When you first meet love, it will be like glue. But no one can guarantee that love will never deteriorate, when the relationship changes, even if it is once loved, they will leave each other without hesitation.
Fate will come as it is said and will go, and it will not be transferred by the will of the individual.
Therefore, fate comes to cherish fate, fate goes with fate, don't regret what you did and punish yourself for the love you once had. In terms of feelings, we have to be a person who goes with the flow, accept what fate gives us, and don't compete with it, it will only hurt ourselves.
When a person doesn't love you, don't do these stupid things
01, hard work.
In this life, people may have loved, perhaps hated, perhaps missed, or passed by, when all the past has disappeared, all attempts to redeem are in vain.
When you love someone, you do everything right, and when you don't love someone, you do everything wrong. Love is like this, it is easy to accept those who love, but to reject those who do not love thousands of miles away.
Wang Jun and Jin Ling have been in love for three years, but when Jin Ling went on a business trip to the company, she met a young man, who was better than Wang Jun in terms of appearance and family background.
After she came back from a business trip, Wang Jun prepared a candlelight dinner at home and specially washed the dust for her.
During the meal, Jin Ling burst into tears, she said that she had another love and no longer loved Wang Jun. Wang Jun asked why, did the three-year relationship forget it?Wang Jun disagreed. Dinner ended in sorrow.
The next day, Wang Jun came to Jin Ling's house to look for Jin Ling, just in time for Jin Ling to go on a date with her new boyfriend. Wang Jun knelt in front of Jin Ling, holding Jin Ling's legs with both hands and begging Jin Ling to stay, but Jin Ling was still unmoved.
Emotional matters can only be moved, not controlled.
Everyone has an emotional side, and people who are deeply emotional, when they hear the other person say they don't love it, they must not be able to accept it. However, feelings, whether you go or stay, you have to accept it, just like we have to accept the good or bad weather.
Therefore, love and hate follow fate, even if the other party breaks up with you, don't keep it, the fruit that is forcibly picked is not sweet, it is a truth that everyone understands.
Love is a thing of the past, no matter how much the broken love is repaired, it is difficult to return to the original, it is better not to miss it, it is better not to think about it, to find your original feeling, travel lightly, and look for the next relationship, which is the most fundamental thing.
02. Self-deprecation.
When the relationship ends, some people will blame themselves, and they will feel that they are not good enough, have done the wrong thing or said the wrong thing, so the other party will not love them.
Actually, it's not like this, feelings don't talk about reasons, love and hate are just feelings. Even if you look ugly, there may be a handsome guy who falls in love with you, and it basically depends on whether you can provide emotional value to the other person.
Leaving doesn't mean that you're not good enough, it can only mean that the fate of two people is not good.
Wang Ling and Liu Jian have been in love for two years, and in the past two years, Wang Ling has been very humble in love. She took the initiative to buy clothes for Liu Jian, snacks and ......Take the initiative to wash people's clothes and tidy up ......the house
However, although Wang Ling did her best, she still couldn't keep Liu Jian's heart.
After Liu Jian met the new employee Li Ying in the company, he and Wang Ling went farther and farther away. Two months later, Liu Jian and Li Ying confirmed their relationship and broke up with Wang Ling.
After the breakup, Wang Ling asked for sick leave from her company, did not go to work for a week, locked herself in the house and did not go out, and washed her face with tears every day. This saddened Wang Ling's parents.
They went around trying to persuade their daughters, but to no avail. The daughter seemed to be frightened, and told her parents that she was too ugly, that she was too short, and that her personality was not ......good enough
Feelings that are humble to the dust, even if they bloom, will be trampled on, and they will not be happy. Although Wang Ling self-examines, she will not get back together in the way of self-examination if she doesn't love.
No matter how much you love, you must keep dignity for yourself, don't belittle yourself too much, and don't lose yourself for the people and things of the past.
03. Trapped in place.
Emotionally, it is a kind of luck that you love me, and it is also the norm in the world to love but not love, there is no need to entangle the pain for a relationship that has passed, and there is no need to stand still for a person you don't love.
The true gesture in the face of love is to let yourself continue to improve.
Liu Meng is a painter whose works are outstanding and has participated in many exhibitions. And she also met her first boyfriend during the exhibition.
The boy is handsome and elegant in conversation. They only met three times before the relationship was confirmed.
In the days they were together, they traveled to Europe together, went to Sanya, Hainan for a vacation, and had candlelight dinners together ......
However, later, her boyfriend chose to break up for some reason, and Liu Meng didn't understand the reason.
Although Liu Meng has deep feelings for her boyfriend, she didn't be unable to extricate herself because of the breakup, but became very good friends with her boyfriend and encouraged each other. Later, Liu Meng became a highly qualified painter.
Love is not the whole of life, it is just a process, although it can change life, but don't regard it as the focus of your life.
No matter what the reason for falling out of love, don't be blocked by past feelings to stand still, but muster up the courage to move forward.
Life, step by step scenery, a journey has a beautiful journey. When you cross the mountain in front of you, you will find a different kind of beautiful scenery.
04, love, I am lucky, I lose my life, get along well together, do not bless each other together, you will live up to the years, live up to life, and live up to yourself.
There will always be sudden encounters in this world, unexpected likes, and of course, unexpected encounters and nostalgic endings.
Those who come from the sea of people return it to the sea of people, let the flowers become flowers, let the trees become trees, let themselves be themselves, and let others be back to others.
Don't disturb each other, don't interfere with each other, and each is well.
*Originated from the Internet invasion and deletion.