Introduction. Time passes in a hurry, the years can't be kept, the green mountains are still there, and the sunset is red several times.
An ignorant teenager who once entered society for the first time has now left the workplace and entered retirement.
After retirement, even if you have money and time, don't do these 5 things frequently, be self-disciplined!
01. Don't do things that consume "energy" frequently.
After retirement, we are getting older, whether we have money or not is secondary, wealth and life, we can't force it.
But your body can still be well maintained, don't frequently do things that consume your body's "energy".
For example, many elderly people now like to exercise outdoors, and the way of exercise is very important, do not overdo it, or choose some more strenuous exercises, which are easy to get injured.
Don't overuse electronic products, such as mobile phones and TVs, as staring at your phone all day long can damage your eyesight.
Try to go to bed before 10 o'clock at night, don't stay up late, staying up late is very wear and tear on the body.
When people are old, they must save their physical strength, take good care of their bodies no matter how rich they are, be modest, and be extremely self-disciplined, otherwise they will not have the strength to enjoy life.
02. Don't go to restaurants outside frequently to eat.
After retirement, if conditions permit, try to buy and cook by yourself, don't go to restaurants to eat frequently, or covet convenience and order takeout directly.
Three meals a day, firewood, rice, oil and salt, cooking by yourself is indeed more cumbersome and time-consuming, but it is more nutritious, and the hygiene situation can be controlled by yourself.
Some of the so-called restaurants outside look luxuriously decorated and of high grade on the outside, but it is difficult for us to know what the sanitary conditions are inside.
These restaurants, the hygiene situation is uneven, and it is several times more expensive than cooking and eating by yourself, which is really not worth it.
03. Don't have frequent contact with the opposite sex outside, and know how to avoid suspicion.
After retirement, it is good to go out often to meet some new people, which can enrich your life, and also have someone to chat.
As a family member, if you meet some people of the opposite sex in the process of participating in some activities outside, you should keep a certain distance and treat it as an ordinary friend, and don't think too much.
The so-called "twilight love", although it sounds very beautiful, but it must also be on the premise that both parties are single.
When people are old, they should cherish their reputation, and don't add *** to the opposite sex they just metYou must know how to avoid suspicion, after all, there are many people outside, and some gossip will affect the harmony of family relationships.
04. Don't travel far away frequently, there are some risk factors in unfamiliar places, and you should pay attention to safety first.
After retirement, even if you have money and nowhere to spend, try not to travel far away frequently.
Travel, as it sounds beautiful, can enjoy the scenery of the journey, can broaden your horizons, but after all, tourism is to go to some strange places, for the elderly, there are indeed some unknown risks.
For example, whether the local medical facilities are perfect, in case of any emergencies in the body, whether you can get it in time, this is what we have to consider in advance.
Rather, when traveling far away, you must take a plane or high-speed rail, and the journey is long, and you will have to travel all the way, eat and sleep badly, and the loss of your body is also very large.
05. Don't lend money to your children frequently, it's wise to keep it in mind.
After retirement, if your children are able to live independently, try to let them earn money to support their families and cultivate their ability to live independently.
If your children often reach out to you to borrow money, you can help you if you are able.
But remember not to ask for 50,000 yuan from your children too often, at most for help.
One or twenty thousand is fine.
Spoiling your children too much will harm your children.
As elders, more often than not, we have to consider our own pension issues, after all, after retirement, there are still a long years in life, and there are still a lot of expenses in all aspects of life.
No matter how rich we are, it is impossible to arrange the life of our children, and our parents will eventually grow old one day, and the younger generation will have to be in charge of their own family and themselves.
When we are old, the future will be left to young people to struggle, not to interfere too much, and to exercise the children's ability to live independently, which is a far-sighted approach.
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