Ask yourself, are you procrastinating?Have you ever procrastinated on anything?Presumably, many people will not answer no. Because this phenomenon is all too common among young people today. No matter where we are and what position we are, we must try to avoid procrastination, because it will only bring us negative impacts, and parents should remember these 3 methods, which are more effective than scolding.
First of all, parents need to understand why their children procrastinate
1.The child has no concept of time
Children's abilities are weak, and they are easily distracted, so they are naturally slower to do things, and many parents will urge their children to "hurry up!".Hurry up and do it!Be sure to do it within 10 minutes!”
But for children, he doesn't know the time, he doesn't know how fast "hurry" is, and how long "10 minutes" is, so he always comes at his own pace, not in a hurry or slow.
Psychologists' research proves that most 6-year-olds do not recognize watches, and they have no specific concept of how long a period of time is.
2.Parents are always pushing
When children are slow, parents love to urge, but urging will deprive the child of initiative, so that he cannot arrange his own time, if he urges too much, the child will not know what to do. Moreover, repeated urging may also arouse the child's rebellious psychology, and the more the child is urged, the less he wants to do it, and the slower the speed will be.
Dou Ma once went to a friend's house to play, just her little son came back from playing outside, just entered the door, the friend saw that the child's face was all dusty, and shouted: Go wash your face, how did you get dirty!
Increase your child's sense of urgency
The lack of moderate tension is an important reason for many children's friction, so parents can "create" a tense atmosphere in their children's lives, so that their nerves are tense and the pace of their children's lives is accelerated. According to the specific situation of the child, you can add some timed activities to the child's washing, dressing, eating and homework, how long it takes to do these things, agree with the child in advance, and then ask the child to complete it in the specified time with quality and quantity, the child will be given a certain reward if he does well, and a certain punishment will be given if he does not do well.
Let your child appreciate the value of time
Let your child appreciate the value of timeOnly when children feel that it is beneficial to do things quickly can they really be quick in action. For example, teach your child how to allocate time and arrange things in a proper order. When your child is able to complete things efficiently and with high quality through continuous improvement, you can give your child more free time.
Let your child have plenty of time to exercise and sleep
Your child should not spend less than 1 hour a day on physical activity and no less than 10 hours of sleep. Lack of sleep can affect development and also affect intelligence. Long-term lack of sleep, low Xi efficiency, and declining grades. It is also important to give your child free time to make friends, read, and develop hobbies.
The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning Xi methods, the stronger the child's Xi in learning.
I would like to share with you a set of books that teach children to learn time management, "Watch at School" series.
This set of 8 books is suitable for children in the lower grades, and corresponds to the key issues in children's learning Xi, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
A set of 8 volumes, ** is not expensive, but it can cultivate children's time management skills and become excellent children.
Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.
While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......
This set of extracurricular reading materials imported from South Korea can help children quickly adapt to school life, cultivate good XiXi learning habits, and develop good time management Xi habits from an early age.
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