dormitory, and did not speak properly enough. Many classmates who know his "character" "disagree" with him, which is enough to show how bad Kuang Qiang's behavior is.
Kwong Qiang is a standard bad boy, but his bad behavior is not without reason, in fact, Kwong Qiang has also suffered deep trauma in love.
After hearing Kuang Qiang mention the name "Fang Wei", Chen Xun lost control of his emotions and had a conflict with Kuang Qiang. The classmate who persuaded him mentioned that Fang Wei was Chen Xun's first love, and after Kuang Qiang heard it, although he was angry in his heart, he asked with sadness: "What happened to the first love?"I don't even know who to deal with my first love!”
Kuang Qiang's eyes were slightly red, and whenever he talked about his first love, his heart seemed to be full of complex emotionsWhen it comes to love, he seems to have a lot of troubles ......In his eyes, first love is an unforgettable experience, an emotion that is difficult to let go. He has always been a cynic, but later discovers that he has weaknesses as well.
I suddenly recalled the sentence "If a boy misses the girl he wants to marry the most, he will become casual, and no one is her anyway", behind Kuang Qiang's "casualness", there is a deep affection that he can't express.
Unable to get that sincere love, and because it became so difficult to love someone, he wandered the world in the image of a "prodigal son", which is undoubtedly a deep sadness.
Kwong Qiang seems to have caused harm to many girls, but in love, he is also seen as a "victim".
The encounter between Fang Wei and Kuang Qiang is destined to be a catastrophe, two men and women who have lost their emotions meet in this short-lived joy, but this is more of a deep loneliness.
Fang Wei told Chen Xun that when she and Kuang Qiang had something like that, she was always thinking about him.
It is usually the woman who is harmed, and Fang Wei is pregnant, and Chen Xun accompanied her to the abortion operation. Chen Xun hugged her who was weak, and her feelings were complex and changeable, but once many things happened, there was no turning back.
Fang Wei's moral decay did bring her a lot of pain.
There is an opinion that Fang Wei lacks self-esteem and self-love, and even if Chen Xun breaks up with her, she should not hurt herself. She was fighting alone. Only those who have been seriously injured and physically scarred can truly understand Fang Wei's sinking and despair.
Not only did she abuse herself in a childish way, but she also took revenge on Chen Xun. She tortures herself with "I love you", but uses "I hate you" to vent her resentment. Song Ning told Chen Xun: "Because she lost your company, she can only barely survive." ”
My heart aches when I see you holding my hand tightly, but holding someone else;The heartache is that your face is turning over my heart, but I can't face it. It hurts my heart that whenever I dream of you at night, I wake up to find myself in endless darkness.
The depraved Fang Wei and Kuang Qiang both suffered harm in love.
In our young days, in the face of the unknown, we are full of curiosity and fear, longing to be close but afraid of contact, and often in this confusion and hesitation, we lose the most sincere moments and the most precious people. Youth is a process that is constantly changing. In many cases, youth is not just a moment of blooming flowers, it is more like a chaotic and hasty end.
In our young days, we often regard love as the supreme responsibility, but we often ignore the self who dares to love and hate, because he is the most valuable person. Love is an eternal topic, but in real life, love is often ignored by some people, and these people are often indifferent to love. What Fang Wei and Kuang Qiang have lost is precisely their deep trust in love and recognition of themselves.
Many people hold the view that you can't move on with life without someone, that once you fall out of love, you can't have feelings for other people anymore, but that the pain will gradually lessen over time.
Avoid taking advantage of others' mistakes to discipline yourself. When you come out of your youthful years, you will realize that the importance of love is not so prominent in our lives.
Eason Chan sings in his song "Under Mount Fuji": "Please forgive me for not giving flowers anymore because the wound may leave a scar, and I will only be scared when the petals are covered in my inner graveyard." ”
For those who have decided to leave, they may think that your pain is contrived and that deep emotional disgust is constant entanglement;Now that fate has come to an end, why not end the relationship in a decent way.
Even if you can't turn around and leave in a handsome manner, please cherish yourself, don't sink, and don't let go easily. Falling out of love is a great tragedy in life. There will come a time when you'll treat a broken love as a joke.