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Zhang Hao and I were college classmates, and we stayed in Beijing to work hard together after graduation. I am 26 years old, with a monthly salary of 16,000, and I work as a planner in an advertising agency. Zhang Hao works as a programmer in an Internet company, and his monthly salary is higher than mine. We've been together for three years and we've always had a good relationship. At the end of last year, I unexpectedly became pregnant. When I told Zhang Hao about this, he seemed a little flustered, but he still said that he would be responsible for me and told me not to worry.
We discussed it and decided to tell both parents the news first. When my parents found out, they were a little worried, but they still said they would support our decision. Zhang Hao's mother gave me an unexpected answer.
That day, I went to his house with Zhang Hao. When my mother-in-law found out that I was pregnant, her face became very serious. She told me that her family has no money to buy a wedding house and that they have a three-year-old brother-in-law to take care of. Her words struck me as a little incredible, and I thought she was joking. Looking at her serious expression, I knew it was true.
I was stunned and didn't know how to respond. Zhang Hao stood aside, looking a little embarrassed. I looked at him, hoping he would say something. But he just bowed his head and remained silent, as if acquiescing to his mother's statement.
I felt both angry and disappointed. I think of the three years that Zhang Hao and I have been together, we have spent many happy times together, and we have also experienced many difficulties together. I have always believed that we will walk through all this hand in hand and move towards a happy future. However, now, I realize that the reality is not as beautiful as I imagined.
I didn't know what to do, so I had to tell my parents about it first. When they heard this, they were also very angry. My mom said, "What do they mean by that?"I don't have the money to buy a wedding house, and I have a child in tow, so how can we rest assured that we will marry you?”
My father also frowned and said, "Yes, in this situation of their family, you will definitely suffer if you marry." You're still young, you can't just delay yourself. ”
I was silent, feeling very aggrieved in my heart. I remembered that Zhang Hao had promised me that he would give me a happy home. Now, however, he acquiesced to his mother's approach. This disappointed me.
During that time, I was in a very low mood. Zhang Hao came to me and wanted to comfort me. But I didn't want to see him, I felt like he wasn't the person I knew anymore.
About a month later, Zhang Hao came to me again. He told me that he had spoken to his mom and that his mom had agreed to buy us a wedding house and would do her best to help us take care of the children. He also said that he would work hard to give his children a better living environment.
Hearing this, the anger and disappointment in my heart eased a little. When my parents found out, they were also relieved. They said, "Since their family has agreed to these conditions, then you can live well." ”
So, Zhang Hao and I began to prepare for the wedding. However, it was at this time that I discovered a secret that shocked me. It turned out that the reason why Zhang Hao's mother suddenly changed her mind was because she learned that my father's company was about to go public recently, and she felt that our family was rich, so she agreed to buy us a wedding house.
When I learned the secret, I felt sick in my heart. I think Zhang Hao's mother is too snobbish, and she doesn't really want to be nice to us at all. And Zhang Hao also made me feel very disappointed. I felt like he wasn't the same person I knew anymore, he had become strange and cold.
I hesitated for a long time and finally decided to give up on the relationship. I know it could be a cruel decision for the child in my belly. However, I really can't accept such a family. I want my children to grow up in a loving environment and not be surrounded by snobbery and calculation.
I broke up with Zhang Hao, and I was alone with my children. Although life was difficult, I never regretted my decision. I believe that as long as I work hard, I will be able to give my children a bright future.
And Zhang Hao, I heard that he later found a girlfriend. But I don't know if he remembers the relationship we had. Perhaps, in his heart, that relationship has long been replaced by reality. But in my heart, that relationship can never be replaced. Because it taught me what true love is and what false love is.