Before I got married, I was also a very cheerful and laughing girl. I like to chase a life of freedom, I like to travel, I like to enjoy life.
But after I got married, my life changed a lot. I lost my freedom and the life I wanted.
once dreamed of going to the end of the world with a sword, but every day the child hung by his side, without anyone's help, as if he was a mother who had lost her soul.
Being a mother is a happy thing, but being yourself is an unhappy thing. I gave up a lot because of the kids.
The dreams of the past can only be imagined, but it is difficult to move an inch. I want to give my child a good life, but I can't give him good company. Therefore, it is wrong to choose a job or to be with your children.
Without economic **, I am like a beggar who has to live a life of looking at the eyes.
I once tried to go out to work alone, but I was reluctant to leave my children behind, which was really a dilemma.
The face that used to be now seems to be no longer happy, and I can't see my once youthful self. Now all that remains is exhaustion and vicissitudes of life.
You no longer pay attention to dressing up, you no longer pay attention to socializing, you revolve around your child every day, and you have to plan her future and life. On the way to educate children, there is always a headache.
Sometimes, because of his naughtiness, you will become a grumpy mother, but you were not a bad-tempered person.
Therefore, after having a child, it seems that he has changed his personality, from a person who loves to laugh to a short-tempered person.
If I could do it all over again, I probably wouldn't have chosen this kind of life. But it's already too late, it's too late.
I think many people have changed after getting married. Perhaps less naïve and cheerful, more responsibility and patience.
In the face of your child's crying, you should educate him well and tell him well, not to be angry with him. They all say, what kind of parents, what kind of children are taught.
If you are a short-tempered person, your children will be like you.
The reason why more and more people are reluctant to get married may also be because after becoming parents, they seem to have lost their former selves.
After becoming a mother, no matter how she dresses up, she no longer looks like a girl, and her eyes also reveal a trace of confusion and helplessness.
I can't find a happy smile on my face, and even if I have something on my mind, I don't dare to show it, so I can only digest it by myself.
When I grew up, I found that we were all drifting apart, whether it was family or love, it seemed to be getting farther and farther away from us. I don't tell my parents about my troubles, I can only hold them in my heart.
Many of the troubles of adults may have to be digested by themselves, because you can't find someone to talk to, and no one wants to listen to your nonsense.
Why do many people want to go back to their childhood, because only at that time is the carefree self and the real self.
At that time, you could laugh happily or cry sadly, but now you can't, whether you are happy or sad, you can't show it on your face.
There are many unsatisfactory things in life, whether before or after marriage. Everyone is responsible for their own lives, and if you choose this path, you can only accept your fate.